Ash: Thank God for give me the best in laws ever - Page 4

Originally posted by: RaniPreityAish

Your posts are usually so absurd that there's no point in responding to them but I can't help myself here because the actual pics you posted as "proof" go completely against your assertions.

You said Aish kicked Abhishek out of her bedroom because she wanted to be alone with her daughter. Abhishek's own interview you posted has him say he struggled with Aaradhya's sleep schedule and could not go back to sleep after waking. How Aishwarya advised him to sleep in a separate room so he would not be disturbed because he would need a good night's sleep for shooting the next day.

This is very common for new parents, particularly if one parent is working and the other is stay-at-home. Obviously you are not married and lack a child if you don't know this, or you very much know this but disregard it as it doesn't fit your narrative. I just have to laugh at your audacity for making up words in Abhishek's mouth when he said something else completely.

You also said Aishwarya never let Amitabh hold the baby. There were entire articles about how when the family left the hospital after the birth, it was Amitabh walking out holding Aaradhya. Not Aish or Abhishek.

https://bollyspice.com/abhishek-bachchan-i-hope-beti-b-realizes-the-joy-she-has-brought-with-her/

In a wonderful tradition, Amitabh was the one to carry the baby from the hospital, “Carried her from the hospital as per tradition. My Father carried her father home”.

You can also see hear that Abhishek admitted it took him a while to get used to being considered a father as part of his identity.

At the press conference he said, “I’m still getting used to the fact that I’m a father now. I am still getting use to being referred to as dad. Whenever I read in the paper and anyone referred to me as ‘her Pa’ I would think it is my dad whom I call Pa that they were writing about, so yes it is going to take a little for me to get used to being referred as a father because for me there is only one Pa — that is my father. It would take some time for the feeling to sink in, because for me the definition of father is Amitabh Bachchan.”

Mothers will generally always have a closer bond to their child because they gave birth to them. The same reason why some fathers cannot connect to their unborn child until after the birth. It's an actual hormone that mothers get during birth to make them bond. Rani also had an interview where she said she didn't believe in the unconditional love from a mother to her child until she had her own.

Your posts and the stories you create are not only absurd but beyond absurd. I didn't make up that Ash kicked out Abhishek from the bedroom. Abhishek said that Ash kicked him out of the bedroom.

Here's the original article published in The Times of India where Abhishek said he has been shut out of the bedroom several times and that Ash has relegated him to the background and that Ash didn’t want him to handle their baby when she was younger.

Aishwarya didn't let Amitabh and Jaya bond with her daughter. The only time Aishwarya let Amitabh hold her daughter was when they exited the hospital and that was to show the world that Aishwarya Rai gave birth to legend Amitabh Bachchan's grandchild and Bachchan family heir.

Here's another article about why Aaradhya is never seen with Jaya and that she's only spotted with Aishwarya's mother Vrinda Rai.

Your assumption that I'm not married or I don't have a child is incorrect. I have a lovely family and thank God my wife didn't shut me out of the room like Aishwarya did to Abhishek and I'm thankful my wife let me handle our child unlike Ash not letting Abhishek hold Aaradhya.

https://www.filmibeat.com/bollywood/gupshup/2017/aaradhya-bachchan-does-not-spend-much-time-with-jaya-bachchan-aishwarya-rai-bachchan-268415.html

Originally posted by: Rangaaa

Nobody becomes a superstar by marrying a popular figure. I am sure then 60 year old Bachchans, veterans in the film industry knew this. Their IQ levels are not of teens.

Even before internet, before marrying Aishwarya, Abhishek was criticized as an actor. He is Amitabh Bachchan's son. He would be attacked either way.

Does it ever occur to you that they must not be interested in movie industry?

Navya is interested in business management. Why should she be an actor? Yeh kya zabardasti hai?

So actors/actress kin should be in movies. It's a compulsion. They don't have / shouldn't have any interests in other fields.

Not superstar, but Abhishek barely even had the level of a star then. Marrying a famous figure makes one famous too, for better or for worse. Would anyone know or care about Gauri if she wasn't married to SRK? Suzanne if she hadn't been married to Hrithik? Bollywood has whole shows on star wives which people watch entirely because of the men these women are married to. Would anyone watch if they were married to businessmen or doctors?

Anushka rose in stature from marrying Virat. PC rose in stature in America for marrying Nick. Nick rose in stature in India for marrying PC since I doubt the average Indian knew who he was before. There's a reason Alia wanted to be the Kapoor bahu because she knows she's cemented a place in the industry as part of their family.

