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Guys guys guys! She had already given un confirmation that Lavanya and Manali are behind all this. I know we suspect them anyway but now I am sure.

In the chapter where Manali blackmails Arnav and he threatens her back, she is thinking ‘she can’t afford to have ASR on her trail’. Of course you can’t you b*tch you’ve done some real shady stuff!

Damnit di!!! I’m playing my own Easter egg hunt in your paragraphs.

Thanks for confirming my saree theory too. Khushi did not wear red on purpose even though she ALWAYS wore red on their anniversary.

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

😂😂😂😂 Yes, I’m stating that Arnav might have very strong reasons to believe it had really happened.

And no, I didn’t get shy. I gave my reasoning above. A quickie. Get things done in a frenzy, pull your underwear back up. 😅🤷‍♀️ I genuinely don’t think he was in a state to have an indulgent session. He was purely acting out on biological urges.

Besides, the one thing you guys are forgetting is that this whole thing was Arnav’s pov and he was seriously wasted. How much of his memory is trustworthy when he couldn’t even hear what la was saying at times 😉😉

This was the way events unfolded in his very foggy mind, leading him to believe he had slept with her because signs are there.

Originally posted by: tashi26

yes Ashvini, but we have to understand laws are also made according to the culture of that particular place, like in India if a man has se* with the promise of marriage and then refuses, girl can withdraw consent from this case. This case is considered as consent taken by fraud, so case of rape.

Now, for men except few countries like Scotland they do not even recognise that a man can be r*ped. Specially south East Asian countries.

Here let’s say if it was a woman even then if she gave the final consent, she will also have to prove that consent was taken fraudulently. And in some cases even for girls it becomes very difficult to prove. Because ultimately consent was given specially if both parties were drunk.

Now capacity of alcohol, how much alcohol was consumed these are points of argument but still establishing it was r*pe (even in case of girl) is debatable.

But would reiterate dr*gs is a different case.

PS:- I would like to add saying he had put himself out there by being present in that party and still continuing to drink, so that’s his fault is not right. It’s like telling a girl, hey you got mol*sted because you were walking alone in the dark or you were wearing short clothes.

Your last lines is my whole point.

That was exactly what i was trying to establish for so long, in my head that's what was going on. Would anyone here blame a girl for going to a party and enjoying herself if she also faced a situation like arnav?

ABSOLUTELY NOT.

If you say arnav put himself out there then you also have to say that every other girl put themselves out there.

I agree both this situation is wrong from the perspective of 'your own personal safety are in your hands', but not otherwise.

This conversation reminded me of a roundtable discussion of DP and Rani Mukherjee, held by rajeev masand.

Arpita, I did think along those lines when I crafted my words and thoughts. S*** shaming. That’s why I am so conflicted if I am buying into the hated double standard. But, he himself has knowingly put himself in this position as a grown man. He thinks it is not a good place to be and risks it anyway. This is not the hated Lavenya’s fault.

It all changes if he was drugged unknowingly and it was part of a preplanned attempt to get him in bed.

I also want to add on one more thing, as a man no doubt Arnav is wronged.

But if this was a case of only alcohol in his system and not dru*s, then though he can be forgiven but still because he went through a quickie or whatever, it’s still a mistake from your partners POV.

And it’s true for both girls and boys. Of course it can still be forgiven as they did not decide to do it. But still they went through the entire thing.

Guess that’s why Arnav does not shy away from accepting it was wrong.

But dru*s, is a clear case of r*pe. So if in this case I will not even once say it was Arnav’s fault.

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

Guys guys guys! She had already given un confirmation that Lavanya and Manali are behind all this. I know we suspect them anyway but now I am sure.

In the chapter where Manali blackmails Arnav and he threatens her back, she is thinking ‘she can’t afford to have ASR on her trail’. Of course you can’t you b*tch you’ve done some real shady stuff!

Damnit di!!! I’m playing my own Easter egg hunt in your paragraphs.

Thanks for confirming my saree theory too. Khushi did not wear red on purpose even though she ALWAYS wore red on their anniversary.

Originally posted by: BollyBabe75

Arpita, I did think along those lines when I crafted my words and thoughts. S*** shaming. That’s why I am so conflicted if I am buying into the hated double standard. But, he himself has knowingly put himself in this position as a grown man. He thinks it is not a good place to be and risks it anyway. This is not the hated Lavenya’s fault.

It all changes if he was drugged unknowingly and it was part of a preplanned attempt to get him in bed.

Hey hii bolybabe. I have a question then, so if a grown woman goes out wearing short dress at night knowing that there is a high chance of nasty people being around and gets molested is that her fault too?

I am just trying to understand here.

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

So, I am talking about the month November to December. I don’t think he was doing any background checks from October to November. He was not even in India then, he was trying to escape.

I guess he did it after the baby announcement. He might have suspected some malicious intentions by then. When exactly I am still not clear, will be after tomorrow’s chapter though. His rudeness in new year party with lunatic and when her sidekick threatens him, he gives a complete biodata of that BL’s background.

But still he was not suspecting any foul play, may be till now he does not.

Yes, not a fault but bad judgement. I don’t go to places and do things if there is a chance I may be harmed. You have to be vigilant, Your scenario is a little too simplistic.

Originally posted by: dair10arshi

Okay...its official, I might hate Arnav. For a person claiming to love Khushi all these years, he cannot even tell her the reason why he does not want to have kids. This chapter had me riding on a roll coaster of emotions. Hurt and angry to see the transformation in the recent years, happy and smiling for the happy times.

He could not even share the reason he did not want to have kids with Akash, who has tried to understand him and keep his thoughts of a divorce.

For a astute business man, he surely is an ignorant fool for a husband. For a person having so many thoughts, I don't know why he strangled his own thoughts of seeking a therapist.

For a minute, given the anguish he was going through, if it had stopped at a one night stand, I would have given him the benefit of doubt. But if did blow into a full fledged affair, I wish I could enter Payal's body and throw a couple of punches. Enough punches to knock him out.

And Lavanya, her being pregnant. I almost screamed out loud. If this is some convoluted plan of Manali and hers, to get Arnav to leave Khushi, she is literally the most horrible person ever.

And Khushi, each chapter my heart breaks for her even more. While Arnav keeps clearing the hurdles and wanting to create more, there's Khushi who keeps facing these Olympic hurdles with no way to clear them without burning herself. Her compassion, her selflessness is just beyond the world. She should be the one going to these yearly trips to meditation centers instead of Arnav who goes to them clear his head.

Not that I take suicide any lightly, but I need to salute Khushi for not having thoughts about it. Her mental strength has me in awe but on the other hand makes me wanna shake the living daylights out of here and tell her, "You don't deserve any of this girl. And they don't deserve you. JUST GO AND LIVE YOUR LIFE AND FIND YOUR HAPPINESS!" But alas, its easier said than done.

P.S. I can totally understand the emotional spiral you must have gone through while nailing this chapter. And sorry for my rant, I did not mean to offend anyone.

I think it’s easy to forget that in the wake of how Lavanya took advantage of him but it’s true that Arnav was going to break Khushi’s heart anyway. Even if he was convinced that it was for her own good which we now know was not right because Khushi wanted him back like before over a kid. He does know now and went rushing back. She took the step to save the marriage while he was convinced there was nothing more that he could do since Khushi will choose wrong. So although, his guilt ridden reasons are understandable to me because he was trying to save Khushi from her self sacrificing nature, but it doesn’t take away any hurt from her. 💔