Not Ruhi bashing - Page 9

Originally posted by: Lissagreg

Really?? And by which scale we are supposed to measure that? I dont want to measure people's trauma but since u have said it let me tell u few things. Ruhi despite being wrong, despite doing idiotic acts always had people by her side. Now she is herself choosing to ignore all those and focussing only on her umeed. Her choice. And if you are having mental health issues then get a proper professional help na. Just bcz she had traumatic childhood that doesnt give her right to manipulate people and be the reason of other's misery.Abhira has seen the worst during Ar Ru wedding preparations. But the difference here is Abhira is shown as a fighter and Ruhi projects herself to an Abla nari just like Manisha said on the other day.

Yeah the reason of her returning to Poddar house is still not revealed. But I wonder if that reason is to again shamelessly pursue her umeed and seperate two people who love each other unconditionally, would she be justified due to her unstable thought process?

Originally posted by: Lissagreg

Oh wow.. Yeah everything is done by Armaan? Now what about Ruhi's brain? Did she rent it to someone? Why couldnt she trust the person whom she claimed to love so much? Armaan was bound by family. Ruhi was not. She could have talked with her family and halt her marriage with Ruhi. And sad fact is that Armaan is herself not recognising how he has been emotionally manipulated and guilt driven by that woman..I wish he does someday.Before Rohit's disapperance too Ar told Ruhi to move on in her life and what did she do? She kept herself busy in putting kaala teeka to her brother in law and adoring his handsomeness.

Ofcourse Ruhi is bringing drama.But that drama is not anything positive. You may find leads as love sick puppies but many people love them and when a third person continuosly try to indulge in their matters what else she can get other than backlashes??

He did not betrayed abhira. He betrayed ruhi. He should help rohith to heal ruhi. He should help rohith to understand ruhi than let him blame her sayinv she is used item. Than having romantic show off infront rohith and runi when clearly he was one of the responsible person for ruining their life.

Originally posted by: Abhiabhi1

abhira chose to become a bikari , she had resort in masuri but no she don't want to utilize tat like her mother chose a roadside orphan inspite of ignoring her badepapas wealth. These two have chosen their poverty. But ruhi sufferings are caused by her masi

But that resort was having some reinnovation right?? And makers havent mentioned something like resort was functioning in a healthy manner. Regarding gen 3 discussion I dont want to indulge in that bcz that season is done and dusted for me.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

as i said both are responsible for the miseries please check my first comment but armaan realizing his mistake will not make him mahaan as even ruhi said sorry. If he have romantic scenes immediately post rejecting ruhi that will not be his redemption.

He did not betrayed abhira. He betrayed ruhi. He should help rohith to heal ruhi. He should help rohith to understand ruhi than let him blame her sayinv she is used item. Than having romantic show off infront rohith and runi when clearly he was one of the responsible person for ruining their life.

Originally posted by: Lissagreg

And do you think Rohit will listen to it? And why would he even try to complicate things further by intruding into their personal life? Rohit is not at all talking with Armaan properly. And he has already done a mistake by pushing Ruhi towards Rohit earlier. This time he is not doing it and I am happy he keeps himself away from that. Bcz even if he tries to do anything positive, at the end of day Ruhi will get a wrong message and the round of next blame games will begin.

If he can not convince rohith atleast have some decency to avoid romancing his wife infront of ruRo. He clearly knows that will only trigger ruRo

As he may have moved on but ruhi and rohith are still in the same place where they were 1 year back.

Ruhi loves armaan and it will be uncomfortable for her to see this.

Rohith stayed away from his family and was craving for some love and attention and we see love birds PDA which will clearly ignite his hatred for armaan as after being one of the responsible man for robbing his happiness by letting him marry his ex he is romancing his current infront of him.

If ruhi denied to marry Rohit story nahi banta also if she was unmarried that will be another fandom bashing topic that see she's so pathetic waiting lusting for a married man.

Arman stood like a statue in his own wedding functions but it was ignored by his own family too. It's ruhi who noticed his discomfort and was in anxiety that his mind is diverted towards abhira (based upon wu)

Like someone said Arman is green flag now just cause he's simping for fl. He was also called names when he was opp fl. If tomorrow ruhi become saint and comes to abhira side she will be Amazon forest too 😂😂

Talking about personality in this sasta ghum serial 🙏🙏😂🤣

Arman is a Stockholm syndrome victim . When his own family dadisa calls him Ganda khoon dude gets aroused.

Ruhis family sucks. She has trauma of her own where her father figure left with a loser woman and she was responsible for her mom's death.

Abhira is in her delusion world and everyday she loves fighting with a adher Umar ki budiya kaveri. Are Bhai she don't like you let her be sar pe baithogi kya

Poddar family is there to do Sri Sri 1069 abhira mata ki jai jaap they have no other motivation of life goals.

Manish is a abhira simp

Swarna surekha is anti abhira and supports ruhi.

This is the personality summary of gen 4 🤣✌️

He did say he loved her if not now he said post he married abhira

Here he assured her it's love and not infatuation.

https://x.com/Itsmetararathod/status/1820181943440605217

Here he said he still loves her

https://youtu.be/GpTbuhvcmS4?si=YNblh7sgRjTHrIUV

So armaan has said he loves her. Ppl do not expect others to tell i love you every day. If he has said once unless he says he does not love ruhi she will be hopeful.

Nobody said ruhi is sane here. The point is ruhi sill take time to move on but that does not make her lusty or immoral women. She did mistake and she will realize her mistake and repent on it.

If armaan is not immoral then ruhi is not immoral too. If armaan is not lusty then ruhi is not lusty too.

Both should get equal treatment than bashing her when she clealry trying to focus on her career. If tomorrow she really tries to seduce armaan by mixing something in her drink then she deserves such tags not when she is just unable to figure out if she should move on or wait for someone she genuinely loved.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

In ghum pakhi didi had no trauma she had no abandonment issues. She was clearly a villain where as in yrkkh the story is continued from last gen and ruhi has some trauma and they are already showing her going through therapy.

She clearly was shatterred when everyone left her so makers can use that as in prev gen also many of ak's mistakes were justified as she was held responsible for sirat's death so her behaviour was based on that.

So this gen they may show rohith realizing Ruhi's past and healing her from inside.

I really hope that happens and they don't use trauma again to harm people. Last time also they did that and it was considered okay, I hope not now.