For once............ - Page 5

Originally posted by: surabhi01

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPnUFdC46Fk&pp=ygUVYW51cGFtYSBlcGlzb2RlIHRvZGF5

Here everyone is praising anupama for sending toshu to jail ki ab trp bhad jaayegi

But aisa toh kuch hua hi nahi. Ulta Jhandupama khud roti hui padi thi jail me, aur Toshu toh dekhne bhi nahi aaya

Originally posted by: Harish111

If you don't admit anupama is wrong then why would anyone admit Anuj was?

Remember, Anupama did it FIRST, Anuj just had reaction.

And your last line is sad because it's true, people want her to be correct and good and not crying and suffering.

I didn't say Anupama was always right .I just said a small group of people believe that Anuj is always right.

Wrongs doings are always wrong whether anyone does it first or last ,whether it was action or reaction.

I disagree. majority of the people love this char. That is why it is the No:1 show. No one watch it just to see MaAn romance.

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Not just IF, reddit twitter insta jahan bolo log iske arrest ko celebrate hi kar rahe hain.
koi empower nahi hota iss cartoon se. 😂
Taaza discussions on reddit, she is a laughing stock everywhere 😂

Isme tho mera comment bhi hai 😭

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Habits of decades cannot be cut off easily. They were her family and her kids still resided in that house. She is not 18 or 20 that left mayka for love. Anuj is no 20 year old either and should have had the sense when he married her to realize he was marrying all her responsibilities.

Her fawning on Ba now in Amerika is no one’s business but her own. She has lived with Ba from the age of 18 to 40, abusive relationship maybe but still a long standing one that cannot be chucked.

What about Anuj’s transgressions? Living with Maya for months ignoring his wife? What about his live in relationship with Shruthi while he apparently is still pining for Anupama? Better for him to leave Anupama in peace and carry on his duplicit activities with Shruthi. His daughter who he has raised poorly will surely be happy and that is all Anuj ever wants is to make Adhya happy at whatever cost.

If habits of decades can’t change then why she gone for divorce. Vanraj was asking her to not get divorce but she forced it. Baa and her children also didn’t wanted them divorced so why she gone for it. They all could be living in the same house like they mostly done and she can maintain distance from vanraj with living in the marriage where Vanraj had no say in her life.

That way there would be no problem in shah house. Anupama would be free from unwanted matkas too.

Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

So you'd rather Anupama continue to get abused and misused by Baa and Vanraj than her learning to distance herself from them and heal from 26 years of abuse?

Great. What a sage advice for abused women

What Anuj did with Maya was wrong. What he was doing with Shruti is wrong.

But two wrongs don't make a right

Just because Anuj did wrong things does not automatically change what Anupama was doing and continues to do. Which is having an unhealthy attachment to her abusers.

Seriously the woman is in jail because she refuses to learn who is and who isn't good for her.

Ab kya wait kar rahi hai ki Baa ya Vanraj ya Toshu ki vajah se fasi ho phir agle janam me sabak sikhegi?

Lol, my advice is definitely never to put up with abuse. You have completely misconstrued what I wrote. Her attachment to her kids comes out of instinct and habit. Anju’s expectation to play house with him and choti is also another kind of abuse. Saying he accepts her for what she is but wanting to revert to a lifestyle of newly marrieds with a young child when she does have responsibilities (for heaven’s sake she is 40+ not 18 or 20) she cannot turn away from is accepting a ton from Anupama. Saddling a woman with unrealistic expectations and expecting her to contour to a man’s needs and expectations is also repression of sorts. A woman should not have to kow tow to anyone’s expectations of her. If he can do what he chooses, she can as well. Period.

Originally posted by: Harish111

I love Anupama fans, on one side they claim she was victim of abuse but then want her to serve same abusers and no one should question them.

Also the blatant double standards where husband should be a unquestioning slave serving wife and wife can never be answerable and need not support husband or his family

Anuj's transgressions were a REACTION, when a wife doesn't love and abandons husband, husband will seek solace elsewhere . When someone slaps you 10 times and you slap back once, no one blames the second person.

