What's the difference? - Page 7

Originally posted by: DevilHere

Wahi toh his solution is cheezein bechana nd udhar lena

Bhai honestly speaking agr aisa hi tha toh hmesha se bchakr kyun nhi rkha uski shaadi ke liye , kl pta lga tha behen ki shaadi krni hai people usually save for years nd have FDs nd stuff (Fundamentally I'm totally against shaadi ke ldki wale have to pay everything nd take so much pressure financially...log apni saari kamai uda dete hai...harsh reality)....baaki waise they didn't have anything in their bank account

Agreed. But if we go and consider k let's do everything morally right even then they will need money na. Ab Mama Ji apke aaye unko ap khilaoge na, waise hi till now no guests from Goenkas except for Manjari is there- jo khud acha khaasa shagun laayi hai.

Why didn't he save, so far AK has been shown as this mature HW who is like saving, no need for new saree. Jabki she never had to worry about these things before.

Agar Abhimanyu homestay mein nahi rukta and mota cash na deta toh itna bhi mushkil tha 😂

Ek toh smjh nahi aarha hai k they are lower middle class or middle class.

Adding to this doglapan is i don't think they even pays for Abhir ki medicine, surgery toh we know.

Ideally either Akshara clearly claims child allowance from AbhiM for Abhir or stop taking his help at all.

But what i don't like is both AbhiN and Akshara are high on moral ground as per their convenience.

Specially AbhiN, didn't do the job Goenka offered but let Muskan stayed for free in their house.

Also, didn't AbhiN took advance in Udaipur uska kya kra ? Wahan ki job/driving ka kya

Kisi din Goenka villa na aajaye owner 😂

Originally posted by: DevilHere

I don't see AK failing as a wife here.... giving constant reassurance isn't a part of being a good wife , wasn't AK against AbhiM living with them nd told Nav so nd he still wanted AbhiM to be there , she came around after the whole Abhir ka truth thing....nd bol kyun nhi deta Nav that I don't like ur ex sticking around like that .... how's that AK fault , isn't trust also a part of a healthy relationship nd if somehow u've got doubts u talk it out instead of wallowing in self pity

Hhmm I see your point here..I'm a bit too lagging ..I watch 1 scene per day and switch off the tv😆

I feel reassurances are good ..but communication is also very imp..if one partner is feeling low , the other can cheer them up , also ask for reasons and give reassurance..for that we got to read each other's moods right ? Akshu is missing it , isn't it why arohi had to remind her today?

trust is imp but its never absolute..its not an issue of trust between akshu and abhin..abhin isn't doubting akshu as a wife ..but his thinking that akshu will be happier with abhim and abhir would like to be with abhim when he knows the truth is totally one sided. Being a pitiful char is what I also hate to see...

These r plot holes that makers can't bother to fill

I said the same thing yesterday they switch between lower middle class to middle class like anything

The advance he took for job is forgotten

I remember sometime back abhir said something about mehengi medicine nd stuff

where they've the money to support muskan in shaadi is beyond me coz last i remember they spend their last penny on that temporary surgery nd it makes no sense how any homestay ka rent ka bhi so much for one to afford a wedding

Originally posted by: yellomellow

I don't comment often, but I don't get the hate Abhira gets when the new ship is just as bad. ITV isn’t supposed to be logical, but this leap is boring. Abhira as a concept was more interesting and it was doing well until they forced the evil sister into all their tracks as a 3rd angle. She wasn't interesting enough be the vamp in their lives. As a result, all possible the post-marriage tracks were wasted or never used. There was no story after their marriage instead of fixing the story they went a separation. For the leap, they butchered the OG character's entire arc.

It's amusing how Abhinav fans hate Abhimanyu, but Abhinav is basically a poor version of Abhimanyu. The makers didn't even bother to give an original name. All his dialogues, scenes with the female lead, and behavior are a copy of Abhimanyu's character arc. Even the dialogues are the same word for word.

With the Abhinav ship it’s too forced. The female lead's entire character is there to elevate Abhinav. She neglects her six year old son with a heart ailment to take care of adult man. It's comical how she fed Abhinav more than Abhir during this leap. He didn’t know anything about her until recently, but they lived together as "friends" raising a son. He is trustworthy enough to raise her son, but not trustworthy enough to know to the truth about her? They are a family, but their entire relationship is based on a lie to keep a father and son apart. Her relationship with him isn’t a compromise, but she constantly lowers herself for his benefit ignoring her own child. He respects her, but he participates in her wrongdoings instead of guiding her to do the right thing? Honestly, they are more like criminals colluding than friends or lovers. If he was supposed to be the endgame. Why not go with something better? It's the same team so they could have used Anu’s 2nd chance at love story-line.

Abhira was a car-crash, but the new ship is a trainwreck. Separation tracks are standard on ITV, but I have never seen one executed this badly. It’s as if they aren’t even trying.

Disclaimer: This is just my opinion. It's not attack on any of the actors or the team. You can disagree that's fine.

What lmao.

On what planet is this true. AbhiM and AbhiN are so different from each other. In every single way possible lol. They have no similar character traits.

Also it was made quite clear multiple times on the show that AbhiM and Birlas gave Akshara so much trauma that she didn't even want to relive or tell anyone about her past. Not even AbhiN and that's completely VALID. People have wounds of the past that they don't want to affect their present or future. That doesn't make AbhiN and Akshara's relationship hollow or him untrustworthy. AbhiN loved Abhir and the best father to him. That was her reason for choosing him in the first place. Her trauma and her issues took a backseat.. All for her son. She was healing on her own time. She needed TIME. One day she would have revealed it herself. Therapy mandates everyone functions on a different timeline. AbhiM's arrival triggered it for her without her approval. She wasn't ready.

