Kabhi Main Kabhi Tum (ARY) #4 - Fahad Mustafa, Hania Aamir - Page 58

Originally posted by: Aazeen02

This show by far has not disappointed one bit, and I'm hoping it won't in the end. Written by Farhat Ishtiyaq, I am relying on her the fact that this will have a just ending. I'm sure.

They're discussing the show on the 7 stages of love, which necessarily is not the stages of love. I mean, like right now they are at 'Junoon', where his junoon is not for the female lead, but the junoon to earn money enough to provide for the FL.

So my take on the final stage of "Maut" is not literally death, but the death of the ego in love, or the death of the negativity in a relationship.

Yes, he is looking adrift, because RN he's into the junoon of earning, and she feels neglected, plus, the fact that they're having a baby when they're so financially unstable is making Mustafa not able to rejoice the happiness.

It's a matter of time, they'll have their fair share of break-up and makeup.

You must watch this show.

I am watching the show regularly. Just this week I didn’t watch coz of other commitments.

And yeah, Farhat generally does HEAs so let’s hope that it’s the same.

Originally posted by: meandwho

ok, I just feel not everyone blows up career wise and she is going steady but not big.

And she has other independent interests like books, gardening. And now her baby, which I imagine is how most married working women live like.

While she doesn’t talk about her job, she is shown to do different activities in most scenes. But I agree that they are in the background and active focus is on Mustafa and his job. She is a stable supporter, both emotionally and financially, there to share the burden when Mustafa lost his job or while settling into their new home.

I wont have had any issue with her not blowing up,if they haven’t highlighted her being a topper part so much,her thirst to achieve great things,her ambitious side beforehand?My disappointment is that she is being reduced to just being a supportive wife now who only thinks about her best possible way to support her husband and nothing else?Its like showing,marriage takes away your drive for doing something great which you were so driven towards bfr marriage?I miss that logical Sharjeena who lived in reality rather than in some fantasy world?Bcs nowadays all her talks make me feel like she doesn’t have any connection with the harsh reality of society,the way she thinks love is enough for them,i mean would she be ok if her child grows up in a slum,in such kind of adverse environment?The way she is not even for once thinking about it ,makes me feel so aloof with her character bcs that’s not how she has been bfr?She wan an intelligent,practical girl who lived in reality rather than in some kind of fantasy?I feel cheated as a viewer that’s all.

Originally posted by: Tiara-p

I wont have had any issue with her not blowing up,if they haven’t highlighted her being a topper part so much,her thirst to achieve great things,her ambitious side beforehand?My disappointment is that she is being reduced to just being a supportive wife now who only thinks about her best possible way to support her husband and nothing else?Its like showing,marriage takes away your drive for doing something great which you were so driven towards bfr marriage?I miss that logical Sharjeena who lived in reality rather than in some fantasy world?Bcs nowadays all her talks make me feel like she doesn’t have any connection with the harsh reality of society,the way she thinks love is enough for them,i mean would she be ok if her child grows up in a slum,in such kind of adverse environment?The way she is not even for once thinking about it ,makes me feel so aloof with her character bcs that’s not how she has been bfr?She wan an intelligent,practical girl who lived in reality rather than in some kind of fantasy?I feel cheated as a viewer that’s all.

But I think that since she has never been actually insecure about money, i.e., she had a stable childhood, has a job that can cover for both her and Mustafa, she doesnt understand why he is just always in so much stress. She lives in the moment, knows she is earning now, and will earn better as time goes on.

And a lot of people do believe that with kids, or even marriage, bring its own fortune. She led a fortunate life so far and considers herself blessed, so she is self assured, in contrast to Mustafa

Not trying to change your opinion, just giving my pov

Originally posted by: Stormborn01

I really liked how realistically they portrayed Mustafa’s reaction to the pregnancy today. It’s not that he’s not happy or isn’t caring about her or doing what he can to support her, it’s just that he’s looking at it from a practical and financial standpoint as well whereas Sharjeena is more optimistic and focused on the positive. But the good thing is that they are constantly communicating and taking care of each other despite not being in the same mental state.

The only thing that was really extreme for me was Mustafa rejecting the food that came from Sharjeena’s mom’s house. That was uncalled for and rude. Parents have a right over their kids as well and just because his parents aren’t giving a crap doesn’t mean hers won’t either. Especially given that she’s pregnant now. The ego thing is being taken too far imo with him and it’s becoming annoying now. Not everything is some scheme against him to make him look bad. Sometimes it’s just a mother’s love for her daughter. Like you can have dignity and self respect without being petty and insecure like this? On top of it all, his priority is Sharjeena’s happiness most of the time so it’s ironic how she’s the one he ends up hurting the most when he takes out his ego card. Why punish her for everything that’s going wrong?

Maybe it could have been something bigger for him to react to. Like her parents getting them an apartment or something to live in while she’s pregnant. Then the reaction would still make sense. But over FOOD? Literally food? From her mom? His reaction made no sense 🤡

WORD.

Infact I was discussing the same thing with my boyfriend, and even he was agreeing that it is not a sin if Jeena's parents care for her and want to give them some comfort, it should not be insulting to Mustafa, it is really a sad society where men are hurt if their in laws provide them the same luxury which women expect from their in laws, especially in times like this.

I hope Mustafa will become more mature with each day and right now he is just sad, he is the best husband Jeena would ever have, the day Murtaza also accepts this I think everything will be happy for these two.

As a woman, I feel bad for Rubab though, all she ever wanted was Adeel, and the dirt of a man is betraying her in every possible way. She was not responsible for any of these, she has given him everything he ever wanted.

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What even

Khud ke liye coffee meray liye chai bolti hai

i think it is high time for you guys to write something

https://x.com/Hania_Admirer/status/1844081765994082519

https://x.com/Hania_Admirer/status/1844022223696462085

2 cute videos, with Diljit and Fahad

Waise sochne wali baat hai, kaha logon ko ek partner nahi milta aur adeel ko chaar baar sachi mohabbat ho chuki hai. In adeel's case the drama should be ✨kabhi ye, kabhi wo✨

Originally posted by: MiVida_Messi

WORD.

Infact I was discussing the same thing with my boyfriend, and even he was agreeing that it is not a sin if Jeena's parents care for her and want to give them some comfort, it should not be insulting to Mustafa, it is really a sad society where men are hurt if their in laws provide them the same luxury which women expect from their in laws, especially in times like this.

I hope Mustafa will become more mature with each day and right now he is just sad, he is the best husband Jeena would ever have, the day Murtaza also accepts this I think everything will be happy for these two.

Ofcourse, it's not a sin. Shadi hogayi toh iska yeh thori na hai ky beti sy rishta khatam hogiya. Parents can do whatever they want for their married daughters and also i believe that married daughters should do all this for their parents too and husbands should support their wives in this matter.

Tho, I am able to understand mustafa's character, so i know why he is doing so. He is wrong but he is in trauma, he has insecurities. Hopefully with time he will overcome all this