Anuj just wanted a nanny for Adhya that's it!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Mera sirph ek hi koschen he:

5 - 6 saal tak toh kisi ne Onupama ko pareshan nahin kiya.

Maa Hn Ne, ne Maa Hona Chod diya tha.

Itni telented hain ki Malati Devi jaise jagatvikhyat Nritya Shastra Vidushi ne apne Gurukul ka Uttaradhikaari tak bana diya tha, Anuj ne apne Ghar, Karobaar ka Signing Authority bana diya tha.

Aisi Stree ne apna Sapna poora kahe nahin kiya? Ya

Apne Sapne ko chodkar "Jogan" kahe bani?

Shah's ko aur "maa hu ne" ke bacho ko anupama ki tab hu zarurat thi jab Anuj (paisa) saath me tha. Now she's left alone, depressed and sad no one's concerned, shows so much about "apne" And "mayka"

Originally posted by: Muskie

Shah's ko aur "maa hu ne" ke bacho ko anupama ki tab hu zarurat thi jab Anuj (paisa) saath me tha. Now she's left alone, depressed and sad no one's concerned, shows so much about "apne" And "mayka"

It was very much "her choice" to Leave the family that loved her, cared for her.

Now that usne so-called udaan bhari hain woh bhi kisike (Devika) propel karne par.

What does that tell about her own self? She needs someone to sponsor her dreams else she won't dream?

Added later:

Coming to apne and mayka, she meted the same treatment for her birth mother and brother, isn't it?

Turu lubb is what Anupama had for Vanar Shah. 26 yrs of sincere slavery. And divorce ke baad bhi Vanar ke priorities ko prioritize kiya. That's lubb. Anuj ko kahan yeh sab aata hai. He could not even be a good slave. He dared to question GodPamaaa. Such blasphemy.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

About Anuj-Adhya-Shruti dynamics.

It's tad bit harsh to call it that.

Anuj, who was himself heartbroken from his broken marriage was having a 10 year old traumatized and insecure child, wrapped up his India Business to start afresh in a foreign land.

It was mentioned time and again that Shruti the stability in his life when he was struggling with a growing teenager who already battled her demons.

What was right was their friendship which proved to be good for the trio.

What is NOT Right is Anuj getting engaged and agreeing marriage and Shruti, knowing well that Anuj hasn't moved on, getting married to him. More on Anuj than anyone else.

That said, I don't believe he wants a Nanny for Aadhya. Raising a teenager is tough. With the past like theirs, even more.

He perhaps wants a friend but definitely Not a wife.

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

u cannot expect a friend to raise ur kid that only ur wife can do that,so make her ur wife or exempt her from any of Aadhya's duties,he is wrong in this that's it.

Are they at that stage yet? Or has Anuj assigned Aadhya's duty to Shruti?

Again, making myself very clear, I do NOT see Shruti-Anuj in a wedded equation. Anuj promising marriage and even getting engaged to Shruti when he has NOT Moved On and/or under any kind of pressure, is WRONG.

That said, the way it is shown (as said by Shruti on one of the instances) is they met as friends and helped Anuj out during his darkest phase with a growing (teenage) daughter. There are many examples where friends help out, with single parents.

The tumultous journey over the 5 years developed a bond between the trio. They should leave it at that. Bringing in a marriage angle will ruin what ever they have built over the years with love, trust and care.