Anupama is Maya 2.0 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Jefen

Anuj doesn't love Shruti. In the last five years, Anuj could never love Shruti. Also, Anupama never tried to get Yashdeep close to her. If she really wanted that, why would she reject his proposal.

Also, Anupama didn't try to get close to Anuj. It was unfortunately Shruti who kept calling her for her wedding preparations even though Anuj tried to stop her. She came to stay with Anuj, Shruti and Adhya because Anuj and Shruti requested her. She did her job and left. In fact, she was late for her first day because Adhya had period cramps. She also took care of Shruti.

Plus, it wasn't Anupama who invited Anuj for Dimpy's wedding. Also, Anuj asked Shruti to join for the wedding which she refused.

Maya groped a married man in a close room. Then she went on to get Anuj stay with her. Kavya broke a marriage. Please, let's see the difference here.

Let’s agree to disagree than trying to make each other see the difference, because it’s convenient to put all blame on all others ‘always’ and make Anupama look like a victim which I can never agree with.

Okay. Fair enough.

Anupama is not a victim as she herself does stuff that allows others to humiliate or harm her. But I also agree that she cannot be called a homewrecker for Anuj and Shruti.

Shruti knows very well that Anuj loves only Anupama and has got engaged to her only and only for Aadhya.

The makers are trying to showcase Aadhya & Shruti being forceful and insensitive to Anuj's dilemma. They are also depicting them as delusional beings who think Anupama going away from America will help Anuj move on.

If he never felt romantic toward Shruti in 5 years despite living under one roof, what is going to drastically change post marriage? Shruti will get the tag of his lawfully-wedded wife nothing more! She will be stuck in a loveless marriage which will be more bitter than her losing Anuj to Anupama before marriage!

But makers will never infuse so much sense in the story! Their end goal is to whitewash Anupama's mistakes by turning most of the characters around her negative!

Originally posted by: Time_to_move_on

Anupama is not a victim as she herself does stuff that allows others to humiliate or harm her. But I also agree that she cannot be called a homewrecker for Anuj and Shruti.

Shruti knows very well that Anuj loves only Anupama and has got engaged to her only and only for Aadhya.

The makers are trying to showcase Aadhya & Shruti being forceful and insensitive to Anuj's dilemma. They are also depicting them as delusional beings who think Anupama going away from America will help Anuj move on.

If he never felt romantic toward Shruti in 5 years despite living under one roof, what is going to drastically change post marriage? Shruti will get the tag of his lawfully-wedded wife nothing more! She will be stuck in a loveless marriage which will be more bitter than her losing Anuj to Anupama before marriage!

But makers will never infuse so much sense in the story! Their end goal is to whitewash Anupama's mistakes by turning most of the characters around her negative!

Shruti knows Anuj loves Anupama, but for 5 yrs this Anupama was not present in their lives and this girl Shruti devoted 5 yrs of her life to this father daughter duo.

Its not a small time, and in these 5 yrs she was multiple times given hope by Anuj for marriage.

Right now, the marriage which is supposed to happen is because Anuj proposed her and even when Shruti asked him multiple times if he is sure, he said yes.

So it’s not Shruti being insensitive but Anuj and Anupama who are the actual insensitive folks, jab marzi chod kar nikal liye jab marzi fir wapas aa gaye haq jatane! Insensitive on ApMaaN’s part to leave a bedridden girl alone in a room who happens to be Anuj’s fiancée and romance in the kitchen or joke around in adjacent room.

Shruti took a bullet for Aadhya, Anuj Anupama’s daughter and this is how they repay her? By cheating on her and emotionally torturing her.

And its Anuj who is delusional to think that even if he gets back with Anupama, her baggage issues and priorities will change.

Shruti has already lost her parents, now she is on the verge of losing these two whom she considered family for 5 yrs, its very selfish of Anuj to use Shruti for 5 yrs like a Nanny and now act like she is the one running after him.