It's also why the actresses who married outside of Bollywood become irrelevant, like Urmila, Juhi, Raveena, Karishma, Preity, Sonam, Parineeti, etc. The ones who marry into film families (even if they come from one themselves) remain relevant whether Sridevi, Kajol, Aishwarya, Rani, Kareena, or Alia.

Bachchans have never launched a female member of the family. Jaya has interviews where she says after her marriage, she would only work in the films she was contracted to work before retiring. Something changed in that marriage when she returned to films decades later (maybe her kids being grown up). Now, when she's asked if she has to take her husband's permission to act in films, she gets angry and claims he is not her keeper. But this wasn't the case during their marriage's early years when even Rekha has an interview saying she was crazy for giving up her career for a man.

Abhishek and Agastya were both launched, not Shweta and Navya. Aish stopped working regularly in films after marriage. Only sporadically, like Jaya herself. All signs point towards the Bachchans being very patriarchal when it comes to women working in films. It's the same thing with the Kapoors when they cut off ties with Babita when she wanted to launch Karishma. None of the Kapoors came to Karishma's wedding since they weren't on good terms then. It took Karishma to break that glass ceiling for the Kapoors but who will do it for the Bachchans?

It's not a secret that Amitabh is very patriarchal. Remember when Aaradhya was born and SRK congratulated him on Twitter for being a grandfather again. Amitabh corrected him, saying this is his first time becoming a grandfather. This child carries the Bachchan name whereas Shweta's kids don't so he doesn't consider them his grandchildren. Hopefully he's amended his views on that years later.

Originally posted by: Sparkling_Wine

Your posts and the stories you create are not only absurd but beyond absurd. I didn't make up that Ash kicked out Abhishek from the bedroom. Abhishek said that Ash kicked him out of the bedroom.

Here's the original article published in The Times of India where Abhishek said he has been shut out of the bedroom several times and that Ash has relegated him to the background and that Ash didn’t want him to handle their baby when she was younger.

Aishwarya didn't let Amitabh and Jaya bond with her daughter. The only time Aishwarya let Amitabh hold her daughter was when they exited the hospital and that was to show the world that Aishwarya Rai gave birth to legend Amitabh Bachchan's grandchild and Bachchan family heir.

Here's another article about why Aaradhya is never seen with Jaya and that she's only spotted with Aishwarya's mother Vrinda Rai.

Your assumption that I'm not married or I don't have a child is incorrect. I have a lovely family and thank God my wife didn't shut me out of the room like Aishwarya did to Abhishek and I'm thankful my wife let me handle our child unlike Ash not letting Abhishek hold Aaradhya.

https://www.filmibeat.com/bollywood/gupshup/2017/aaradhya-bachchan-does-not-spend-much-time-with-jaya-bachchan-aishwarya-rai-bachchan-268415.html

Lol you keep posting proof without expanding on that proof. All those pics of those articles say Abhishek was kicked out of the bedroom because of the baby's sleep routine. You just say "kicked out of the bedroom" without the reason why and consider that a win. Also the pic from your other post said Abhishek claimed he was jealous with a "deadpan expression." Here he is "beaming" when he makes that comment. Clearly he said that comment in good humor, hence the adjectives describing his expression and reaction but you've ignored that as well since it doesn't fit the narrative.

Jaya is not Aish's mother. Jaya herself said she doesn't have a right to discipline Aish like she does her children because Aish is not her daughter. The article says that Aish reaches out to her mother when she needs help with the child, not Jaya. I don't see why there's anything wrong with that. Jaya is not Aish's mother so wouldn't Aish go to the woman who is her real mother who she has the deeper connection with? There's a reason so many Indian women go back to their maternal families during pregnancy or for a period of time after the baby is born so they can get that level of unconditional support from their own mothers. That will never be the same as a bond between a bahu/saas. Would you demonize Shweta if she reached out to Jaya over her own mother-in-law from her nonexistent marriage? I would say Shweta has every right to choose her mother for support instead.

If you are married with a child, then surely you know that a child has a very particular sleep schedule which doesn't always work with a working parents. Why can you not accept that for Abhishek, who would wake up early for morning shoots, he needed his sleep and the best arrangement for their family was for him to sleep separately so he won't be disturbed? Since he himself admitted he couldn't go back to sleep after waking. You make it sound like some cardinal sin! Some grand conspiracy that Aish used this as the opportunity to finally get rid of that oafish Abhishek lol.

