Mere mummy papa ka yeh tha ki main ache se degree and post grad karu and financially independent to rehna he chahiye. Mere papa toh shaddi ke mamle mai bhi strict the like straighly puch liya tha ki agar koi pasand ho toh bata do other wise mai arrange marriage ka sochu, woh late 20s ya early 30s tak arrange marriage ke liye wait nahi karege and humare yaha late shaddi karo toh arrange marriage mai ache rishte milne mai bhi problem hota hai so mera bhi same he tha ki job start karne ke baad muje settle ho jana tha.Originally posted by: Mehersudha
we can dance in our mauka they give us that unconditional love to us. We can't dance in sasural as it's conditional love depends on how we behave with them or them with us depends on how the hubby wife bond there to give us that respect too. It's all mutual give and take only more over a responsibility there to hold the tongue and close ear and do the work . Whereas in mayka enjoy life full of heart no restrictions. I was the one who used to get up late in mayka lil 10 mins than my siblings. My father is very disciplined daily morning we used to have that utho jaldi utho by him I used to say 2 mins. After my shadi and kids whenever I went to mayka my father used to close doors tell my mom let her sleep more 🤣🤣that's the privilege we get 🥰
Job start hote he akele akele singlehood se muje bhi bore kar raha tha socha agar arrange marriage mai acha ladka mil jata hai toh sath mai kamayege , sath mai travel karege , sath mai ghar basayege 
Lekin maine haaa ek joint family wale ko bola. Husband ki family mai unki mummy and dadi saas ko mil kar he samaj aa gaya tha ki ek hath mai ghar ka kaam and dusre hath mai job ko le kar yaha chalna padega lekin muje confidence tha ki unn dono se mai nipat lungi acche se Husband bahot pasand aa gaye the so joint family ke siyappe ko ignore kar diya maine Acha kiya fatafat mind make up kar liya
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