Originally posted by: janecastle
Armaan's problem is, he does not appreciate the ones who genuinely care for him and craves for attention from those who are simply using him. May be because of the way he was brought up. Isko samaj hi nahi aata that he's sacrificing his life for people who'll never truly appreciate him for who he is. In that way, he is similar to his MIL, who spend a good chunk of her life pleasing people who were just not worth it. The moment she got away from that toxicity, her life became so much better. And the day Armaan starts to appreciate those who truly care for him, that is, his father and his wife, he'll get a better life. May be that would, indeed be his character's growth and progress.
Yea, right now Armaan's entire problem is this only. He doesn't know whom to prioritize and whom to not. Vidya and Dadisa might have accepted him but their love for him is tainted and comes with certain conditions and expectations. Maybe that's why he keeps going overboard to meet those expectations. I don't think Dadisa would have even thought about his marriage at all. Otherwise his priorities would have changed. She wants him as her right hand without baggage of filial bond.
But again, right now if he were to soften towards Abhira, that girl will give in to him as she is equally smitten and cares for him a lot. That tension will go away
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