How to treat kids? Lesson in parent hood

Ok i thought anupama anuj should get some lessons (although i am not parent)

1) When small kid refuses to apologise do not create more scenes and force her. Give her few hours and do not shout or threaten with tapad etc

Ex in our class in UKG once 3 kids had very big fight. One girl cut a eraser of another 6 year old, the second one hit first one with pencil and pencil hurt her eye and water from eyes. Third one tried to calm and got hit. So what teacher did got all three parents next day and told them matter and parents explained to children to not do this lovingly. Third day the kid that broke eraser gifted new eraser to the 6 year old, the one who hit pencil in eyes apologized and got a chocolate as friendship and both apologized to their one for hitting her for trying to separate fight. And all three shared chocolate and tae at lunch break and became friends. No punishment no chik chik nothing

2) When big kids fight 17 to 21 year olds. Than call kids to cabin by teacher and ask why they fight or hit each other. Tell them they are not small kids to fight and hit each other and to ask sorry to each other. Than tell them to do a project together and submit together for class exams. So that whhen they do project they will become friends and forgive each other.

In our school times if someone fight, they call kids and tell them to gift each other something next day and say sorry. And have lunch together for a week. So hungama ends between kids.

Letter apology does not work as its superficial

If you force kid to apologize like anuj and anupama doing enmity will come between kids and that will last all life

All anuj should do to choti is imagine someone makes fun of you because you are short or for your accent etc how would you feel about it. Same way that child feels. May be she has health issue or some issue thats why chubby and fat not her fault may be. So you making fun of her may impact her mind and she may never attend school again. Do you want another little kid future to spoil because of you no right. Imagine how you felt when orhanage kids made fun of you because you had no parents same way she may be feeling as all classmates making fun of her. Do you want her to undergo same pain or upset you felt for 6 years of your life no right. So just give her a chocolate tomorrow and say sorry. But ultimately its your decision whether you want to apologize to her or destroy her confidence and stop her from coming to school because you all kids make fun of her chubbiness. Think it over okk. I know my kid is very smart and will not allow other kids confidence to go low by her behaviour. I will be proud of you if you ask sorry and become friends with that kid and never hurt her again.

It is extremely unlikely that a child who lived 6 years of her initial life in an ashram would do something like this. Both Anuj and Anupama show money to all the kids/adults in the house because of which they all have forgotten their values. CA in her first few days/months told to Anupama that we should buy diyas from the potter as thats what we did in the ashram so if that same child is behaving like this it is all Anuj and Anupama's fault. It is amazing that how this child has forgotten everything that she learned in the first 6 years and has become a bully!!! Anuj and Anupama did not deserve parenthood and a child.

Arrey Anuj-Anupama are beyond repair.

Manufacturer khud hairaan-pareshaan hain, kise sikha rahe ho.

Koi toh case thoko in par aur yeh miya-biwi legally prohibit ho jaaye adoption se.

Aur compensation ke liye ek saal ka community service serve kare woh jahaan tak Shahs ki parchaai bhi na pade.