Originally posted by: smriti25
That is because the makers are trying to show Ruhi that way. It is their way of addressing her immoral intentions. She has lost so much in life that her insecurities take the better of her. She self-victimises to the point that she ends up hurting others.
Maybe the makers want to portray Ruhi that way. If you see, at least Abhira had her Akshara, even if that's not a whole family, but she has her mom. Armaan's condition is bad; he has a mom, Vidya, but that is her stepmom. Every day he gets reminded they are doing eshaan to keep him in the Poddar house, and because of him, Madhav and Vidya's marriage is strained. I think he feels guilty about that too. But for Ruhi, she lost her dad, her mum both, then Abhimanyu too. So, we can't ignore the fact that little Ruhi lost many people she loved when she was younger. So yeah little ruhi life was tragic.
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