Anuj might have poorly raised adhya but Anupama is a bhagodi who left her small daughter and ran away. This is wrong both morally and on eyes of the law but of course the andh bhakts don't care.

Apparently Anupama bhakts think husbands are just slave and wives have no responsibility to husband and family and no one can question them. A wife has no responsibility to her husband or kid and can just be obsessed with exes.

Lol, I am not a fan of Mahaan Anupama, I like to call a spade a spade as I see it. Anuj running off behind Maya was not a reaction. It was intentional. His moving on with Shruthi was intentional. Then live and let live, don’t hinder Anupama in her life, misguided, old fashioned, screwed up, whatever she may be. Anuj has no connection or say in Anupama’s life and trying to make this a romantic love story by making an ex run after a college love that hasn’t worked out, isn’t cutting it for me. He tried it to see if he can recreate a lost magic with a divorced woman who came with obvious baggage. If he didn’t have the bandwidth to accept her with her faults, no blame on him. But now that he is with another and his ex is trying to create a life for herself, leave her be. Take your insolent daughter and sweet Shruthi and make a life of it. Let Anupama wallow in her own muddled life choices.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

If habits of decades can’t change then why she gone for divorce. Vanraj was asking her to not get divorce but she forced it. Baa and her children also didn’t wanted them divorced so why she gone for it. They all could be living in the same house like they mostly done and she can maintain distance from vanraj with living in the marriage where Vanraj had no say in her life.

That way there would be no problem in shah house. Anupama would be free from unwanted matkas too.

Habits of caring for her children and older in laws who she considers as parents are different from accepting a cheating husband. If she had known Vanraj was cheating from the beginning and had turned a blind eye to it from the first, then your question is valid as to why is she changing her habit of excusing Vanraj for his cheating. That is not the case here, she came to know of his cheating and left him. She has put up with taunts from Ba and disrespect from her children forever.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Habits of caring for her children and older in laws who she considers as parents are different from accepting a cheating husband. If she had known Vanraj was cheating from the beginning and had turned a blind eye to it from the first, then your question is valid as to why is she changing her habit of excusing Vanraj for his cheating. That is not the case here, she came to know of his cheating and left him. She has put up with taunts from Ba and disrespect from her children forever.

Do you really thinks anything has changed after she knew about cheating. She had shown same trust on Vanraj maltipal times after their divorce. Except affair with Kavya Vanraj is the most honest person on earth for her. How many times she had defended him.

In itv I don’t know why but they are always against with after marriage younger generation to move out and be independent and occasionally helping them. In real life no parents interfere in there children marriage like Anupama. Parents let them took responsibility of their household work and kids. Baa’s food can’t be Anupama’s responsibility now. It’s kinjal’s responsibility and if baa can’t adjust then she shouldn’t come to USA. In 5 years Anupama’s behaviour didn’t change towards Shahs even a one bit.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

Do you really thinks anything has changed after she knew about cheating. She had shown same trust on Vanraj maltipal times after their divorce. Except affair with Kavya Vanraj is the most honest person on earth for her. How many times she had defended him.

In itv I don’t know why but they are always against with after marriage younger generation to move out and be independent and occasionally helping them. In real life no parents interfere in there children marriage like Anupama. Parents let them took responsibility of their household work and kids. Baa’s food can’t be Anupama’s responsibility now. It’s kinjal’s responsibility and if baa can’t adjust then she shouldn’t come to USA. In 5 years Anupama’s behaviour didn’t change towards Shahs even a one bit.

I don’t think Anupama trusts Vanraj except for believing that he is a good father and good son. She has lived with him for umpteen years and knows his strengths and weaknesses.

Yes, Anupama is no longer beholden to Ba, she should not feel obligated to cater to her. Ba’s comments about Anupama being imprisoned bordered on nasty beyond compare. It grated on the ears and I think Ba’s character is too exaggerated and the writers need to tone it down a notch.

Those are Anupama’s weaknesses, being overly attached to the kids. So it is a welcome change to see her wanting to take Paritosh to task and doing the needful to put him behind bars. But the poor woman is damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t.

You will soon see that it will be only her who will be the reason for Toshu coming out of the jail. They will never show toshu in jail for long. He will be out very soon.