Ruhi's selfishness cannot be condoned or explained at all. It's wrong, end of story.
She is selfish for us- but not for Poddars n Arman specially.
He doesn’t see Ruhi marrying Rohit as rushed decision n blames himself. Her staying at Poddars is ‘sacrifice’ for him and his mother. (I know its ridiculous)
At this point this seems like channel’s decision to show ‘vidambana’, ‘sacrifice’ and ‘suffering’ of second woman of man’s life. Another show showing same ex is staying as family wo any relationship ties. N Rishta is moving to that direction too- Rohit’s rishta is done n dusted for Ruhi, so she will be officially an ex n bff staying at Poddars for Armaan. (Name a bigger sacrifice one can make in love- I know still ridiculous)
Theme of season from channel is- DDP of woman going after married man. They take lot of silent burn like seeing their man with another woman, put up a brave face and still love the man- so we are seeing their side now. (I know- even more rediculous)
At this point viewers has to accept that even if Armaan will get close to Abhira but have a peace of heart w Ruhi. No wrong from her will change that.
Call me old fashion but I am a person of boundaries in relationship- Not everything is fair in love or war- if you think it is - fine, then have guts to free the person you are in relationship with- or atleast tell them. And I don’t mean spouse only but family as well. Let them know and then do whatever if you have guts. But dont shield immoral acts and intentions in name if friendship, or other family rishtas.
Here it may be friendship from Armaan (doesn’t look like at all) but he is aware of Ruhi’s feelings n intentions- they r wronging not only Rohit n Abhira but whole family. He n Abhira r not romantically involved but he stills owes to clarify this to her so she doesn’t develop feelings for him and also must maintain strong boundaries.
PS: Show has stooped to the level where yesterday a ‘tera rasta main chhodu na’ played on radio and all I thought of was how aptly it fits Ruhi 
That was A sweet song ruined for me.
PSS: Kaha I was hoping this would be better than OG n kaha it is turning out to be worse than that slowly. (Otherthan physical abuse aspect, the infidelity angle here is very strong)
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