Originally posted by: RaniPreityAish

Abhishek and Agastya were both launched, not Shweta and Navya. Aish stopped working regularly in films after marriage. Only sporadically, like Jaya herself. All signs point towards the Bachchans being very patriarchal when it comes to women working in films. It's the same thing with the Kapoors when they cut off ties with Babita when she wanted to launch Karishma. None of the Kapoors came to Karishma's wedding since they weren't on good terms then. It took Karishma to break that glass ceiling for the Kapoors but who will do it for the Bachchans?

How do you come up with such things?

Karisma Kapoor got married in the Kapoor family home in Mumbai which is called RK Cottage. Her wedding was one of the most lavish weddings and everyone from Bollywood attended. All Kapoors were in attendance except Neetu, Ranbir, and Riddhima because Neetu and Babita didn't get along. Here's the full wedding video which you should watch to see that all Kapoors came to Karishma's wedding.

https://youtu.be/jd7czQN2w34?feature=shared

Originally posted by: RaniPreityAish

Not superstar, but Abhishek barely even had the level of a star then. Marrying a famous figure makes one famous too, for better or for worse. Would anyone know or care about Gauri if she wasn't married to SRK? Suzanne if she hadn't been married to Hrithik? Bollywood has whole shows on star wives which people watch entirely because of the men these women are married to. Would anyone watch if they were married to businessmen or doctors?

Anushka rose in stature from marrying Virat. PC rose in stature in America for marrying Nick. Nick rose in stature in India for marrying PC since I doubt the average Indian knew who he was before. There's a reason Alia wanted to be the Kapoor bahu because she knows she's cemented a place in the industry as part of their family.

It's also why the actresses who married outside of Bollywood become irrelevant, like Urmila, Juhi, Raveena, Karishma, Preity, Sonam, Parineeti, etc. The ones who marry into film families (even if they come from one themselves) remain relevant whether Sridevi, Kajol, Aishwarya, Rani, Kareena, or Alia.

Bachchans have never launched a female member of the family. Jaya has interviews where she says after her marriage, she would only work in the films she was contracted to work before retiring. Something changed in that marriage when she returned to films decades later (maybe her kids being grown up). Now, when she's asked if she has to take her husband's permission to act in films, she gets angry and claims he is not her keeper. But this wasn't the case during their marriage's early years when even Rekha has an interview saying she was crazy for giving up her career for a man.

Abhishek and Agastya were both launched, not Shweta and Navya. Aish stopped working regularly in films after marriage. Only sporadically, like Jaya herself. All signs point towards the Bachchans being very patriarchal when it comes to women working in films. It's the same thing with the Kapoors when they cut off ties with Babita when she wanted to launch Karishma. None of the Kapoors came to Karishma's wedding since they weren't on good terms then. It took Karishma to break that glass ceiling for the Kapoors but who will do it for the Bachchans?

It's not a secret that Amitabh is very patriarchal. Remember when Aaradhya was born and SRK congratulated him on Twitter for being a grandfather again. Amitabh corrected him, saying this is his first time becoming a grandfather. This child carries the Bachchan name whereas Shweta's kids don't so he doesn't consider them his grandchildren. Hopefully he's amended his views on that years later.

There is no room for a star kid's own aspirations in different fields.

I know Bachchans are patriarchal family but your examples are outright ridiculous.

There is a small section of Nepo freedom fighters who criticize nepotism and the same lot argue why some of these nepo kids are not acting in hindi film industry.

Abhishek was an outsider. The world came to know him after he married superstar Aishwarya.

Do you realise how ridiculous your logic is in each and every case?

Originally posted by: RaniPreityAish

Lol you keep posting proof without expanding on that proof. All those pics of those articles say Abhishek was kicked out of the bedroom because of the baby's sleep routine. You just say "kicked out of the bedroom" without the reason why and consider that a win. Also the pic from your other post said Abhishek claimed he was jealous with a "deadpan expression." Here he is "beaming" when he makes that comment. Clearly he said that comment in good humor, hence the adjectives describing his expression and reaction but you've ignored that as well since it doesn't fit the narrative.

Jaya is not Aish's mother. Jaya herself said she doesn't have a right to discipline Aish like she does her children because Aish is not her daughter. The article says that Aish reaches out to her mother when she needs help with the child, not Jaya. I don't see why there's anything wrong with that. Jaya is not Aish's mother so wouldn't Aish go to the woman who is her real mother who she has the deeper connection with? There's a reason so many Indian women go back to their maternal families during pregnancy or for a period of time after the baby is born so they can get that level of unconditional support from their own mothers. That will never be the same as a bond between a bahu/saas. Would you demonize Shweta if she reached out to Jaya over her own mother-in-law from her nonexistent marriage? I would say Shweta has every right to choose her mother for support instead.

