🌸🌸𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion Thread 59🌸🌸 - Page 152

I did not watch the epi yet, but this is my take on Ani's psyche -

It could well be , I will remain true and honest to this one relationship and I have chosen this one, out of the two for the following reasons -

1. Arshi has gone through a lot, faced an unimaginable level of mis-fortune and I will not do anything, that disturbs her emotionally one bit!

Yes, I have emotionally cheated her all along but that was coz 'dil hai ke maanta nehi' - not anymore, dil has no say whatsoever, dimaag reigns supreme from now on!

The deepest truth though remains - that I love J!

2. My family adores Arshi and she is the best bahu and the best gift I can give to my family ! So there you go, lemme gift-wrap her and present her to my family!

3.J has faced the worst kind of treatment from my family, for days and days and most times, I have not been able to be of much help to her, in this regard! She wanted to go away from my house and finally she mustered the courage to move out ! So no matter how much I love her, I will NOT be the shackles for her feet aymore! This has always been an ek-tarfa pyar from my end and I will not let my love cause her even a tad-bit of pain , anymore!

4.As long as I am assured she is breathing, safe and happy, that is all I want for her ! Ani is a protector and an enabler.....lover comes much later !

5.If I let my family know, I consider Arshi to be my wife, at least the shaadi nonsense would stop ! Let me tell them that ! What happens to me from now on, is irrelevant for me ! Mr.Quickfixer maybe thinks, I might feel suffocated, cornered, stifled in this relationship might fall sick coz of it, but that would be for me to deal with, as and when it comes!

Truth be told, he cannot gauge how he is really going to feel, around Arshi ! Worst still, if he has programmed his brain, he might force himself to believe that he is happy with her and continue the act, life long, as in his mind ,it would be his way of repenting and being fair to Arshi, after the fate she has faced due to Ani bringing J to their lives and causing the upheaval that it has, which he is constantly reminded about by his family!

In short, he has closed the J chapter and hidden it in some deep crevices of his heart, he is not going to let that get exposed, for J's well-being and he will from now on follow the path of zimmedari!

"Mujhe pata hai mera dil kiske liye dhadakta hai aur mera responsibility kaun hai"

Probably BH will learn it the hard way, for letting Arshi and Shirshti enter BH and for treating Ani as their prodigal child!

Originally posted by: sanfan

Underlined - interesting point

as a viewer there are different sensibilities at play here and so the next question to ask would be what has changed for us individually… from then to today coz it seems the writer was steady and we weren’t 😂😂

For me….. it’s the complete resignation to the relationship at Ani’s end. In my books, Ani was feeling stifled in that relationship with Arshi after Jhanak came into his life and his inability to break through that…the reasons slightly complex, flawed et al

When Ani was getting married in the mandap… while I didn’t know what would avert the marriage I knew it would be averted and while there was a role for fate there too…I felt Ani was submitting to it with a sense of anger and a bravado of “You told me to go through this and here I am…. In name only Arshi’s husband”

If it had materialised then… I don’t know what would have been my thoughts but for me this whole time I have constantly felt Ani was at least mentally trying to break the bond with Arshi not fortifying it. Shaadi hona nahin hona but even without it… there was emotional infidelity and the urge to deal with it

Ani being reconciled to Jhanak going away has happened in the past too but it always felt that Ani was sad about it. It’s the finality in what you describe just doesn’t cut it for me

I wasn’t squeamish about the underlying emotional infidelity at play here through this entire time coz I always thought of it as a moral conflict story but I expected lovers or at least one lover be committed to the love. For me it’s not marriage that’s the deal breaker but the acceptance ( finality) of a relationship in any form.

happy to read views and counter views 😊

Originally posted by: MMR2810

He is in love with Arshi or not I don't know but he never wanted to backout from the marriage.

That is a very true fact of the story.

Originally posted by: xnbstar

I know but makers ne deliberately kharab kara hn to let Jhanak shine on her own.

Usney jo Jhanak k liye itna sab kuch kara to wo sab bhool jye kiya? Even Hiba said k Jhanak ko acknowledge krna chye ye n i think jab Mumbai me milgy to kuch na kuch to zaroor hga.

yes he did s o much for her - but wanted to always keep what he did like some dirty secret not worth standing up for.

have you ever seen him say a single cross word to arshi?

from all he has done it seemshewants her on the side...spineless man.

So easily he cheated Arshi and his family selfishly....he can easily dump J any time

Originally posted by: Sampada_14

And I don't get it she was clearly saying... Jhanak snatched her Pyaar... She said, she doesn't trust anymore as He is just lying to her from past one year... Then why she is with him? If you are so sure he is not in love with you, he is not trustworthy, them what's the purpose to be with that man? Just let him go & live your life...

