After seeing this serial one thing is very clear anupama is a failure at everything except house work
1) She cannot handle her husband be it vanraj or second one anuj
2) She cannot handle her abusive in laws be it hasmukh or baa ever and is slave to them for life like stock holm syndrome
3) She cannot stop first husband vanraj from talking dirty to her and eyeing her although married to anuj
4) Shes failed as mother of all her 3 kids - toshu and pakhi are misbehaving and will make their spouses suffer full life, samar cannot differentiate good and bad like anupama and married dimpy whose by nature like vanraj and baa. First duty of mother is to teach children to face world alone all 3 kids are useless cannot handle outside alone or work place etc
5) She failed as mother to adoptive kid CA
6) Shes allowing maya in her hubby house and to misbehave with her and anuj in public. Any other woman by now maya would be hit black and blue for her misbehaviour and in jail
7) Shes utter failure as wife to anuj as she was never there for him most times busy in shah home
8) I would say she was utter failure to vanraj too as every man desires some things from wife but anupama was naive to understand how to do that may be thats why kavya entered in vanraj life. May be vanraj required anupam ato dress more modern look more modern learn a bit of english be presentable when with him but anupama never upgraded than nor has upgraded after marrying USA anuj
I know of 10th pass or 12th pass or degree local state board girls who marry go to USA than learn good english or computers etc dress in midi and mini because they want to be presentable in front of husbands colleagues. Its very tough for them but they try especially so their husband do not feel bad taking them on parties etc socializing
9) Shes utter failure in studies she neither learned english nor finance nor completed any course as shes a Maaa no time from 3 adult kids after all
10) Shes utter failure in all profession dancing - i never saw her teach online or in academy ever, now USA will also god knows if she goes or not or comes running back because baa and dimpy fought. Anuj business anyways shes incompetent to go to that hi fi office as she has no english to understand or to read files or reports etc all employees will fool her thats all
11) Anupama failed GK kaka and Malvika the most as anuj wife. She allowed Baa to disgrace GK kaka many times and Malvika though vanraj used and threw for wealth yet she knew all and was quiet
She called Malvika her daughter if someone did to pakhi what Vanraj did to Malvika we all know what anupama would do to that man. That means she never consider Malvika as sister in law too forget daughter
If someone abuse hasmukh and baa she will become kali but for GK kaka silence hes after al anuj servant not father nooo so why bother
If anuj malvika real father mother was there also anupam awould not bother about them like hasmukh baa we know that they would get insulted and ignored like GK kaka and malvika
Shiv Shakti
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