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Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

I need to say this to you..before I go to bed.

Do you think Khushi will discover the note he wrote to himself and kept it in his wallet ? The note cannot be instructions to himself..not to take decisions for her behalf right 😁

Plus she finds her full letter that he preserved😉😘

But till lunatic is out of their life and her chapter is clear, even if Khushi forgives him for other things and sees Arnav has changed she will never be able to fully move on with him.

BB I am very scared, did boxer really not help. Because thinking of r*pe is killing me.

I just don’t understand the concept of cheating but not cheating. We know he was taken advantage of, his consent was because of alcohol but to a wife how will that ever be acceptable. Khushi knows this and asks why he did not stop if he knew it was not her.

For her it will always be a drunken mistake from Arnav’s end even if it was all planned by lunatic.

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

I need to say this to you..before I go to bed.

Do you think Khushi will discover the note he wrote to himself and kept it in his wallet ? The note cannot be instructions to himself..not to take decisions for her behalf right 😁

Plus she finds her full letter that he preserved😉😘

Oh my god I forgot about that completely. Thank you for giving my poor heart some more hope 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I am so desperate to see them work on themselves that immediately after reading your response my heart skipped a beat. He kept both things in his wallet right. I can picture Khushi someday finding it and maybe just maybe realise there’s still a chance.

He did write that note when he was thinking he won’t make any more mistakes when it comes to Khushi. I hope just like her he poured his heart out in that letter because right now ge couldn’t even say I love you to her which has just led her to believe he brought her back under guilt 💔💔💔💔💔

Originally posted by: tashi26

I did think of this that may be this will make her realise he always loved her.

But till lunatic is out of their life and her chapter is clear, even if Khushi forgives him for other things and sees Arnav has changed she will never be able to fully move on with him.

BB I am very scared, did boxer really not help. Because thinking or r*pe is killing me.

I just don’t understand the concept of cheating but not cheating. We know he was taken advantage of, his consent was because of alcohol but to a wife how will that ever be acceptable. Khushi knows this and asks why he did not stop if he knew it was not her.

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

she was so ready to give him benefit of doubt. 😭😭😭💔💔💔

For me two things are running in my head, either Arnav cheated which he believes and even Khushi does, for them drunken mistake is that. Arnav did not stop.

But I don’t believe he did, I still believe he was dr*gged so could not stop despite him knowing it wasn’t Khushi.

Then my heart breaks more that he was r*ped.

Originally posted by: tashi26

I haven’t slept properly at all Isha, like for a couple of hours and then woke up thinking about it.

For me two things are running in my head, either Arnav cheated which he believes and even Khushi does, for them drunken mistake is that. Arnav did not stop.

But I don’t believe he did, I still believe he was dr*gged so could not stop despite him knowing it wasn’t Khushi.

Then my heart breaks more that he was r*ped.

Same for me as well. I actually went back and read that whole thing again to remind me of reality. Of what actually happened and the thing that has actually happened is that he said no, pushed her away, panicked and pried herself off of him even in that stage. Had it been a girl we would lose our shit collectively.

Originally posted by: tashi26

I did think of this that may be this will make her realise he always loved her.

But till lunatic is out of their life and her chapter is clear, even if Khushi forgives him for other things and sees Arnav has changed she will never be able to fully move on with him.

BB I am very scared, did boxer really not help. Because thinking or r*pe is killing me.

I just don’t understand the concept of cheating but not cheating. We know he was taken advantage of, his consent was because of alcohol but to a wife how will that ever be acceptable. Khushi knows this and asks why he did not stop if he knew it was not her.

It is not right what happened that night to him. Let say his recollection is not faulty. He is drunk, can he really overcome his physical urges. I honestly don't know enough. But to me that is not same as a ONS when you are not drunk. (We will know in La chapter)

Maybe Khushi would understand if it was just that. But there was pregnancy and his behavior. He wanting a divorce even before ONS as they both are unhappy

He has shut her off for a long time and his actions makes it seem that she is not the most important person in his life. Like he is for her.

He has to win back her trust and show that he too loves her as she did.

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

As I said in my original comment to that chapter of that is the truth I’m going to write enough curses to Lavanya to get banned off IF. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

Same for me as well. I actually went back and read that whole thing again to remind me of reality. Of what actually happened and the thing that has actually happened is that he said no, pushed her away, panicked and pried herself off of him even in that stage. Had it been a girl we would lose our shit collectively.

We definitely know his drunken state was exploited by Lunatic but how will you convince any wife that even if drunk, if he knew it was not her that he did not stop before the final act. We can call it a mistake and not cheating, Khushi also says that. But still that does not make it better for her.

If he had senses to realise that why not stop then.

Khushi would have forgiven his drunken mistake too if he never knew it was not Khushi and someone else.

Even if he did refuse a lot initially, Khushi would want to know why he did not stop. It means his need to have s*x overpowered his senses. That’s what is making it difficult for both of them.

So, till lunatics chapter is up I will not let go of my belief that Arnav was dr*gged and for the sake of Arnav my further belief that the boxers did not help.

Bakwas, add the fact that if the guy would have not been Shyam she might marry, Arnav would not have gone and gotten Khushi. He would have let her go. So she sees that as further proof of her importance to him. He also realizes that although he loves her it is not to the same degree that she loves him. But that is probably true in most marriages. One partner probably loves more than the other or at least at various times in a marriage if not always.

Originally posted by: tashi26

But there is a difference no, with a girl it’s easier to say she was not an active participant. With a man it’s not.

We definitely know his is drunken state was exploited by Lunatic but how will you convince any wife that even if drunk, if he knew it was not her that he did not stop before the final act. We can call it a mistake and not cheating, Khushi also says that. But still that does not make it better for her.

If he had senses to realise that why not stop then.

Khushi would have forgiven his drunken mistake too if he never knew it was not Khushi and someone else.

Even if he did refuse a lot initially, Khushi would want to know why he did not stop. It means his need to have s*x overpowered his senses. That’s what is making it difficult for both of them.

So, till lunatics chapter is up I will not let go of my belief that Arnav was dr*gged and for the sake of Arnav my further belief that he boxers helped.

that’s why our discussion about male body being different that female was also important. Inhibitors are low in such states and she was literally jumping his bones.

bit you’re absolutely right from Khushi’s POV too. It does mean that your need for sex at the moment overpowered everything else.

My head hurts. I’m so invested it’s crazy. That quote yesterday that we react to fictional characters like this was written for me 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

It is not right what happened that night to him. Let say his recollection is not faulty. He is drunk, can he really overcome his physical urges. I honestly don't know enough. But to me that is not same as a ONS when you are not drunk. (We will know in La chapter)

Maybe Khushi would understand if it was just that. But there was pregnancy and his behavior. He wanting a divorce even before ONS as they both are unhappy

He has shut her off for a long time and his actions makes it seem that she is not the most important person in his life. Like he is for her.

He has to win back her trust and show that he too loves her as she did.

I am not calling it cheating but a mistake. But for Khushi that’s what it is, a mistake which she is not ready to forgive.

It’s like if you can do the final act then why not stop.

See consent under influence of alcohol is also fraudulent. If Arnav had not realised even for a moment that it was not Khushi, she would have forgiven him for even having ONS while drunk.