So anupama can go again and again and again to shah house to solve their problems ( which anyways don't get solved with her diplomatic bhashan) as she can't give up on them but she can give up on anuj easily saying you manage your own now.
And before anyone tells that why should anupama fight for anuj when he himself didn't then i will just say that even shah family insults, curses and says not to come to their house in anger to anupama but inspite of all this she goes there and even after kanata warning she went there to hug her poor baa
You don't give up on people you love and are important for you so easily so we can guess what is important for anupama
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