What's the difference? - Page 6

True true.

Agar forum engagement count hota hoga toh highest rate par chal rha hai 😂

Originally posted by: yellomellow

Like I said I haven't been on here for years. I really didn't know about the other posts lol.

Completely agree with you about the flip flopping. One episode she has happy family moments with Abhimanyu then next she has happy family moments with Abhinav. Obviously they think it's better to have multiple ships rather than focusing on one and giving them a decent story. I could be wrong, but the engagement their flipping gets might also be a reason. Any attention is good attention, right?

That's fair. I find Abhinav boring and hypocritical. Their whole ship is based on a lie, but it's not even interesting. He didn't know anything about her until recently, but they were best friends that relied and trusted each other for six years? Makes no sense lol. Both of them are older than Pranali, but to me she looks better with HC. Honestly, I don't see her chemistry with Jay, but that's just me. To each their own.

The six year thing doesn't make much sense to ms either. Than I'm reminded of how illogical these shows are.

I think their relationship is still real, there's just poor execution everywhere and that's the writers doing a shit job as usual.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Not tagging anyone just replying coz doesn't want to create another thread but reason why i feel this ship isn't working atleast for me are as follows:

1. Didn't like how Abhinav as a character was introduced.

2. Abhinav have zero personality, zero growth mindset

3. He calls himself acha aadmi- this is something that other people should call him and not the other way around.

4. He says bhai ji ko bta dena chahiye and all but he never felt sad- or even flinch a little while calling Abhir mera beta in front of AbhiM even after knowing that AbhiM ki dukhti rag- though AbhiM deserves it but still. Only preaches doesn't follow

5. Was no less than a man child with unrealistic inferiority complex during custody battle. The past 6 years were easy anybody can stay calm, happy, nicely what support to Akshu? Problem kya thi? But one problem arises and we saw what we saw. Hence, couldn't able to understand the he supported me all these years jaap too. (Timeline: post Abhir birth)

6. In the past 15 days days i.e 375 minutes approx of screen time. The said couple had hardly 20-30 minutes of screen time together.

7. Except for a few scenes here and there(almost kiss- ak seems uncomfortable(maybe PR acting issue) but seems, one song for him, hand holding, and a quick teo minutes of kitchen scene recently) i don't know which show people are watching i see zero chemistry between the characters.

8. Ak confession for him, the director gave the scene to- Abhira with there BGM- doesn't make sense to me

9. When i hardly see them together why should I beleive that they are a couple, why and more importantly how should I ship them.

10. He has clearly made being middle class his whole personality. Hum middle class hain ji. Never heard anyone from my entire family ever said anything like that. Sabko pta hai.

Maybe it's only me but I don't get the happy family, my heavenly abode, safe safe vibe from navra- they say, try to rub it in our face but the director has failed to show us the same.

And i don't want to ship something i am not seeing.

Now you can guess how damaged we are to accept anyone with akshu except Dr Birla 🤣 In comparison to Dr, I find abhinav better . On his own , I see nothing great in this char. If they wanna keep him permanently , show some growth in him..

I'm sorry for my jalebi posts, I'm watching another show where both the guys r so perfect for the girl that it's tough to take sides..n that makes me think what acha acha do these writers promote ? This is not acha . This is dumb.

And yes , bring him to the level of Dr Birla, financially, and socially then its a fair for the audience . If he has such a complex he must try to do something for his family right? Agar thoda ha thode ki zaroorat hai karna hai toh stop with these inferiority complex twists. Abhin should be the one saying this not others

Look at today episode for eg...We finally have AK behaving like a wife (seems like we are back to even odd schemes ) nd Nav is simply insecure , if he's feeling insecure about AbhiM :

a) He should be talking to AK not Neelamma , be straightforward tell what you feel , give her chance to choose and then decide for urself

b) Like the financial issue, he's insecure but won't do anything about it except requiring constants boosts, whoever said that asking ur wife that u feel uncomfortable with her ex living with them or their banter is bad....but he had to be the bigger persom "Acha Aadmi" and welcome AbhiM , he had a choice to ask AbhiM to stay at hotel when he offered during Muskan wedding but bro here can't get off his high horse for that

Originally posted by: Krinya

Now you can guess how damaged we are to accept anyone with akshu except Dr Birla 🤣 In comparison to Dr, I find abhinav better . On his own , I see nothing great in this char. If they wanna keep him permanently , show some growth in him..

I'm sorry for my jalebi posts, I'm watching another show where both the guys r so perfect for the girl that it's tough to take sides..n that makes me think what acha acha do these writers promote ? This is not acha . This is dumb.