If you are married with a child, then surely you know that a child has a very particular sleep schedule which doesn't always work with a working parents. Why can you not accept that for Abhishek, who would wake up early for morning shoots, he needed his sleep and the best arrangement for their family was for him to sleep separately so he won't be disturbed? Since he himself admitted he couldn't go back to sleep after waking. You make it sound like some cardinal sin! Some grand conspiracy that Aish used this as the opportunity to finally get rid of that oafish Abhishek lol.

Thanks to Abhishek for giving us the proof in The Times of India that he was shut out of his own room several times. Ash even told him to move out temporarily.

Most of my family and friends are married but I've never heard about the wife kicking the husband out of the bedroom after the baby was born. Of course Ash would do such a thing!

You're saying that since Jaya is not the real mother, Ash doesn't share a deeper connection with her and that's why she doesn't reach out to Jaya for help. That's weird because I know many women who go to their mother-in-laws for baby sitting and take their mother-in-law's help with raising the child.

But Aishwarya's behavior after she became a mother is very odd. She's extremely controlling, overly possessive, and acts so overly obsessed with her child as if she's the only mother in the world and she doesn't let Abhishek come close to Aaradhya. She gave an interview that she's raising her daughter with her mother. Quite strange to push the father of the child in a corner and raise the child with her own mother. It looks like she doesn't want anyone else except herself to have a say in Aaradhya's life and she wants to be the only one to control her daughter's every move.

From what I've seen over the years, Ash started to ignore and disregard Amitabh and Jaya Bachchan after she had her kid and she only let her parents bond with her daughter. Based on how she was treating them, they decided to treat her the same way and that's when they brought Shweta and her kids to Mumbai to shower love on their daughter's kids so Ash would get a dose of her own medicine.

I don't have to demonize Shweta. Ash PR has done a great job of demonizing Shweta and her fans have spread so much toxic hate for Shweta that I feel bad for her.

Originally posted by: RaniPreityAish

Not superstar, but Abhishek barely even had the level of a star then. Marrying a famous figure makes one famous too, for better or for worse. Would anyone know or care about Gauri if she wasn't married to SRK? Suzanne if she hadn't been married to Hrithik? Bollywood has whole shows on star wives which people watch entirely because of the men these women are married to. Would anyone watch if they were married to businessmen or doctors?

Anushka rose in stature from marrying Virat. PC rose in stature in America for marrying Nick. Nick rose in stature in India for marrying PC since I doubt the average Indian knew who he was before. There's a reason Alia wanted to be the Kapoor bahu because she knows she's cemented a place in the industry as part of their family.

It's also why the actresses who married outside of Bollywood become irrelevant, like Urmila, Juhi, Raveena, Karishma, Preity, Sonam, Parineeti, etc. The ones who marry into film families (even if they come from one themselves) remain relevant whether Sridevi, Kajol, Aishwarya, Rani, Kareena, or Alia.

Bachchans have never launched a female member of the family. Jaya has interviews where she says after her marriage, she would only work in the films she was contracted to work before retiring. Something changed in that marriage when she returned to films decades later (maybe her kids being grown up). Now, when she's asked if she has to take her husband's permission to act in films, she gets angry and claims he is not her keeper. But this wasn't the case during their marriage's early years when even Rekha has an interview saying she was crazy for giving up her career for a man.

Abhishek and Agastya were both launched, not Shweta and Navya. Aish stopped working regularly in films after marriage. Only sporadically, like Jaya herself. All signs point towards the Bachchans being very patriarchal when it comes to women working in films. It's the same thing with the Kapoors when they cut off ties with Babita when she wanted to launch Karishma. None of the Kapoors came to Karishma's wedding since they weren't on good terms then. It took Karishma to break that glass ceiling for the Kapoors but who will do it for the Bachchans?

It's not a secret that Amitabh is very patriarchal. Remember when Aaradhya was born and SRK congratulated him on Twitter for being a grandfather again. Amitabh corrected him, saying this is his first time becoming a grandfather. This child carries the Bachchan name whereas Shweta's kids don't so he doesn't consider them his grandchildren. Hopefully he's amended his views on that years later.

