"Mein" (ARY Digital) - Ayeza Khan, Wahaj Ali #4 [DT Note Pg 132] - Page 45

The OST Lyrics are. definitely Zaid POV, ignore video .

Dil Ta Guzari Kaya Kaya Hum Kaya Kahein

Paye Hain Ghum Khushiyoon Ki Chah Mein

True he married MJ when he wanted to marry Aira and his marriage to Aira was with MJ as first wife. Irony he loved both women but they didn’t come to his life when he wanted and how he wanted.

Ishq Mein Na Chand Ki Tarha Ka Kiya Ha

Humesha Teri Hi KHushi Sa Rabta Rakha Ha

Humeshaa aa

Phir Meri Ankho Mein Barsaat Kuan Dakhoo

The lyrics above emphasise how he always loved her to moon and put her happiness above only to find tears in his eyes —- it could mean to both aira and MJ

Wo Jo Mera Na Tha , Kaun Jur Gaya Nata

Jo Na Nibhana Tha, Hum Phir Sa Badqismat Rahy

Mein Hon Mera, Ghair Mery Kis Kam Ka

Kis Kam Ka,

Tum Be Sanam Kheir Milly Bs Nam Ka, Bs Nam Ka

Again both women came back to him but he is unlucky as he is not able to maintain them.

Mein Hon Mera, Ghair Mery Kis Kam Ka

Kis Kam Ka,

Tum Be Sanam Kheir Milly Bs Nam Ka, Bs Nam Ka

Makes me wonder if he will leave everyone behind and go alone !

Originally posted by: Winterberry

The OST Lyrics are. definitely Zaid POV, ignore video .

Dil Ta Guzari Kaya Kaya Hum Kaya Kahein

Paye Hain Ghum Khushiyoon Ki Chah Mein

True he married MJ when he wanted to marry Aira and his marriage to Aira was with MJ as first wife. Irony he loved both women but they didn’t come to his life when he wanted and how he wanted.

Ishq Mein Na Chand Ki Tarha Ka Kiya Ha

Humesha Teri Hi KHushi Sa Rabta Rakha Ha

Humeshaa aa

Phir Meri Ankho Mein Barsaat Kuan Dakhoo

The lyrics above emphasise how he always loved her to moon and put her happiness above only to find tears in his eyes —- it could mean to both aira and MJ

Wo Jo Mera Na Tha , Kaun Jur Gaya Nata

Jo Na Nibhana Tha, Hum Phir Sa Badqismat Rahy

Mein Hon Mera, Ghair Mery Kis Kam Ka

Kis Kam Ka,

Tum Be Sanam Kheir Milly Bs Nam Ka, Bs Nam Ka

Again both women came back to him but he is unlucky as he is not able to maintain them.

Mein Hon Mera, Ghair Mery Kis Kam Ka

Kis Kam Ka,

Tum Be Sanam Kheir Milly Bs Nam Ka, Bs Nam Ka

Makes me wonder if he will leave everyone behind and go alone !

I will support this 😂

Zaid needs to find inner peace. And a biwi # 3 lol

Originally posted by: tgota92

You’re right but I don’t think the writer will leave Asif at least unpunished at the end of this. So let’s see. MJ also might come clean to Zaid. Who knows. Which is why the closure episodes need to be done justice and not rushed. Too many problematic themes are at stake here lol

I am not interested in love story of either pair because they haven't focused on their love for each other in whimsical sense. Their love is realistic like Sania and Shoaib's love, one can't say that they didn't love each other, they have been fighting hatred of two nations for years to be together but today, he loves another. It is real. I wanna see if they will address the gravity of issues which they have added, my primary concern is that there was no need for scene where MJ supported a rapist over his victim, why add that scene? Why make Asif kidnap and torture Ayra's brother? Why go so far if you are not going to do justice to these themes?

Originally posted by: tgota92

She’s letting the second personality win na. It’s her downfall made by her own choices. She chooses wrong every time because her actions are dictated by revenge and not love anymore. First time she listens to bhabhi’s good advice. Second time she doesn’t. She tries to overcome her feelings by keeping busy, distracting herself, becoming a workaholic - but even that win is taken from her and she’s back to square one. Alone with her thoughts with just Asif in the house.

I know you think it’s because she doesn’t *love* Zaid that she does this but the writer has given her a backstory and trauma as an evolving factor for a reason. Her love for Zaid is losing against her past trauma. And she’s letting it 🤷‍♀️ Despite multiple people begging her not to do this to herself. Love and revenge aren’t mutually exclusive. One is taking precedence and she’s made that choice herself.

She’s a tragic character through and through. Look how irrational her choices are now. What is her goal? There’s no logical goal in this mess she’s created. This is a person who is acting out of desperation and is self destroying. In her foolishness she’s given Asif the perfect excuse to annihilate her

She rejected Zaid before her trauma because her brother found the family dishonorable. She could have asked Zaid to wait. She made it crystal clear she won't budge from brother's decision. She found Zaid moved on and she felt he moved on too quick. Then she overheard the manipulation story and that's what drove her love...if she hadn't heard the manipulation she won't have fought for love ? Ok you can argue her Bhai threatened suicide, so she was helpless...

And how long this trauma will last? The so called trauma allows her to enjoy her victory, but the trauma doesn't let her understand her partner is suffering through his loss...that's why I said- the I love you is just a Line- if she said it actually also she never means it. Did she say I love you?Not that it matters ..the trauma allows her to be possessive about Zaid and enjoy going out with him for dinner and enjoy her victory and focus on career...somehow when it comes to.understanding him trauma is back? Then how is it even love? You let your trauma win over love? Great. Yes we can sympathise with the weakness in her character that can't deal with the trauma consistently.

