Originally posted by: Susi26
Just watched the episode.. the flashbacks that dadi got while driving the car were of Madhav, Manisha, Vidya and Armaan.. all were questioning Dadi with respect to her denial for Abhira being accepted into the house. And the moment she got heartache she was thinking of Armaan saying that he will marry Abhira again. So its clear that Abhira and Armaan is the reason for all this..
Why Dadi has so much hatred for Abhira?
Is it because she is an orphan who doesn’t have anyone or any background? But she already accepted her as bahu even before the deal truth was out.
Is it because she did law and wants to work against to Dadi’s rules where women are not allowed to work? But Dadi already gave her permission to study law and work as a lawyer in Dev’s firm.
The reason Dadi always belittle Abhira and doesn’t want to see her in that house is because the way Abhira behaves with Dadi.. according to Dadi, Abhira is always galat. Because of the way she handles things, talks and the way she has driven all the members to her side. Before she used to dislike her, but now she hates her. Usually being the bahu Abhira has to convert that dislike into acceptance, but due to her behaviour and attitude she couldn't receive the long due blessings from dadi.
Dadi feels she got defeated before Abhira, yes it’s true, because Abhira challenged dadi that she will overtake poddar firm, which she actually did it as fufa is no more in the good books, Armaan choosing Abhira above poddar firm( he already gave resignation once) and now both of them caused dadi to leave the house and if dadi is not there, no address for the firm too.
By seeing dadi, I remember my grandfather who is now 93 yrs old. He used to dictate everyone in our house including my parents and relatives of their age, We started disliking whenever he intervened in our lives once we grew up into adults. But we got tuned to his discipline that we never went against him or even spoke a word against him. All his corrections were actually beneficial to our well-being. PH was like that until Abhira entered.. Now when I look back if I have to recall what all I learned from him.. I have to admit hat it has turned me into a better person not worse. People like him don’t change easily as per the present situations.. and there is nothing wrong in obeying the elders as their wisdom is better and they foresee the future better than us.
What all dadi predicted has come to true for better or for worse. If Abhira had toned down and think about the harmony of that house, she would have got that haq and ijjat that Armaan is wanting for. Now even Armaan lost that for himself. So what’s the big thing, they can still marry and choose to stay outside, but can they live in peace far from everyone. There will always be a void and emptiness in their hearts for staying away from family. It may not be new for Abhira, in place of her mom she got Armaan, but Armaan can he lead a life far from his family who was there with him since his childhood. Let’s see!,
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