So i have to agree now about anuj not being important for anupama - Page 2

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Yes she did not go to shah house and that was a sane decision she took for once but then going to shah house for every small problem is not helping her life at all. How will she solve this dimpy jagda if she is not even calling spade a spade. Dimpy is shi*ing in the same plate that she ate but anupama is ignoring that too and i hate it as she went against her entire family to give justice to her

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhiii

So anupama can go again and again and again to shah house to solve their problems ( which anyways don't get solved with her diplomatic bhashan) as she can't give up on them but she can give up on anuj easily saying you manage your own now.

And before anyone tells that why should anupama fight for anuj when he himself didn't then i will just say that even shah family insults, curses and says not to come to their house in anger to anupama but inspite of all this she goes there and even after kanta warning she went there to hug her poor baa smiley19

You don't give up on people you love and are important for you so easily so we can guess what is important for anupama smiley17

Point! What boggles me is, even after Anuj has gone through all this, why does he keep chanting her name and act like he cannot live without her?

It is nauseating to see him woo someone who has no vested interest in him. Anyone remotely associated with her would know better.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Yes it's not relatable especially after he told her he feels suffocated with her and now again he is back with his 26 yrs old love which again was too unbelievable for me

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Tabhi to chahti hoon maaya uska head phod de , I want anuj remember this incident that when he needed her d most she abonden him , pay back to anupama with interest

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhiii


My problem is if she can again and again forgive baa then why can't she forgive anuj and be with him in his testing times.

What is there to forgive anuj. What anuj did that need forgiveness from Anupama. Just because anuj said sorry that didn’t mean he was wrong. He lefts home because he was in pain but instead of sharing his pain Anupama was celebrating Holi with shah. She can share his pain but no she have to go because that was Pari’s first holi. After meeting choti anu and taking some time to adjust with new circumstances and seeing CA happy he was ready to return and he told Anupama the same but when he said he can’t come what Anupama did. She give up on him. For once she didn’t tried to know the reason for his sudden decision. After knowing the reason also she didn’t care. The problem of maaya can be solve but she didn’t want to.If there was vanraj or anyone of shah instead of anuj than she would have taken interest in that. She is not ready to meet him one time when he is begging her to meet before going America.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashita5500

The moment when Kinjal informed doormat about her pregnancy and she got so engrossed in celebrating with her "bachchon ke pita" that she completely forgot about him was a big RED FLAG. Anuj should have backed out after that incident. Had he given a careful thought,he would have understood that he will always have to play a second fiddle in her life. He can never be her priority. Even prior to this,Malvika's incident was enough to prove her inclination towards her "bachchon ke pita". She didn't alerted Anuj of Vanraj's ill intentions. Love isn't enough in a conjugal relationship. Trust and priorities are equally important....

That too one sided love. Anuj loved her for so long but her love was vanraj shah. So there was no love from Anupama side.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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For me the mistake of anuj is that inspite of being an educated businessman he took obsessed maya responsibility on him instead of getting medical help for her.. You can't leave your wife to support another obsessed women in the name of humanity

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhiii

For me the mistake of anuj is that inspite of being an educated businessman he took obsessed maya responsibility on him instead of getting medical help for her.. You can't leave your wife to support another obsessed women in the name of humanity

Anuj took that decision because of choti not for maaya. He knows that he should have deal with situation differently and now he is struck in that situation. He wants to come out from it but sometimes we need support from our partner for that. He have no one for that. Anupama was telling him that you chosen your way than walk the path. Is she asking him to live with maaya for three years or lifetime. It this is the case then divorce him. Anuj will not ask for divorce because he doesn’t wants to live with maaya but Anupama is suggesting that. The thing that anuj is educated businessman he took many bad decisions in life.Before he took them for Anupama and this one decision he took for Choti Anu. He give power of attorney to Anupama and Barkha that can destroy all his business. So I don’t know if he is able to take right decisions in emotional matters.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

If dimple have not call anuj on wedding will anuj would have return to anupama ?

If recall anupama going to shah then anupama hardy weny to shah for 30 days after Maan marriage . In these 6 month

Anupama 30 days se jyaada after Maan marriage shah house mein gayi hi nahi out 6 month

And whenever anupama went to shah house anuj also went with her be it kinjal God bharai kinjal baby naamkaran and diwali and shivraatri anupama mostly go with anuj whenever there is function festival in shah

Now tell me if bahu having godbharai to kya anupama ko as mother in law of kinjal nahi jaana chahiye

Samar ki wedding ho rahi hai to as mother of Dulha nahi jaana chahiye kya tha anupama ko

Pakhi ki shaadi to Kapadia mei hi ho rahi thi

Kite festival to shah mein hua nahi

Navratri mein Dance bhi pandal mei hua tha not even in shah house

Janmashtami and rakksha Bandhan both are celebrate in Kapadia house only by anupama

AnupaMAA ney jo past mein kiya so kiya..... Aaj kyon bhagi baa ki takleef durr karney. She chose the abusive BAA who always punches her self respect. Why Why Why???? Baa ki taraf bhagtey huey Udaan yaa America yaad nahien aayaa?

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