But even after all this she is there living with him as his wife🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Its out of spite. As i said before, Ani for Arshi is a trophy she won from Jhanak by hook or crook. She is punishing both Ani n Jhanak with this marriage. In turn, this dumb woman is ruining her own life by making destroying other ppl her life motto. A true daughter of Sasti aunty.
Its just annoying and unbearable to watch her scream and curse everyone else under the sun when she should’ve chosen to walk out of a toxic relationship far earlier. She knew Ani doesn’t love her anymore but still CHOSE to go ahead. She is now as much as responsible for ruining her own life. Her crying and screaming just grates at my ears. I am skipping her as I can’t really tolerate her nonsense anymore

runak magic has worn off. Unless they show some serious repentance of Ani and him correcting his wrongs without the expectation of J coming back to him, there’s not even microscopic chance of Jhanak and Ani becoming Runak again

Originally posted by: MMR2810

Vidya..did I offended you..I just said casually..if you feel so am sorry.

He won't...The way they story is moving am sure soon we all will say good bye to the show.

Nothing to look forward to in these episodes now! Bothersome ga undi! Meeru relax cheyandi! Any good movies Netflix lo vaste tag chey andi
♥️♥️

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

That is a very true fact of the story.

Exactly..

Originally posted by: xnbstar

Sab social media per kehry hn k leena ki aisi ghatya stories hoti hn...

Ab kuxh nhi kehskty na hum...🤬

Because of the actors I m sticking to this show for so long otherwise 50 episodes mein dikh gaye they lakshan is serial ke!

Originally posted by: PPak

yes he did s o much for her - but wanted to always keep what he did like some dirty secret not worth standing up for.

have you ever seen him say a single cross word to arshi?

from all he has done it seemshewants her on the side...spineless man.

So easily he cheated Arshi and his family selfishly....he can easily dump J any time

Pata nhi kya character kardya hn iska...Starplus ka sbsey kharab hero bangya hn

...

Ek Anurag hua karta tha ❤️

Originally posted by: Edkv74

Because of the actors I m sticking to this show for so long otherwise 50 episodes mein dikh gaye they lakshan is serial ke!

Same Same ❤️

So here is the thing, the way I see it now is that for both of them because of the moral conflicts they did not to accept the love, I still believe that. But it’s also in past tense ! The emotions were felt but they were also rejected right away. By themselves and also by actions and words of the other person

One was getting married to someone else and another was happily participating above and beyond in it. Now their love has just become the painful memory to them , which they have decided to live with. And that is why in my Runak write up (which I don’t know why I forgot all about today with overwhelming emotions) I said , they are two people who are not ready to accept their love because of whatever moral conflicts , MUs, reasons they have!

From the looks of it Ani has accepted arshi as a wife. And why won’t he ? He was going to get married to her that day! What is stopping him now ? So far even I thought he was trying to resist the idea and that was keeping our hopes up. But it turns out we were the ones who were delusional and not writers ! Their confusing dialogues and monologues kept showing us that side of Ani that wanted us to believe that somewhere if he gets a chance he will break the marriage. Trash writing here !

But he is extremely sensible human being and if he didn’t not leave arshi in good times he will definitely not leave her in her lowest point. So now the question is what is going to stop this marriage ? Ani is overly responsible human being ! If Arshi does something bad to jhanak , I am not sure anymore if he will leave Arshi then also! As far as I understand ani, if he has to choose between and arshi and J , he will support what’s right as he is a logical person. But I am not sure if he will still leave Arshi based on that just because he is his wife now in his mind and he is way too responsible and kind for his own good! There will be again things he will consider like will J get blamed ? Will my family be ok with this ? It’s not clear to me.

But what confused me most today was - Arshi, her distrust in Ani at this point is very forced. So I feel like they are handing over this game in arshi’s hand now. What she does will be important…

While I am saying this , j feel this is an absolute garbage story ! But that is what they are showing 🤦🏽‍♀️

Originally posted by: sanfan

Underlined - interesting point

as a viewer there are different sensibilities at play here and so the next question to ask would be what has changed for us individually… from then to today coz it seems the writer was steady and we weren’t 😂😂

For me….. it’s the complete resignation to the relationship at Ani’s end. In my books, Ani was feeling stifled in that relationship with Arshi after Jhanak came into his life and his inability to break through that…the reasons slightly complex, flawed et al

When Ani was getting married in the mandap… while I didn’t know what would avert the marriage I knew it would be averted and while there was a role for fate there too…I felt Ani was submitting to it with a sense of anger and a bravado of “You told me to go through this and here I am…. In name only Arshi’s husband”

If it had materialised then… I don’t know what would have been my thoughts but for me this whole time I have constantly felt Ani was at least mentally trying to break the bond with Arshi not fortifying it. Shaadi hona nahin hona but even without it… there was emotional infidelity and the urge to deal with it

Ani being reconciled to Jhanak going away has happened in the past too but it always felt that Ani was sad about it. It’s the finality in what you describe just doesn’t cut it for me

I wasn’t squeamish about the underlying emotional infidelity at play here through this entire time coz I always thought of it as a moral conflict story but I expected lovers or at least one lover be committed to the love. For me it’s not marriage that’s the deal breaker but the acceptance ( finality) of a relationship in any form.

happy to read views and counter views 😊