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Posted: 1 years ago
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Shruti is getting very insecure because of anupama in anuj life


So shes trying to attract anuj in various ways and make anupama down


Any human who has no one and is all alone will cling to last ray of hope in life like Shruti or adhya both have only anuj and no one else. Imagine anuj parents were alive adhya would not care for anuj marraige that much as grandparents will take care of her.


Like we think why many woman take abuse and think hubby will change one day - thats also because woman in india and asia are not financial stability no jobs no good salary or social welfare like USA or europe countries


In US or europe even an uneducated woman can start college at 40 or 50 years or study MBBS or anything after 40


Have you seen women in india or asia going to regular college after 40 no because even our university's and colleges discourages it. They prefer giving college seats to 18 -25 year olds max 30 years for IIMB may be nothing more encouraged in regular studies


Just see how many 40 plus woman go to regular college change profession after life set back like divorce or child break etc very few in india or asia


Indian society and company do not encourage such things at all - indeed in very big indian corporate if they know you are getting pregnant they will force you to resign or start troubling you. But men have no such bias or pressure in life. I have seen woman in very big corporates having 3 miscarriages and resigning because moment you are pregnant management target you so you leave company pregnant women are liability. But compared to that US may have lesser leaves but do not kick out woman for getting pregnant


Shruti is 35 plus she has wasted or given 5 years of her life to anuj and ahya building a family now when she feels anupam may snatch her family her only ray of hope hes getting insecure and misbehaving with anupama


I can understand how Shruti or adhya feel. In our family our grandparents and unkles hated girl child grand child who are girls only boy grand kids liked and treated nicely. So all life all girl grand kids did was try to impress grandpa and grandma to love them and accept them like they boys. But t never happened no matter what you do that mindset never changes once you dislike someone you do not like them your own grand daughters too


Indeed grand daughters got more marks did everything but who got more love and care and everything only grand sons. So you try to win over person who hates you for decades at any cost than get dejected when you do everything and they still do not love you care for you. They only love the other person grandsons(or anupama) in this case who are less talented less educated less likely to achieve much in life lss like to even bother about grandparents in life. Than still you fail after decades or years of trying anger sets in you start hating person your grand parents love more(anupama for anuj here)


finally you start hating the grand parent only and want to take back all time and money and emotions you wasted on those ungrateful people(anuj here). So thats how it goes in real life too you try and try than give up to get same love and appreciation


See in real life grand parents or parents not loving a daughter does not lead to taking extreme steps like serials(like maya or shruti or barkha etc) because india is a male oriented country all girls are used to discrimination from birth so you may get frustrated but finally you accept it as fate and move on than go extreme like maya or shruti are doing. But yes thats a reason that high unhappiness is there among all nations in most asian nations because ppl are not treated equally or with respect and terrible bias exists.


Adhya case is similar because shes insecure that her father anuj may leave her for anupama or forget her after anupama comes in his life again. Adhya is how most girls think in mind in india at home but no one says openly like adhya. But this saas bahu issues in india happen because mom is insecure son will leave her after wedding and try to control him there wife is insecure that hubby will leave her for mom in law thus conflict happens

In Shruti case anuj is totally at fault- why stay in live in with woman you will never marry so that she does free nanny and mom duties or adhya? Why get engaged or start marraige functions which will stop and anuj will never ever marry shruti. Why give false promises?

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Question for Shruti - What is in this 50+ year old man that you are ready for become his second wife when he doesnt want to become your husband??????????????????????????????????????????????????????

She is a big NUT!!!!smiley37smiley37smiley37

Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: shwetha85

Question for Shruti - What is in this 50+ year old man that you are ready for become his second wife when he doesnt want to become your husband??????????????????????????????????????????????????????

She is a big NUT!!!!smiley37smiley37smiley37

Money, good looks, broken but not violent, plays hard to get. Women find that very attractive.

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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Money, good looks, broken but not violent, plays hard to get. Women find that very attractive.

All this will not be acceptable for a sensible woman. It was told that she helped Anuj set up his business in the US, she seems to be rich as well, her parents have left a lot for her. Good looks - Nahhh!!! There might be better people out there for sure. Shruti is definitely not a sensible womansmiley36

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Originally posted by: shwetha85

All this will not be acceptable for a sensible woman. It was told that she helped Anuj set up his business in the US, she seems to be rich as well, her parents have left a lot for her. Good looks - Nahhh!!! There might be better people out there for sure. Shruti is definitely not a sensible womansmiley36

Please tell me who exactly makes any sense in this show.

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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Money, good looks, broken but not violent, plays hard to get. Women find that very attractive.

Nailed it smiley36
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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Please tell me who exactly makes any sense in this show.

CA aks Adhya!!! She called Anupama a panauti (a curse) which actually seems right!! Wherever she goes, trouble seems to follow hersmiley37smiley37smiley37

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Money, good looks, broken but not violent, plays hard to get. Women find that very attractive.


Playing hard to get is real thing


Women and men both ego gets challenged by rejection or hard to get ppl i guess and they will let go self respect to prove it at any cost

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: shwetha85

All this will not be acceptable for a sensible woman. It was told that she helped Anuj set up his business in the US, she seems to be rich as well, her parents have left a lot for her. Good looks - Nahhh!!! There might be better people out there for sure. Shruti is definitely not a sensible womansmiley36


IN US if you do not get good look men that too in NY where models, millionaires exist Shruti is blind


She is what 35 go marry a 35 year old doctor or lawyer etc that are in plenty in NY (i mean if you want even indian doctors are in plenty in USA)


You can still meet adhya if you love her so much

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