Not Ruhi bashing - Page 11

It depends on ppl to ppl. I saw a movie where a man is handling a elderly home where they shown one man hating his son for abandoning him where as other women still loves her son and keeps hope for her son to come back and she thinks he did a mistake may be he will realize it and rectify it and take her back and third lady thinks her son and dil rejected her for not knowing english so she learns english from that man.

So every person will process situation differently. We may move on quickly as we see real face soon but some ppl may take time to process things and find it hard to move on.

Originally posted by: maahi11

Yes she was shattered but still she got everything in life, who was more alone, Akshara or Ruhi, Akshara, she made choices and she stayed with the choices. she didnot victimized herself like like Ruhi.

As if now I dont see any change in Ruhi's behaviour, she is so struck with Armaan and her umeed that even if Armaan and Abhira got married she will still say her umeed is left. See if rohit see her past and tries to heal that would be good, but no one can help with the person herslef doesnt wants to. and clearly ruhi doing the same.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

akshara was mature when she lost everyone. Ruhi lost everything when she was a kid that makes a different. Child learns from their parents and ruhi was missing that parental figure. I know akshara also left her home when she was 15 or something but 15 is still a age where kids move to boarding schools for studies so they know to adjust but ruhi was just 6 years and she stayed with her bnanu with whom she can not share everything as they are not her immediate parents. The bond that you share with parental figures is different than the bond you can make with grand grand parents.

If we talk about Ruhi's pov Akshara have everything, but as viewer we know she had nothing, yes she was a 6 yr child, but she still had family around her, she had mimi, mama mami and three other, what did Akshra had, yet Ruhi always felt she had nothing, then why is she or was living with MG, SG and SG,

I again saying the problem is her stubbornness and baby ruhi was also stubborn.

Originally posted by: maahi11

If we talk about Ruhi's pov Akshara have everything, but as viewer we know she had nothing, yes she was a 6 yr child, but she still had family around her, she had mimi, mama mami and three other, what did Akshra had, yet Ruhi always felt she had nothing, then why is she or was living with MG, SG and SG,

I again saying the problem is her stubbornness and baby ruhi was also stubborn.

Akshara had everything she had a daughter for whom she should live her life for. As a 6 year old child ruhi had no one to look for. Her maasi could have been her guiding light but she chose to take a blame which was unnecessary as that made ruhi to loose two more important person from her life along with her maasi. Makers messed up big time with ruhi by giving her such trauma of loosing all at once. It reminds me of waynad incident where one night you realize you are entire family is washed away and they are no more. That's what happened with ruhi. Previous day she had everyone and next day she sees she lost 4 important person in her life i can not even imagine the pain a kid may endure.

Well I don't think ruhi deserves as much bashing as she gets ..she is mentally & emotionally weak & her feelings were fueled by arman for quite some time ...specially when he refused to let her meet some other guy ..n also told her that he will talk to dadisa after his divorce with abhira ..he might be confused all along for ruhi & abhira both but it doesn't make him a pure soul if he realized his mistakes ...

the best outcome of this bakwas track would be that both ruhi & abhira reject him but we know it won't happen. That's the reason I started disliking abhira also & their love story doesn't appeal to me at all...she just keeps changing her stance as per convenience...either u love the guy with all his eccentricities or move on ..sab bakwas karke about self respect, you go bk to the same person , wth are you! Arman at the end of the day is a fickle minded person guided by his family , abhira is no different . Anyways.

We expect ruhi to give up on her one sided obsession coz arman has totally given up on her ..thats what any self respecting girl would do.....but she keeps coming back to armans family with hope of reconciliation ..

Where ruhi is completely & undeniably wrong is how she treats rohit ..that guy is innocent & still in love with her , she should not use him again to get to arman ..that's where we start to feel that she lacks empathy & doesn't deserve to be near arman or poddars...

Originally posted by: maahi11

If we talk about Ruhi's pov Akshara have everything, but as viewer we know she had nothing, yes she was a 6 yr child, but she still had family around her, she had mimi, mama mami and three other, what did Akshra had, yet Ruhi always felt she had nothing, then why is she or was living with MG, SG and SG,

I again saying the problem is her stubbornness and baby ruhi was also stubborn.

Originally posted by: ceyy

for me it goes like, "the moment he became FL's puppy or chamcha 🤣

when two individuals in love you don't take permission of other one, you have a mature discussion but here clearly arman has no stand of himself now, pehle hi spineless tha ab to spine naam ki kuch cheez hi ni bachii...

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

akshara is an adult. Yes she had no family but that's the life she chose as an adult. But ruhi did not had a choice she was just 6 years old. We can not say ak had a very bad life because her family was not with her as many ppl live alone and take care of their kids. She chose that life. Nobody forced it upon her.

Akshara had everything she had a daughter for whom she should live her life for. As a 6 year old child ruhi had no one to look for. Her maasi could have been her guiding light but she chose to take a blame which was unnecessary as that made ruhi to loose two more important person from her life along with her maasi. Makers messed up big time with ruhi by giving her such trauma of loosing all at once. It reminds me of waynad incident where one night you realize you are entire family is washed away and they are no more. That's what happened with ruhi. Previous day she had everyone and next day she sees she lost 4 important person in her life i can not even imagine the pain a kid may endure.

I agree Akshara's choice was Aksharas choice, but Ruhi had all other people around her, If you rem, Ruhi even fought with Abhir while blaming Akshara, Akshara went away coz even she knew Ruhi would not have accepted her untill she knew the truth.

The Goenka's were old enough to address the issue, but they let Ruhi commit mistakes in the name of keeping her happy, that was need to be called out, Swarna knew Ruhi loved Armaan yet she let Ruhi marry Armaan, Ruhi have taken lot of leverage of not having parents, I rem she did not let Armaan leave on Akhara's birthday,

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

what's individuality then when you are asking permission to talk to people. How much doormat he has to become to give her trust. Is it needed. When a man or woman go for work they meet lot of people daily if they ask permission what's life then. How long that gives trust. Its working place leave it. Ar himself said ruhi you marry my brother I will keep you in heart. Won't ruhi think and trust him. He fooled her anytime and destroyed Rohits life by saying all puski words my chitwali i can't forget I can't love another one. Does abhira know what all happened. She simply took ar easily excusing him. She didn't lose one yr life as she stayed ignorant of what she saw. Rohit knew everything and gone. Cringe is in front daily so one couple should leave house for the betterment of another couple. Orelse daily insecurity, fights and mus.

Armaan asked for permission and Ab had addressed that, and its perfectly fine coz Armaan and Abhira also had their fights, Yes he told Rohit he cant forget, but in two days u cant love also, you realize when you stay with someone, and Swarna did tell Ruhi to focus on your marriage, one year is sufficient, to get to know each other, that happened,

If you actually ask me what was at fault was telling Ruhi about his deal marriage, she would have thought Ruhi will think otherwise, would have been better,