BKAS Episode Discussion Thread #1 [DT NOTE PG 37] new ETD link pg 150 - Page 114

Originally posted by: Utkarsha999

Exactly my point audience are busy in roasting Kunal but Vandana's character is actually more problematic than him

I don’t feel that Vandana is problematic because her behavior cause more self harm. She is the one at the receiving end always and pretty much no one else is much affected. While in Kunal’s case it’s both ways- his behavior does cause self harm but also impacts others , in current scenario , it’s Vandana and Tara who are affected… his actions and words can really be brutal. So yes on that part that V is problematic, she is to her own self esteem.

Vandana's only problem is that she is too good. Often times, people who are too good think and see the best of others. Vandana also saw the best in Kunal - deep down she thought that he has a heart of gold. But that heart of gold is not sufficient - he is quick to come to conclusions - and that too wrong ones. He has got to make up his mind wrt to V - one instant he's singing praises of her and the next he's bombarding her for something totally not in her control (Yeah, if she took bobby and mrunal to the marriage registrar and registered their marriage - it's a different story) but no she didn't - she only saw bobby and mrunal inching toward each other ..and just like K has come close to her and hugged her but feels NOTHING for her, why should she assume that Bobby and Mrunal had any feelings - like i really want her to ask K this!!!

I think it's about time V stands up to the lousy Malhotras - but from the BTS it appears that she is continuing her submissive behavior and trying to make Kunal understand in a nice way - the guy really doesn't deserve that niceness...Taking Tara away should have been the last straw for V - She should have said "Fine, handle your daughter and family and got the hell out of that place" She can find a job, look after her dad and atya and shower her motherly affection on Shivam!

and honestly where did Vani disappear?!

You have a point. Maybe the bitter truth is that Vandu seeks validation and attention from men. Kunal once called her desperate. I would hate for that to be true but Vandu also said it herself when she was questioned why she started dating Vaibhav. All the reasons for her dating him were small and unimportant but basically she started dating him because he would tell her she was beautiful and he would ask how her day was. She didn’t date him because he was a good man but because he was giving her the attention that she desired. It’s been twice that she has proposed or planned to propose to men who didn’t care for her but used her for their benefit. She proposed to Vaibhav on her knees and now she’s stuck starring at this ring which she wanted to give Kunal. Due to this approval-seeking behavior this is probably why she prioritizes and pleases everyone over herself.

Uggghhh… 😖😖😖it’s hard to see Vandu in this light but maybe it’s true and could stem from childhood trauma with her mother.

I suggest writers take a few episodes and have both families do counseling and therapy sessions.

I just watched today's episode and precap - Bobby trying to take his life seems strange no?? He was so strongly in support of Mrunal and wanted to be there for her - by taking his life he's fine with leaving her? Also, if getting pushed out of home is what made him try to take his life then why not figure out a way? Like the guy who was so bold and strong just hours ago deciding to end his life seems strange ..

Also, what led him to marry Mrunal also seems fishy. Like when Mrunal was alone in that hotel room - she saw someone and said "Tum" and the scene cut - i doubt that was Bobby - i think it was Vaibhav -

Maybe there's more to this track than what meets the eye. If it's playing out as is - it's pretty pathetic and I think just as Kunal said that if Mrunal cheats Bobby it's on Vandana - Vandana should fire back saying if Bobby takes his life it's on Kunal!!!

Kuch zyada hi nahi expect kar rahe hai hum

Vandna thoda zyada hi uttam gruhlakshmi banney ki koshish kar rahi hai She want to set things in the family itseems

I'm surprised that Bobby attempted suicide. Basically, he pressurises the family to accept Mrunal.

Kunal is still against it. But Vandana the Jagat Mata tries to convince him.

What was hilarious is she tries to make Kunal Jagat Pita too, now to Bobby

Vaibhav Mrunal story has begun , it was shown in the precap. So another two weeks I guess before the track closes.

What was also shown in the pre-cap...Kunal had bought a saree for her, which he wanted to give her I suppose when they met.

I don't know what to say...the trend is toxic male lead these days. But female leads are shown to be equally strong ...here Vanda is like an 80's heroine.

How will Kunal ever fall in love with her? he was initially impressed with her fiery nature. I just hate it when she folds her hands in front of various people to apologise.

When I stan a couple, I stan both and try to find a reason behind their actions. Kunal has not moved forward at all with respect to Vandana, he is in fact treating her like a nanny. With additional benefits

I wish she gets kidnapped or something...I want Kunal to want her for her own personality not because of Tara (Sayli can also take a break)

BTW, I must add ...I am liking Sayli a lot these days. Earlier I found her a little OTT in emotional scenes. But now, she is getting better and better.

Poor vandu she still believes that she can settle the matter and she will win kunal’s heart for what vandu for what he never respect you when something happens he blame directly for you don’t you think that is too much I think you should be strong don’t blind with love ❤️ your are mature with love because you love vebhav blindly but at last you got pain same story repeating in your life

Kunal doesn’t have single % trust about vandu he took Tara away from you don’t fall love again and again your not getting anything return.

I know in one point you are wrong vandu but you trusted Bobby because you thought he never hurt you don’t trust anybody in future all are in their selfish lifestyle.

Originally posted by: heyjude07

I'm surprised that Bobby attempted suicide. Basically, he pressurises the family to accept Mrunal.

Kunal is still against it. But Vandana the Jagat Mata tries to convince him.

What was hilarious is she tries to make Kunal Jagat Pita too, now to Bobby

Vaibhav Mrunal story has begun , it was shown in the precap. So another two weeks I guess before the track closes.

What was also shown in the pre-cap...Kunal had bought a saree for her, which he wanted to give her I suppose when they met.

I don't know what to say...the trend is toxic male lead these days. But female leads are shown to be equally strong ...here Vanda is like an 80's heroine.

How will Kunal ever fall in love with her? he was initially impressed with her fiery nature. I just hate it when she folds her hands in front of various people to apologise.

When I stan a couple, I stan both and try to find a reason behind their actions. Kunal has not moved forward at all with respect to Vandana, he is in fact treating her like a nanny. With additional benefits

I wish she gets kidnapped or something...I want Kunal to want her for her own personality not because of Tara (Sayli can also take a break)

BTW, I must add ...I am liking Sayli a lot these days. Earlier I found her a little OTT in emotional scenes. But now, she is getting better and better.

This will be so interested I want too please writer think about it if vandu gets kidnapped or something … I want to see reaction of kunal 🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌

What’s with Bobby ? He is completely messed up. I don’t even understand when did he fall so badly with mrunal. She must have been with them say 3-4 weeks?
He wants to support mrunal but is ready to take his life away then behaves totally crazy on hospital bed and wants everyone to take him and mrunal home.
I don’t think Kunal is wrong with respect to Bobby - Bobby needs to make a choice and have in himself to be independent ( pammi was also worried that they ll have nothing if kunal decides to disown) and stick to his choice.

Precap is interesting …. I do think one of vandana or kunal are going to be in danger of sorts. Hope it’s vandana as kunal needs a trigger at this point what it’s like losing her.

Btw, I know they did it for impact but pammi physically abusin g V was disturbing to watch.