Originally posted by: Afrinaparvin
I know we all are angry and disappoint with Amruta as she's behaving so weird and she's almost unrecognizable person for us if we compare her life after and before marriage.But I want to focus why instead of doing so wrong with Amruta, she still wants to give Virat a chance, wants to respect the marriage, wants to accept the marriage.
So the first guy who entered in Amruta's life,her first fiance, according to the lohri conversation, Amruta said,he wanted to settle in abroad and wanted her to leave her family, just because he weared her ring, he wanted to dominate her life,he wanted to control her life.If she would married him,then obviously her life would be finished,he would be another Viraj,he wouldn't allow her to keep relation with her parents,he even would mentally and physically tortured her.Virat didn't break her first alliance,it was she who broke it.
Now talk about her second fiance, Gautam.He broke off the relation first because of Amruta's parents relation revealed but then again gave proposal just because he learnt that Amruta is doing job and Virat is her boss.So out of greed,he resend the proposal.Now if we minus his greedy side, but didn't he too was mommy's boy? Didn't his mother too was dominant person in his family? Didn't he obey what his mother said and whenever his mother insulted Amruta and her family,did he object?No.He's not only mommy's boy but also greedy and dowry lover type person.If Amruta had married him then what would happen with her?Gautam said he would buy a new flat near their society and cost was maybe 2 crore and Amruta had to carry the loan too and also the way that greedy man love money,if his boss would be awww seeing Amruta and offered him to send her to him for one night or more,he would easily sold her like Rajeev did with Nimrit.Virat went to reveal Amruta's parents truth to Aji not to break her alliance but just because of him, Amruta was saved from that greedy moron, otherwise her life would be finished pathetically.
And talk about her own father whom she loved the most, was another betrayer man.So her experience with men that entered in her life were good? Her father,her first fiance,her second fiance?No,never.
Now talk about Virat and Amruta's relation.Ok so he's the one who indirectly and directly made her life worst.But it is also he who make her comfortable,with whom she was able to share her sorrowful incidents,and also it was he who directly and indirectly helped her from many problems.And also when he said Anjali will help you,she said if not you,I don't need anyone's help.And also when she entered Ahuja house as bahu, when she purposely locked Virat in bathroom and in morning she entered,she said "ek aap ke sath hi baat karti thi(about her problems)par apne toh awaz hi chin li".So directly and indirectly we get many hints that Amruta always feel secure,safe and comfortable around Virat even during mela wedding and also after coming back to her house,she was angry,hurt and felt betrayed but she didn't feel afraid, depressed,sick around Virat after seeing his worst side.And I think considering all this, Amruta is soft towards Virat,she starts to fall for him because he didn't torture her physically and mentally after their marriage, didn't snatch her individuality, didn't want to control her life,didn't stop her to go to her parents house, didn't force her to give him money for staying at his house, didn't force her to work,cook for his family, didn't force her physically and intimately.He's at least better than Jayesh,her first fiance and that Gautam.And that's why she wants to give this marriage a chance maybe.She wants to believe him,she wants to believe a man,she wants to lead a good life with her husband,her in law,she is expecting to win sick people's love to start fresh married life.
So I don't think I would be able to rude with my Amruta anymore as she's so much innocent and so much lovely person.She suffers a lot and now just want a peaceful life.She has flaws too but she's great enough to shadow those flaws.
I don't know what I write is right or wrong, but I just write what I feel seeing Amruta's soft side towards Virat instead of his harsh side which he showed to Amruta during mela.
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