Would "Abhira" be called Abheera and hated had she been baby Birla? - Page 2

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I dislike her coz she does not know where to draw the line in boundaries..she thinks she is helping but it's triggering trauma ..

She says one thing and does not follow when it comes to herself

Running away with some one else kid and then acting as if it was not a mistake when others taunt..u ran away trauma or whatever but u did ..then u need to accept consequences of that action

@bold when she thought it was not a mistake? Abhira apologized to Daksh for separating him from his biological mother. She realized her mistake and returned Daksh to his parents. One of the reason she is angry with Armaan is he made her believe that Daksh is BSP. She couldn't accept reality and took him away considering him her child. Abhira didn't kidnap Daksh in her senses, regardless of anything she was wrong and must apologize to Ruhi.

@red Ruhi knows how to draw boundaries? She also triggered Abhira's trauma by taunting her over infertility several times. She triggered Abhira's trauma by wishing harm on her unborn child. Ruhi is always curious about Abhira's personal matters. Why?

For me Abhira was wrong in requesting Ruhi to breastfeed her child. She was wrong in suggesting co-parenting. Abhira didn't intentionally triggered Ruhi still it was wrong.

Hated ka toh nahi patabut Abhira is being called "ABHEERA" because the latter name was also very evidently spelt in the show itself many a times-in many legal documents, phone contacts, engagement bridal entry etc., etc. So, the show itself gave people justified reasons to spell her name by any one among the two, as they feel like....

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

People shouldn’t be hating daughter because of her father even though the father was changed at the last minute due to obvious reasons.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold when she thought it was not a mistake? Abhira apologized to Daksh for separating him from his biological mother. She realized her mistake and returned Daksh to his parents. One of the reason she is angry with Armaan is he made her believe that Daksh is BSP. She couldn't accept reality and took him away considering him her child. Abhira didn't kidnap Daksh in her senses, regardless of anything she was wrong and must apologize to Ruhi.

@red Ruhi knows how to draw boundaries? She also triggered Abhira's trauma by taunting her over infertility several times. She triggered Abhira's trauma by wishing harm on her unborn child. Ruhi is always curious about Abhira's personal matters. Why?

For me Abhira was wrong in requesting Ruhi to breastfeed her child. She was wrong in suggesting co-parenting. Abhira didn't intentionally triggered Ruhi still it was wrong.

First of all let the complete track wakay mei ruhi ka hi bacha hei ya nhi then poppy fans speak tab tak they should shut there mouths. Bacha aur ruhi ki bonding toh choro bache ko ruhi k sath dekhate tak nhi

when i see support for ruhi after her wishing death for roht.....i can b very sure...ki abhira ko koi bhi connection hota trashmanyu girela ke character se...to ruhi wakai mein majority ko vilaain hi dikhti...😂

TBH I really liked makers not showing akshu and manyu...and kept abhira a total akshu abhinav ki bitiya...😂

Abhira ki hatred alag level ki hai and 95% come from "Team Abhimanyu". Your scenario 1 makes me think because Aarohi was called as Jharu and hated same way and even way more by same people. However, when Akshu married Abhinav, the hated shifted to her but she was still loved when she was back to him. Now supporting Roohi for same makes it super clear its only because she has connection with poppy.

For me it's super hard to relate with any FL. There are times when I love her and times when I don't as well. They behave most stupid and dumb some times and other times total sense. And I cannot love and support her blindly also because she is Abhinavs daughter because there are times even when his character annoyed me.

But honestly I feel hating any fictional character or even real person actor be it manyu, Abhira, vamp Roohi, Pranali or anyone so much is disturbing for anyone's mental health. If I cannot connect with the main characters, don't watch and return when we see atleast something that we enjoy. That's why I skip most of the episodes kyunki episode dekhke doosro ko chodo apna hi mind kharab hoga. Waise hi life has tensions who wants to take this stupid fictional characters/actors tension also. Itv or Bollywood should be for entertainment. Yeh baat hum sab samajh le tho life will be peaceful.

Its okay I am not going to try to convince anyone otherwise.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

FL is always hated by a section of online viewers because of her long lectures and mahanta syndrome (obviously there are exceptions).

BUT

I'm 100% sure if Abhimanyu-Akshara's biological daughter or even the daughter they raised together (Abhinav-Akshara's biological child) was the FL a small section of online viewers wouldn't have supported cheater, two-timer, manipulator, revengeful girgit like Ruhi over Abhira.

Imagine hating Akshara Sharma because she moved on too quick from one man to another, to find father ji but supporting Ruhi Birla and addressing her wrongdoings as "mistakes" or "triggered by trauma" she literally wanted to get married to jeth g while being a married woman. She wanted to destroy a home with her 7 step plan. If any other character did something like this we would have seen paragraphs condemning their actions.

Ruhi is a fictional character who was/is sabotaged but Akshara & Abhira are not fictional characters?

See, even I probably may not be Abhira fan...

Because I just don't like typical FLs in general...

But I believe, anyone who claims to not like FL because of her *Characteristics* and *would have been same had she been Birla* are lying when they blindly support and sympathize with lusty woman like Chuhi! That character is shitty!! No sane person can claim that they don't like Abhira because she is mahaan, loud, and overkind, etc. But are okie with not-even-a-lead character cursing new born baby, rushing to find baby's gender, tries to unite with her husband to stay close fo his brother, expects to find Beech ka Rasta with jeth ji or decks up as dulhan in his jeth's wedding and begs him to marry her... Lol...

And inspite of all this, what Abhira has done is quite minimal... She has been stupid one without any self respect but atleast she isn't a moron... Abhira's mistakes are minimal...

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

I was discussing about this with someone in another forum. I probably would still dislike Abhira as my main problem is her behaviour and the way she acts not her father who has no relation in this new gen.

For example most Ghum members were Sairat fans yet most of them dislike ‘Badi Savi’ even though she is their daughter solely due to her obnoxious behaviour.

Heck I used to dislike Naira who was OG Akshara ki Beti as I hated her behaviour. She was just too irritating and mahaan. A complete joke after her mother.

This is my viewpoint as a neutral unbiased member

And I can agree to what you write here.. Because I haven't seen you support trash like Ruhi..

I probably only liked Akshara Singhaniya and Akshara Sharma (definitely not Birla) ... In Rishta leads era..

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Itna sochna na pade isliye, Har gen main ek hi daughter hoti haa. Mostly I guess whoever is born first

In any scenario, AKshu's firstborn daughter would have been the lead

But I would have loved Abhira, irrespective of who her father was.

I think we both are on same page, but looking at Twitter and social media pages...Abhinav ke fans bhi kuch kam nai hai but I don't know about this forum ka haal... Mostly I have seen Abhira hate threads bhar bhar ke..

But do you think people would have hated Abhira less if she had been Trash's khoon? Or his parvarish?