Originally posted by: hellodona
If I loved someone I would not ask them to leave forever when they also went through shared tragedy. Sahiba did not break promise knowing this will happen lol.
I also will put live kids life over unborn foetus and verbal promises. Angad hid an important complication too. And Sahiba broke promise to go to hospital, yes she put live kids above a promise when she never anticipated the consequences.
Again, no issues. Angad cares about the baby, he chose to not listen. Now he better not play victim when he isn't in kids life because he chose to kick out mother when she miscarried.
I agree, Sahiba did not think of consequences fully , she is paying the price. Now Angad isn't thinking through so he isn't the victim.
Also I don't agree that onus of restarting relationship is on Sahiba, it is the nth time he has broken relationship and said with finality that she should leave his life forever and refused verbal contact too.
She has always had the option to leave him. She is clinging to him because she wants the relationship. She decided to forget and forgive the night she made out with him. It's her karma after that. She is repeatedly opting for this substandard life. I cannot sympathize with her anymore.
At the moment, Angad is the victim. Cannot expect an ideal reaction from him. He had warned her. Imagine your worst nightmare coming true after you did everything in your capacity to warn a person. If he reacts irrationally, it cannot be held against him. I would hold him and his love as fake if he didn't reconcile after a month or two months or whatever time after Sahiba apologized and tried to patch up. But not right now. He doesn't have to be her shoulder to lean on. Not right now. Where the f is Sahiba's family? Shouldn't they be there for her when she miscarried? I would hold them accountable for not supporting her. I do agree with the insensitive representation of miscarriage. I would have appreciated if they showed Angad being considerate but unforgiving towards Sahiba. In my mind, he is shown toned down for this reason.
I have always called out Angad's character. But not at this moment. If he was responsible for leading to Monga papa and the unborn child's death, then I would similarly say that Sahiba needs to be given leeway for her reaction.
Also, as a mother, I don't agree with a foetus being dismissed as an unimportant entity in one's life. A foetus is alive. At what point you get attached is subjective. Just because it's not visible as a walking, talking, crying human doesn't mean it's non existent. Infact, conception and beginning of life is a far bigger milestone than the baby simply being pulled out of the womb. Angad's father was absent while growing up. So if he is hurt by the loss, I would give him leeway. Also, the irony of the fate. It can be overwhelming for a person.
I know someone who behaved what a third person would call, a complete asshole with her family and daughter, after her husband passed away. It's because she couldn't cope. It took her 2-3 years to start behaving normally with her loved ones. And that cannot be a time where you test whether she loves her family or not.
Edited by Khaalidimaag - 2 years ago