Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 04 Apr 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 28

This gen not even single track has been executed properly.

Abhira identity revelation and cholmate truth tracks will be executed in a worst manner.

BTS video, ruhi was blaming akshara, due to her, abhir is not with her

Abhir was Akshara’s son and if she wasn’t accepting her so of course Abir would leave with his mom, she can only partially be correct in blaming for her Poppy but definitely not Abir. If she was so fond of Abir why didn’t she tell her B Nanu to contact Abir and find out about him. This character annoys me.

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Does ruhi really think abhir will leave his mother to stay with her.

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

So why should Ruhi be blamed for anything that Akshara did ?

It was Akshara who never told Abhira about her family so how is Ruhi wrong in Abhira having no family ?

Did Ruhi asked Akshara to take blame on herself though she is the culprit as she was behind the wheels when the car hit Aarohi ?

Her own mother confession is the biggest evidence that she killed Aarohi.. If anything then proof do that Akshara didn't killed Aarohi.

Ruhi can be blamed for only Armaan fiasco but not regarding Akshara n the grudges she has..

Who is blaming Ruhi for Aksharas deeds.

I have no idea what happened in previous gen and I dont care either.

I only care for Abhira because she wasn't even born when all this stuff happened. She's also had a hard life but doesn't self victimize herself unlike Ruhi. Neither girl got everything as hunky dory but one girl is sunshine, logical, brave and other is in victim mode forever. Abhira had no dad, no siblings , no family except her mom and now is an orphan, had to deal with harassment in Mussoorie, was in a single income household with limited finances. But she doesn't cry all the frickin time. Shes independent, ambitious, has dreams unlike Ruhi whos only goal in life is to marry a man who has demonstrated that he will not pick her as priority and is now married to another woman himself.

I blame Ruhi for being stupid enough to marry the brother of the man she loved with no care about how inappropriate and unfair it is to the guy she is marrying. I blame her for the emotional infidelity when her husband was around. I blame her for taking out her gussa on Abhira always and blaming Abhira for coming between her and Armaan when she knows Abhira had no clue about Armaans past with her. I blame her for continuing to hit on her BIL when he's legally married instead of getting a frickin life and moving on. I blame her for being self centered enough to never take a stand for anything right but have the audacity to taunt Abhira. She's insensitive enough to taunt Abbira over not having a family or a father. I don't find anything likeable about Ruhi. I absolutely despise watching people who self victimize instead of dealing with situations. She is a woman who is coming across as jobless except to taunt Abhira and is immoral enough to have romantic feelings for her BIL who has told her he is unavailable in that way. She's got no self respect because she wants to pine after a man giving her mixed signals.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Who is blaming Ruhi for Aksharas deeds.

I have no idea what happened in previous gen and I dont care either.

I only care for Abhira because she wasn't even born when all this stuff happened. She's also had a hard life but doesn't self victimize herself unlike Ruhi. Neither girl got everything as hunky dory but one girl is sunshine, logical, brave and other is in victim mode forever. Abhira had no dad, no siblings , no family except her mom and now is an orphan, had to deal with harassment in Mussoorie, was in a single income household with limited finances. But she doesn't cry all the frickin time. Shes independent, ambitious, has dreams unlike Ruhi whos only goal in life is to marry a man who has demonstrated that he will not pick her as priority and is now married to another woman himself.

I blame Ruhi for being stupid enough to marry the brother of the man she loved with no care about how inappropriate and unfair it is to the guy she is marrying. I blame her for the emotional infidelity when her husband was around. I blame her for taking out her gussa on Abhira always and blaming Abhira for coming between her and Armaan when she knows Abhira had no clue about Armaans past with her. I blame her for continuing to hit on her BIL when he's legally married instead of getting a frickin life and moving on. I blame her for being self centered enough to never take a stand for anything right but have the audacity to taunt Abhira. She's insensitive enough to taunt Abbira over not having a family or a father. I don't find anything likeable about Ruhi. I absolutely despise watching people who self victimize instead of dealing with situations. She is a woman who is coming across as jobless except to taunt Abhira and is immoral enough to have romantic feelings for her BIL who has told her he is unavailable in that way. She's got no self respect because she wants to pine after a man giving her mixed signals.

Ruhi is at fault in that Armaan fiasco but its not because of her that Abhira had a hard life..It was Akshara's choice so blame Akshara for choosing that life.Atleast Abhira had Akshara even if she had no family but who does Ruhi have ? No parents nor Poppy or massi..Abhira living without a family n a hard life was because Akshara chose that..Not only Abhira but Ruhi also had no parents n no poppy too thanks to Akshara..

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Ruhi is at fault in that Armaan fiasco but its not because of her that Abhira had a hard life..It was Akshara's choice so blame Akshara for choosing that life.Atleast Abhira had Akshara even if she had no family but who does Ruhi have ? No parents nor Poppy or massi..Abhira living without a family n a hard life was because Akshara chose that..Not only Abhira but Ruhi also had no parents n no poppy too thanks to Akshara..

Again, I don't care about what happened in previous gen. But Abhira has nothing to do with it.

Ruhi did have Goenkas. She did get their love and a good upbringing eventually. She was also easily accepted by Poddars too. She got a loving husband but she was cheating on him. But she never looks at what she did get in life. She only cries over what she does not have. Thats the difference between her and Abhira.

As far as I read Abhir and Abhimanyu dying has nothing to do with Akshara. They died in accident.