This this fact that daughters kids are not belonging to her parents is so common in india i have seen it happen many times with many ppl that too who live in big metro's only and highly educated not the village uneducated ones

One person i know his grandparents give jam, ghee etc all nice hings only to sons kids not to daughters kids when they go on holidays to grandparents home. Imagine seeing all your cousins eat ghee, jam, milk, fruits, bonda, bhajji while you as kid do not get as you are the daughters son or daughter. This in 2024 is so horrible way to treat daughters kids by grand parents

I have seen this happen too often around with grandparents not treating daughters kids with same love and care as sons kids

Even in sons kids the sons son gets preferential treatment over sons daughter

Luckily aradhya is only child so since she has no brother she does not face bias

I feel sad for navya naveli the most - bec shes a daughters daughter

At least aradhya is sons daughter that too only child so will not face discrimination from grandparents

Originally posted by: Sparkling_Wine

Thanks to Abhishek for giving us the proof in The Times of India that he was shut out of his own room several times. Ash even told him to move out temporarily.

Most of my family and friends are married but I've never heard about the wife kicking the husband out of the bedroom after the baby was born. Of course Ash would do such a thing!

You're saying that since Jaya is not the real mother, Ash doesn't share a deeper connection with her and that's why she doesn't reach out to Jaya for help. That's weird because I know many women who go to their mother-in-laws for baby sitting and take their mother-in-law's help with raising the child.

But Aishwarya's behavior after she became a mother is very odd. She's extremely controlling, overly possessive, and acts so overly obsessed with her child as if she's the only mother in the world and she doesn't let Abhishek come close to Aaradhya. She gave an interview that she's raising her daughter with her mother. Quite strange to push the father of the child in a corner and raise the child with her own mother. It looks like she doesn't want anyone else except herself to have a say in Aaradhya's life and she wants to be the only one to control her daughter's every move.

From what I've seen over the years, Ash started to ignore and disregard Amitabh and Jaya Bachchan after she had her kid and she only let her parents bond with her daughter. Based on how she was treating them, they decided to treat her the same way and that's when they brought Shweta and her kids to Mumbai to shower love on their daughter's kids so Ash would get a dose of her own medicine.

I don't have to demonize Shweta. Ash PR has done a great job of demonizing Shweta and her fans have spread so much toxic hate for Shweta that I feel bad for her.

I am not sure about aishwarya i see aradhya havng many pics with big b hugging aradhya he adores her as only grand kid of son

But in general after 1990s and 2000s i have seen kids in india being more close to mothers relatives and family than fathers relatives and family

Women and mothers are ensuring their kids are close to their own parents, siblings and neice nephews than with hubby family atleast in cities

This is a drastic shift from 1980s and before where kids were more closer to fathers parents and fathers siblings or neice nephews

Sdaly this feature of kids being closer to mothers family is all too common nowadays, hubby parents and siblings are guest appearances in childs life thats how mothers prefer

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I am not sure about aishwarya i see aradhya havng many pics with big b hugging aradhya he adores her as only grand kid of son

But in general after 1990s and 2000s i have seen kids in india being more close to mothers relatives and family than fathers relatives and family

Women and mothers are ensuring their kids are close to their own parents, siblings and neice nephews than with hubby family atleast in cities

This is a drastic shift from 1980s and before where kids were more closer to fathers parents and fathers siblings or neice nephews

Sdaly this feature of kids being closer to mothers family is all too common nowadays, hubby parents and siblings are guest appearances in childs life thats how mothers prefer

See its a complex scenario...A lot of families which have both son and daughter, the in laws prefer daughter and her children as opposite to Son and his children...And that bias will eventually lead to the lack of communication and love from the kids...Love is give and take, naturally kids will be inclined to mother's family...If there is equal preference for both the son and daughter kids will be attached to both the families...I have personally seen both these scenarios...Then there are selfish woman who purposefully avoids in laws and the kids will not be close ...I have seen that also...

There is no general rule...

Originally posted by: Rangaaa

Amitabh should have forced his daughter and granddaughter against their wishes to the film industry. Seriously what an awful man.

There is no room for a star kid's own aspirations in different fields.

I know Bachchans are patriarchal family but your examples are outright ridiculous.

There is a small section of Nepo freedom fighters who criticize nepotism and the same lot argue why some of these nepo kids are not acting in hindi film industry.

Abhishek was an outsider. The world came to know him after he married superstar Aishwarya.

Do you realise how ridiculous your logic is in each and every case?

Aishwarya a superstar?

In what universe?
I call a flop actress with only 5 hits in her career hardly a superstar.