And their relationship is based on love for their son.. And Abhinav supporting Akshara was the right thing to do. AbhiN should fight for AbhiM'a rights even after the treatment meted out by the latter and his family. What are these expectations 💀 I wish such expectations were there from AbhiM.. How actually one should support their spouse during their low phase.

Anyway 😆

Not the kinda constant reassurances they show AK giving Nav...Every third episode she's giving him a moral boost nd he still can't come around

Ohh Ak did notice Nav was down...she had heard the last of Neelamma nd Nav conversation nd asked Nav what r you blaming urself for now...Neelamma covered it up saying he's worried about Muskan ki shaadi ki taiyaari toh hum thik se kr rhe hai nd that' what she replied to Aaru

After the Aaru conversation there was a convo between AkshNav nd she was pepping him up but Mann hi mann Nav was still insecure...I mean u've a scene of AK hugging him nd he's saying in his head what if I'm wrong here

Originally posted by: DevilHere

These r plot holes that makers can't bother to fill

I said the same thing yesterday they switch between lower middle class to middle class like anything

The advance he took for job is forgotten

I remember sometime back abhir said something about mehengi medicine nd stuff

where they've the money to support muskan in shaadi is beyond me coz last i remember they spend their last penny on that temporary surgery nd it makes no sense how any homestay ka rent ka bhi so much for one to afford a wedding

Abhimanyu ne cash ki gaddi di thi. Dekha maine 😂😂

He clearly paid extra plus he is helping out in getting stuff for wedding.

At the moment audience ya AbhiN khud bhi uncomfortable hai jo with AbhiM being their and audience calling begani shaadi mein abdula Deewana k bina manage krna mushkil tha AbhiN k liye yeh shaadi and Muskaan na apni earning share krti dikh rhi hai, jo shagun mila woh Dev ko dediya 😂

Dr sahab ne mamla manage toh kra hua hai 😂

Plus Muskan ki pay toh aati hogi, UDp mein kharcha bhi nahi tha rent free hi thi almost. Woh paisa lgaao shaadi mein 😂

Originally posted by: Krinya

Hhmm I see your point here..I'm a bit too lagging ..I watch 1 scene per day and switch off the tv😆

I feel reassurances are good ..but communication is also very imp..if one partner is feeling low , the other can cheer them up , also ask for reasons and give reassurance..for that we got to read each other's moods right ? Akshu is missing it , isn't it why arohi had to remind her today?

trust is imp but its never absolute..its not an issue of trust between akshu and abhin..abhin isn't doubting akshu as a wife ..but his thinking that akshu will be happier with abhim and abhir would like to be with abhim when he knows the truth is totally one sided. Being a pitiful char is what I also hate to see...

I think AK said haan aesa hota hai bura toh lgta hai and all. But considering there's a lot going on for AK too at the moment it's very humanly possible for her to miss a few things like AbhiN was lost while serving tea.

Shaadi management she is looking after, her ex is there and even though she has moved on and is in love with someone else, she once loved him and obviously still care a little, he is her son's dad. The son knows half truth(she should tell Nav this)

On top of it she is making Jam 😂

I think it's fair to cut some slack for her as well.

Don't you think.

Also, this isn't the first time AbhiN is self pitying, doubting the world they have created together.

His behaviour is more concerning tbh

Ab obviously for the sake of story they wanted her to stay with Goenkas but personally meri family mein things happen differently my older cousin use to live 15 min away from my college yet my father would never let me stay with her coz kisipe bhi khudko kyun impose krna

Same with job

But ITV hai chalta hai

ITV ckt ka kaam hota hai aise muh bole bhai behen bnana

Haan yeh toh hai

Even my cousin was in Delhi. My real brother is there too. Yet i stayed in a rented house with friends coz rishton mein duriya bhi important hai.

Which ITV fails to show 😅

Originally posted by: yellomellow

Exactly, this is why their mature and understanding marriage is laughable. What relationship built on lies has trust and respect? What they have is a mutual benefit at a father's expense. According to the writers, not being well-off or trying in life means you get a pass for being morally bankrupt.

Characters saying dialogues about trust and respect doesn't make it true. He was always an insecure character who needs to be coddled like a child. What man with self-respect agrees to be a father ji to someone else child? Or feels no remorse for his actions? He got son, a cheerleader, and a maid in exchange so he agreed to her lies. It was fun lying to Abhimanyu's face and getting him to do everything for Abhir without knowing about his son. Now, he is scared to lose what he stole in the first place.

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The fact Abhimanyu feels guilty about everything what happened six years ago, lying to Abhir, and even lying to Abhinav while she sleep soundly is insane lol. As for Abhinav, he gave no apology, no remorse, no acknowledgement the trauma they caused him (or Abhir), and calling his son "mera beta" in front of him with no shame. Abhimanyu is practically a saint lol. He wins automatically. It doesn't hurt that HC is a phenomenal actor. He doesn't even need a good script let alone a single to convey the message.

Honesty, it seems like ego at this point. ITV producers are known for their notorious egos and thin skin. My guess is someone hurt his feelings and we are seeing the consequence of it lol.

LOL that's the irony, isn't it? I don't know if they realize but they HAVE made Abhimanyu practically a saint in this situation while trying to push the narrative that Nav is the greatest man alive😆. Simply making every other character glorify Nav doesn't blind the audience to the fact that Abhi is still the only one with a functioning conscience here who feels disturbed over hiding anything.....while Akshara sleeps guilt free since so many years, barely feels a pang lying to anyone and now even hiding things from her current husband and son.....life is CHILL for Akshara madam whom people try to claim is the biggest victim in this story😆

It's just lazy writing at the end of the day.....lol they think TRP viewers will automatically sympathize with a poor character even when he's doing morally questionable things and trying to pass himself off as morally righteous.....lol