And yes , bring him to the level of Dr Birla, financially, and socially then its a fair for the audience . If he has such a complex he must try to do something for his family right? Agar thoda ha thode ki zaroorat hai karna hai toh stop with these inferiority complex twists. Abhin should be the one saying this not others

Yaar see mujhe na Dr Birla aur Akshu ka relation smjh aaya tha na Akshara aur Abhinav ka aarha. But atleast they have good chemistry.

Dono hi couple lacks depth. Ek scene bhi acha sa dede where Akshara(PR) enact with her eyes on her love on Abhinav. And Abhinav inke together scene mein clueless rehta hai idhar udhar ki baaton mein - ek baar it's cute but har baar same same cheez we can't see naa.

Also, coming to forum members sometimes I feel genuinely bad that me not liking Abhinav and Navra doesn't automatically mean i am shipping Abhira.

It's like if you are not with me you are against me.

Originally posted by: DevilHere

Look at today episode for eg...We finally have AK behaving like a wife (seems like we are back to even odd schemes ) nd Nav is simply insecure , if he's feeling insecure about AbhiM :

a) He should be talking to AK not Neelamma , be straightforward tell what you feel , give her chance to choose and then decide for urself

b) Like the financial issue, he's insecure but won't do anything about it except requiring constants boosts, whoever said that asking ur wife that u feel uncomfortable with her ex living with them or their banter is bad....but he had to be the bigger persom "Acha Aadmi" and welcome AbhiM , he had a choice to ask AbhiM to stay at hotel when he offered during Muskan wedding but bro here can't get off his high horse for that

Dude Financial issue ka solution uske pass udhar lena hota hai.

I am like wapas kaise karega bhai.

Honestly dekho toh yeh shaadi smoothly horhi hai

Coz AbhiM decided to be from ladki wale side. Wrna AK ka bank account toh apan dekh chuke hain 😂

Originally posted by: DevilHere

Look at today episode for eg...We finally have AK behaving like a wife (seems like we are back to even odd schemes ) nd Nav is simply insecure , if he's feeling insecure about AbhiM :

a) He should be talking to AK not Neelamma , be straightforward tell what you feel , give her chance to choose and then decide for urself

b) Like the financial issue, he's insecure but won't do anything about it except requiring constants boosts, whoever said that asking ur wife that u feel uncomfortable with her ex living with them or their banter is bad....but he had to be the bigger persom "Acha Aadmi" and welcome AbhiM , he had a choice to ask AbhiM to stay at hotel when he offered during Muskan wedding but bro here can't get off his high horse for that

Exactly this..

If he's insecure, somewhere akshu is failing as a wife . N it has nothing to do with abhimanyu .

My funda is simple. Be happy with the choices you make. And if ur not happy, change whatever it takes..but this constant guilt , regret , doubt guessing the choices , insecurities , complexes take away whatever good the the character has served us till now...plus the writers are incompetent to deal with one of these properly .

Originally posted by: Krinya

Exactly this..

If he's insecure, somewhere akshu is failing as a wife . N it has nothing to do with abhimanyu .

My funda is simple. Be happy with the choices you make. And if ur not happy, change whatever it takes..but this constant guilt , regret , doubt guessing the choices , insecurities , complexes take away whatever good the the character has served us till now...plus the writers are incompetent to deal with one of these properly .

I feel more than this it's Abhinav's issues.

Post their first Udaipur trip she made her choice clear, they removed the Ji part, look at her normally hugging him now and all. So it's all Abhinav ki inferior complex which I said somewhere is as toxic as AbhiM k anger issues.

I feel bad for my girl 😞

I don't see AK failing as a wife here.... giving constant reassurance isn't a part of being a good wife , wasn't AK against AbhiM living with them nd told Nav so nd he still wanted AbhiM to be there , she came around after the whole Abhir ka truth thing....nd bol kyun nhi deta Nav that I don't like ur ex sticking around like that .... how's that AK fault , isn't trust also a part of a healthy relationship nd if somehow u've got doubts u talk it out instead of wallowing in self pity

Wahi toh his solution is cheezein bechana nd udhar lena

Bhai honestly speaking agr aisa hi tha toh hmesha se bchakr kyun nhi rkha uski shaadi ke liye , kl pta lga tha behen ki shaadi krni hai people usually save for years nd have FDs nd stuff (Fundamentally I'm totally against shaadi ke ldki wale have to pay everything nd take so much pressure financially...log apni saari kamai uda dete hai...harsh reality)....baaki waise they didn't have anything in their bank account