He manipulated Shruti emotionally by making excuse of Aadhya’s mental state to invite Anupama to their house, for Aadhya’s sake but all the time he was seen romancing with Anupama instead, Aadhya’s condition is still the same.

Anupama shamelessly enjoyed everything and left when it was time to attend the wedding in India.

Shruti is behaving like how any normal girl would, in such a scenario.

Disagree on this. Anupamaa was always committed to one man. During marriage. After divorce. During second marriage, after second divorce (obeying his order of banishment)..... She has always belonged to Vanrajan.

She may not be Kavya or Maaya but her lack of character has shone through ample times. When she kept running to abuser ex-husband and ex-in-laws in the name of adult kids and their made up problems which apparently no one else could solve. When she gave a clean chit to the vile ex-husband whose nature she knew very well despite his constant efforts to ruin her marriage and trap her sister-in-law to be. She has aided, abetted and supported all the abuses from her ex-MIL and ex-husband because Baa Bhagwaan and Pati parmeshwar. Character is defined by many aspects and not just this one.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Maaya abandoning Adhya CANNOT be put in the same sentence/paragraph at ALL.

In my honest opinion, Anupama got the best (worst) combination of erstwhile Kavya and Maaya.

True

I really did not thought about from this perspective

Maya did not willingly gave up Aadhya so that she can run away by playing victim

Definitely don’t see Anupama as Maya 2. I see Shrew as Maya 2. Maya knew Anuj was married but developed feelings for Anuj using Choti as an excuse. Shrew is clinging on to Anuj knowing full well he does not love her using Adhya as her excuse.

Ek tarfa pyaar:

1. Anupama ek tarfa pyaar karti thi Vanraj se. Vanraj-Kavya ke affair ke baad jab Anupama ne rishta bachane ki koshish ki aur rishta tab toda jab Vanraj ne saaf shabdon me rishta nibhani se mana Kar diya.

2. Anuj-Anupama ki shaadi ke waqt Anuj ek tarfa pyaar karta tha.

Anuj ne apne rishte ko bachane ki kya kuch koshish nahin ki. Par ek sawaal par Anupama ne apna rishte ko tone ka faisla saaf saaf sunaya hi nahin rishte, naate, contact sab tod kar bhaag gayi.

3. Yashdeep ek tarfa pyaar karta hain Anupama se.

Yashdeep ne kayi kayi baar apne dil ki baat Anupama ko batayi apne pyaar ko mauke diye but woh itni bholi hain ki kabhi samjhi hi nahin. Yashdeep ne propose kiya aur Anupama ne inkaar kar diya aur isi naate woh dost bankar reh rahe hain. Phir bhi Anupama dosti se badhkar haq jatati hn, yeh alag baat hain.

4. Shruti ek tarfa pyaar karti hain Anuj se.

Shruti ne Anupama aur Anuj se saaf shabdon me poocha aur donon ne saaf mana kardiya. Shruti called off the engagement and wedding and went to India. Anuj, saamne se, India me usse shaadi ka prastaav rakhta hain, lautne ke baad is baad ki pushti karta hain ki woh dono shaadi karenge. Ab Shruti, Anuj ke aashwasan ke basis pe apne rishton ko bachane ki koshish karti hn.

Insab me baaki sab toh sahi hain apni jagah, sabhi morally upright hain bas Shruti manipulative, "using" Adhya.

Agar woh Adhya ko use kar rahi hoti toh apne jaan khatre me nahin daalti, yeh jante hue ki uski friend ne use dhokha diya, use jab kaha gaya ki Anupama hi Adhya ka ilaaj kar sakti hn toh usi friend ko apne ghar nahin bulati. Adhya ko Anupama ke saath baithkar apne issues resolve karne ke liye nahin bolti, apne andar ke nafrat ko mitaane nahin bolti.

Insab me Anuj jo use jhooth Aashwasan deta hain, Anupama jo sab jante boojhte unki grihasti me khusi padti hain woh sab bilkul galat nahin hain, galati sirf Shruti ki hain. Waah!?