Originally posted by: tgota92

I will support this 😂

Zaid needs to find inner peace. And a biwi # 3 lol

If Zaid dies everyone will lose think about it. Zaid's death will defeat Asif, MJ and Ayra

You can find these questionable choices not just for Ayra but for Zaid. For MJ 🤷‍♀️ Nobody’s love is pure here so I don’t get why Ayra specifically has to meet the set standard.

For example, for me Zaid’s history with MJ makes his actions towards her even more abhorring - how is that love ? His speed of moving on from his break up to his marriage - again, how is that love?

MJ’s quest to break up Ayra and Zaid makes her feelings a huge question mark - how is that love “real?”

so you can pick apart any single one of them. Ayra is not unique in this

Originally posted by: tgota92

You can find these questionable choices not just for Ayra but for Zaid. For MJ 🤷‍♀️ Nobody’s love is pure here so I don’t get why Ayra specifically has to meet the set standard.

For example, for me Zaid’s history with MJ makes his actions towards her even more abhorring - how is that love ? His speed of moving on from his break up to his marriage - again, how is that love?

MJ’s quest to break up Ayra and Zaid makes her feelings a huge question mark - how is that love “real?”

so you can pick apart any single one of them. Ayra is not unique in this

Zaid going to MJ's bedroom and Zaid going to bar to flirt with other girls and post pictures online for MJ and world to see both were orchestrated to attack weakness of MJ, his family and Ayra. In first he knew MJ would mind the social display of his activities with other women and in second, he knew Ayra's insecurities regarding MJ and both times, he accepted as much to himself and Ayra. The difference is that in first one he acknowledged MJ wasn't at fault but he didn't mind hurting her although he felt bad and in 2nd one, he comes back to the room, picks up Ayra's shoes which I don't see Asian men doing so was a little surprised, then says that he has ruined her night and adds that his spending night was a reaction to her actions. The romantic in me would have been floored seeing him pick up her shoes because you know you don't generally see men doing that but then I see this man using both women as a tool so I don't really want any good feelings for him but he is not a criminal so there is that lol.

Zaid has been attacking MJ's insecurities regarding divorce from first day of their marriage, in car he threatened her with it when he was bringing her back

He has hurt both women, has used their weaknesses against them to hurt them even more

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Makes me wonder if he will leave everyone behind and go alone !

Wont be a bad ending. Zaid is the only character in the show with some amount of morality.

Originally posted by: tgota92

You can find these questionable choices not just for Ayra but for Zaid. For MJ 🤷‍♀️ Nobody’s love is pure here so I don’t get why Ayra specifically has to meet the set standard.

For example, for me Zaid’s history with MJ makes his actions towards her even more abhorring - how is that love ? His speed of moving on from his break up to his marriage - again, how is that love?

MJ’s quest to break up Ayra and Zaid makes her feelings a huge question mark - how is that love “real?”

so you can pick apart any single one of them. Ayra is not unique in this

You can write pages on Zaid's sacrifices for Ayra- because he believes love is about giving. He did not get that from MJ ..not even close to it.

The question is not whether he loves MJ or MJ loves him...that will be answered depending on whether they learn to sacrifice what they hold close as mein for the partner. Zaid has not killed his mein for Ayra, but he has done so many things sacrificing his needs. What has Ayra done in the entire show for him is the question...barring agreeing to marry him, that too with a weird condition....she agreed to stay out in the same house after bhaabhi advised her ..beyond that, where she could have sacrificed for Zaid and where she did.Or are you saying that in this relationship only Zaid needs to give...that's precisely what led to that statement of his reactionscand her actions of....? Selfishness, isn't it? It was not about one night...it was the events that led to that one night,btw.

So her love for Zaid is selfish. Zaid has to give more in this relationship.

With MJ actually he's trying the Ayra tactics of being dominant...🤭 Unintentionally....and not that harshly too...and Mubashira's reactions are actually subservient either because it's her need or she doesn't mind giving him more out of love...she doesn't complain anyway....and it's too early to comment on that love story which was put on hold...

He had to kill it btw because it was a dead end ..try to kill it at least...

Originally posted by: chicksoup

You can write pages on Zaid's sacrifices for Ayra- because he believes love is about giving. He did not get that from MJ ..not even close to it.

The question is not whether he loves MJ or MJ loves him...that will be answered depending on whether they learn to sacrifice what they hold close as mein for the partner. Zaid has not killed his mein for Ayra, but he has done so many things sacrificing his needs. What has Ayra done in the entire show for him is the question...barring agreeing to marry him, that too with a weird condition....she agreed to stay out in the same house after bhaabhi advised her ..beyond that, where she could have sacrificed for Zaid and where she did.Or are you saying that in this relationship only Zaid needs to give...that's precisely what led to that statement of his reactionscand her actions of....? Selfishness, isn't it? It was not about one night...it was the events that led to that one night,btw.

So her love for Zaid is selfish. Zaid has to give more in this relationship.

With MJ actually he's trying the Ayra tactics of being dominant...🤭 Unintentionally....and not that harshly too...and Mubashira's reactions are actually subservient either because it's her need or she doesn't mind giving him more out of love...she doesn't complain anyway....and it's too early to comment on that love story which was put on hold...

He had to kill it btw because it was a dead end ..try to kill it at least...

I mean we can't say he should continue loving her after she married someone else and stay true to that love...🤔 .

In fact both times it was a dead end. He had to move on.