Anyone else feel this time ||DT NOTE P. 14|| - Page 11

Originally posted by: mysteriousdoll

Villains are not born

They are created by the people

By fraudsters like pari and rajeev

jiski life mein jayenge jhooth se baaki log ki mental health se khelte hi rhenge bs

This is so true! Neeti was a happy, positive person until her life was turned upside down by the constant lies and deceit from the two closest people in her life.

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

so that means u knows that she lies about Loving neeti the most n what about her mother who cried n begged her while saying 'wapas aaja puttar wapas aaja' still she didn't go that proves that she is not that much emotional fool

BravoWell done. This exchange says it all.

Originally posted by: mysteriousdoll

she could have easily left Rajeev on the very first day of affair of neeti and rajeev itself than he don't need to be around. Pari herself would have kept him away if on the very first day she would have shown the qualities of college topper instead she is giving lessons"How to be a doormat like pari". Instead of playing smartly, and filing a case against rajeev she went and ruined every relationship around her. Ofcourse there is no way that rajeev will not be around pari..aakhir do auraton ko ghuman kis launde ko acha nahi lagega

College toppernow I know these writers are smoking Crack. Imagine thinking making a bigamist r#pist and his co conspirator wife the lead couple. Imagine being a fan shipping themat least Neeti's fan saw her actually leave as compared to the doormat who stayed and watched her husband consummate his marriage to her friend and has YET to demand her property back. What a pathetic joke of a character. What excitement would these two have if Neeti didn't provide Masala for this boring couple.

There are some sick women who feel so thrilled when the bigamist abuses Neeti. They positively root for it but Imagine rooting for such a lowlife character.

As usual, Neeti's fans get no satisfaction. This show is unreal

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

my problem is that they reply me with silly things even after i requested them to stay away from me. Check my post in discussion thread n my post 'is sanju on drugs' u will see it

Yes. I do believe you have requested and it should be respected. You asked many times nicely too. Not me. I would ask once then my response would get me banned

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

Yes. I do believe you have requested and it should be respected. You asked many times nicely too. Not me. I would ask once then my response would get me banned

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Originally posted by: LizzieBennet

DT Note

Hello everyone,

We have noted that some members have been making posts that are moral policing and personally attacking others for posting their opinions if they are contrary to yours.

Please note that this forum allows/ welcomes all sorts of opinions and everyone is allowed to post what they feel. No one has the right to call out any member for feeling a certain way about any character/ plot point even if you don't agree with it.

All such posts found doing so will be trashed and members could receive a warning. You are requested to report such posts if you come across any.

When posting, please keep these in mind:

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There will be strict actions taken henceforth.

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Can you explain why we can't bash characters. I understand not bashing the actors who play the characters. However, we are reacting to the ACTIONS of characters. Are we not allowed to call Rajiv a bigamist or r@pist? That is what his character is doing on our screens. I am confused about what is considered bashing and what is considered discussing the actions of the characters in the show. Are some still allowed to call Neeti an attempted murderer or Pari a doormat with no spine. I honestly find the don't bash the characters very confusing.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

Can you explain why we can't bash characters. I understand not bashing the actors who play the characters. However, we are reacting to the ACTIONS of characters. Are we not allowed to call Rajiv a bigamist or r@pist? That is what his character is doing on our screens. I am confused about what is considered bashing and what is considered discussing the actions of the characters in the show. Are some still allowed to call Neeti an attempted murderer or Pari a doormat with no spine. I honestly find the don't bash the characters very confusing.

agree with each and every word of your post

If a character is involved in bigamy and as per hindu customs it is not allowed in india

we are supposed to clearly say and his first wife as "Bigamist"

and acc to law of india

he is a rapist

we are just stating the facts as per indian law and customs.

is this "India" forums or any private forum??

why every other religion is commenting on hindu religion

is it allowed???that some people here are supporting bigamy?

This forum itself would be reported if acc to indian laws and customs

supporting bigamy and rape

is directly in line with

having "ANTI NATIONAL and ANTI-HINDU VIEW"

So please clarify

This is not bashing...these are facts that are stated clearly.Please tell us where we are wrong.??

Please clarify??

There will be no allowances given for the use of nicknames, unless it is a nickname that is already being used in the show. Regardless of whether the term being used is as a form of entertainment or abuse, it will not be allowed. The use of nicknames/fun names is very much subjective and what one member considered a name to be fair use may not be taken in the same manner by others.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

Can you explain why we can't bash characters. I understand not bashing the actors who play the characters. However, we are reacting to the ACTIONS of characters. Are we not allowed to call Rajiv a bigamist or r@pist? That is what his character is doing on our screens. I am confused about what is considered bashing and what is considered discussing the actions of the characters in the show. Are some still allowed to call Neeti an attempted murderer or Pari a doormat with no spine. I honestly find the don't bash the characters very confusing.

We are trying to uphold guidelines that are fair for all people and those that are inclusive, while promoting respectful language towards all fellow members. The language that you use on the forum plays a huge role in this.

Each of us is unique and what one of us may feel about a particular situation / character may not apply to everyone else. Which is why we have made a blanket rule to disallow any kind of labelling/nicknames towards characters (in addition to real people) in order to avoid bringing in negativity &/or being unknowingly triggering for someone in the forum/ discussions.

This applies to name-calling or labelling a character as well.

That is not to say you cannot bash/ criticize or call out a character's actions.

For eg. If I mess up somewhere and say "I am stupid" - that is labelling myself based on my one-time action of messing up. But if I say, "I did such a stupid thing," that is calling out my action and not labelling me as 'stupid' for eternity.

What I'm trying to say is - focus on the actions and not the character.

When you call Rajeev a bigamist or rapist, you are focusing on the person and not his action of bigamy or adultery.

Instead you can say something like:

Rajeev has committed bigamy/ adultery which is a punishable offense according to Indian Penal Code. He should be in jail.

Remember, shows are all about interpretation. What you may interpret something as may not necessarily be true for someone else. I'm not saying this applies for this particular example, but just pointing out there could be other ambiguous scenarios that could sway opinions one way or the other and polarize the verdict.

Additionally, labelling not just causes negativity against a character but also sets expectations on their future behaviour and that leads to stereotyping and imagined scenarios which can further sour the mood in the forum for people who are attached to the show &/or the character/s.

All we are doing is trying to be inclusive and to make this a safe space for everyone to express their opinions without feeling judged/ shamed or belittled.

That being said, calling out fan groups for supporting a character you hate is absolutely not okay.

I hope that makes things somewhat clear.