But Ruhi is 100 % gonna project her hate and anger on Abhira. Akshara is dead now. But Abhira will suffer due to Ruhi irrationally projecting hate. She's already irrationally targeting Abhira for what Armaan did to her. Armaan not taking a stand for Ruhi, not marrying Ruhi and telling Ruhi he cant see her that way is NOT Abhiras fault. But Ruhi is petty enough to project her issues on Abhira. And she'll do the same when Akshara-Abhira revelation happens too. In all this Abhira did no wrong. Infact Abhira has always wanted good things for Ruhi but can't say the same for Ruhi. Ruhi only showed insaaniyat when Abhira was kidnapped and even there she had to first fight an internal battle to do the right thing. Its not automatic to do the right thing even in life-death situation. So she's clearly a self centered person who is extremely entitled.

lol,coming to this forum, I always get to learn new things!
Now I have decided, I will never try to stop an accident from happening, bcz god forbid if I am unable to stop it from happening, then it will be my fault! Never ever interfere in others matters as they says!

I have never seen the previous generation, but the logic & thought process that I am seeing from some comments is just enlightening!

There are people who finds Abhira wrong & should be thrown out of the house bcz apparently Abhira didn’t trust Dadisa whom she just met a few months ago & she should be grateful to her to provide shelter & food which would be delivered to her room bcz she is not allowed to go anywhere outside of the said room.

May be in that sense prisoners should also show gratitude to their jailers to lock them up in a room & they also provides food to the prisoners without any concern if they needed a little more salt, ketchup, spoons or anything else. & the most important part, there were no locks on the doors of Abhira’s room, so she should be eternally grateful for such treatment.

But these same people doesn’t find anything wrong with a person getting blamed for her step mother’s accidental death for her whole life, for the death of her brother in law (which I heard happened bcz he was playing hero to save girls from human trafficking), her own unborn twin babies & getting thrown out of the house with divorce papers! Here she deserved it, no one came forward to ask for the unyielding trust they should have in her bcz she was “family”. Bcz apparently family members doesn’t blame & doesn’t need proofs to believe in their innocence. This belief is what Abhira lacks, bcz she said just say once you didn’t do it & asked help to prove the proofs against dadisa baseless, so that she can clear Dadisa’s name. & that’s bcz she didn’t have family or her upbringing was wrong & doesn’t fit in joint family. Whereas the actions of these joint family’s members towards the former they find very justifiable!

They believe Abhira shouldn’t ask about proofs to prove dadisa innocent when there’s already a court case against her bcz she gave her shelter. But they want Abhira to prove Akshara’s innocence to her blood relatives who left her alone even in her deathbed! Oh… & that’s also Ak fault bcz apparently she had no reason to believe that a 6 year old child will be blamed by her blood relatives for her mother’s death when she herself was blamed for the same for such a long time & ran away from her responsibility in the name of playing victim card. She had no reason for such trauma, but Ruhi has every reason to be traumatised after such a long time when she was brought up in a loving & good joint family environment.

& of course even after such a long time Ruhi’s DDP is immeasurable to the point of being suicidal & Abhira is just playing victim on her mother’s first birthday after her death, who was her only family. & of course she is not miserable.

Ruhi should be in a psychiatric facility for Rx if she's so traumatized and suicidal. 🙄At least Abhira would be spared her bad behavior.

I also didn't watch prior seasons but agree fully with the pov.

Sick of Ruhis supposed DDP and Abhira never getting even bare minimum decency.

I think till date she does not eat at the table with everyone.

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Ruhi is at fault in that Armaan fiasco but its not because of her that Abhira had a hard life..It was Akshara's choice so blame Akshara for choosing that life.Atleast Abhira had Akshara even if she had no family but who does Ruhi have ? No parents nor Poppy or massi..Abhira living without a family n a hard life was because Akshara chose that..Not only Abhira but Ruhi also had no parents n no poppy too thanks to Akshara..

Imo everyone faces different struggles and traumas get different griefs and their way of handling them is also completely different so comparing 2 persons trauma is futile and illogical… some easily move on in life while some struggle..

But here I have always seen people hailing abhira’s struggles and trauma while ridiculing Ruhi’s and calling her a cry baby and always being on victim mode…

Abhira lost her mother when she was 22 while Ruhi lost when she was 6 year old kid… how can both the situation be same.. Abhira was an adult when she her mother died and hence she could have the maturity to easily move on and happily jump on trampoline 2-3months of her mother’s death… also her mother didn’t die due to her relative or her father figure left her….

Things were different for Ruhi.. if losing her mom and her maasi being responsible weren’t enough, her poppy and Abhir also left her thanks to Akshara…

and most importantly Ruhi has been shown to live a normal life but just gets triggered on hearing about Akshara the same way Abhira got triggered and got anxiety hearing Yuvraj’s name and him being in Udaipur… sometimes the triggers are so deep rooted that even after many years they bring back the haunting memories….
Disliking a character is understandable but ridiculing each and every thing about them and praising the same things about an another character imo is very immature….

Ruhi has had many many years to deal with her issues and loss. She does still have family and in laws who love her too but she based the very foundation of her marriage on lies! And she can seek help with a professional instead of crying over everything and blaming Abhira for everything in her life. If she lacks any self awareness, introspection, strength of character then ofc she will be unlikeable. Especially when there's a character as awesome as Abhira to compare with. Abhira does not collect sympathy from others over her trauma or fears. If someone makes zero effort to deal with their issues and cries victim that person will be unlikeable only.

And none of this past trauma perataining Akshara or her parents, etc justifies her current behavior of how she cheated Rohit by hiding her past and pining over her husbands brother, projects her irrational frustration on Abhira and wants immoral relationship with her BIL.

And without watching previous generation- why would Abhir be with Ruhi instead of his own mother? If Goenkas and her blamed Akshara for Arohis death and therefore Akshara left, obviously she will take her son with her.