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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: CrazieChiraiya

Not trying to raise any hopes, but this whole intimacy thing seems intentional. Because they are constantly showing that Sai is talking to Satya about it & he somehow always fails to listen. This might boil up into some big drama.

Satya touching Sai has always been in a friendly way, not in any romantic sense. I agree that consent is important, even Satya knows that, but sometimes when we consider someone family, we tend to get touchy with them without realizing sometimes that they might be feeling uncomfortable or they simply need space. Satya would have been absolutely wrong if he had been taking liberties even after Sai made things clear. Maybe she isn't used to being around a man, plus she has been living alone with nobody really caring about her well being so she is most probably taken aback by all the concern about her. & Sai has seen people she has known for years flipping in the blink of an eye, (especially Ashwini, Sai had really accepted her as an Aai) her trust issues are deeply rooted, she is empathetic towards Adhkaris, but this family is really new for her, & a person who has been soo brutally hurt by people she considered her own, she will take time to warm up to them & form a bond with them. At this point, Sai is running away from any more attachments because there is always this fear that the more people she will let in, the more they would walk right out, this has been happening to her for years. Today when Amba hugged her, Sai was taken aback, and shocked, because she was expecting her to snap at her & create a scene, something that constantly kept happening at Chavan Niwas, with Bhavani being ever ready to create a scene & humiliate, Sai was waiting for Amba to say something bitter to her, but that didn't happen. & I feel maybe Sai equates Amba to Bhavani since they are sisters, so she maybe kinda expects Amba to be a replica of Bhavani, which isn't the case, which she will eventually realize, once she lets her guard down & is willing to give herself a second chance. Also, maybe Sai not wanting Satya to touch her is maybe because she is hyperaware of his actions & is scared that maybe one day she will let her guard down. All thanks to Virat & Chavans, she most probably thinks that she isn't worth loving & that she doesn't have the romantic kinda love left in her to give it to Satya. Sai might be scared to fall in love again. I feel might be a situation arises where Sai is stuck & Chavans as per usual belittle her & Adhikaris stand by her, or maybe she is on the verge of losing Adhikaris & she realizes how important they have become to her because if she didn't care her first instinct wouldn't have been to defend Adhikaris every time Chavan or Virat attacks them, she cares about them, but most probably is too scared to accept it to herself & we do know that Sai takes time to accept her feelings about anything or anybody in general, although, by that time a lot has already transpired & it's too late.

Now coming to Satya, his character's real test is how he handles when Sai rejects him, although I think he expects that from her because he wants to confess to Sai in spite of knowing that she isn't over Virat. I understand where he is coming from, he has lost his love once, and he has seen that loss right before his eyes, he wants to be honest with Sai & tell her everything so that he has no regrets later & the basis of their relationship has been honesty, & maybe with the little hope that she gives it a shot. & Sai needs to know about it so that she is more careful about his feelings, especially around Virat. I really want that Satya confesses his feelings to Sai maturely & make her aware that she isn't obligated to reciprocate them, his feelings are his problem to deal with, and she doesn't have to take the pressure of it. Because, seemingly, this is the only way Sai might only be able to realize the difference between Virat & Satya's love for her. Plus if she is aware of Satya's feelings, she might not misunderstand Satya's gestures, care etc just as "humanitarian" or "zimmedaari".


If they show Sai rudely snapping badly back at Satya for being touchy, I do want Satya to understand it, calmly apologize to Sai, but also give her a cold shoulder for rudely snapping at him, & maintain distance with her at all times, build boundaries, without guilt-tripping Sai about it. Because they do need some differences between them.


I really like your take and I pointed it earlier that physical intimacy could be dealt with cautiously but it was only appropriate to have that track after sai had completely weaned off the feeling of love for V. Right now is such a bad timing because they are clearly showing that she loves V.

I don’t know if any one here has watched BV , it was very sensitively done where anandi accepts , likes and wants shiv as her life partner yet doesn’t feel comfortable with intimacy and takes time to accept that. But the crux was she didn’t have any feelings for her ex husband jagdish rather she wanted to move on with shiv and shiv understands her and gives her the space she needs until she initiates it herself.

I feel that is what is making this so messy that she loves V and that’s despite of all the abuse he has hurled on her. Even today’s episode he jerked off his hand when she tried to touch. And this is very problematic and toxic … the execution is really poor

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Enola

Can't explain riri but I found that very sarcastic.

You haven't watched?

Watched but didn't pay much attention lol I was busy feeling second hand embarrassment from watching the cringe fest 😅 😬 🙃

Edited by badgarlriri - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

I was watching old SaiRat. Bohot hi zyada toxic tha yaar. How on earth did she even fell for him? zmental depression mein chala jaye banda.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Sai is falling in love with satya and falling out of love with V. Have to catch up with many episodes but this touch scene now indicates something is changing in her... She was very comfortable, friendly with Sattu in hospital flirting, Chennai express and Vinu birthday scenes to ab kya hua, ab ye hua that she is hyper sensitive to his touch because now it means something, first it was all friendly. Similarly, she doesn't care about V's abusive touch because only care, friendship, co-parentship is left between them. She is also apprehensive of Amba because in her mind, her in laws, her husband, her love family are abusive. She cares for them but how come they do to fir her. Her past experiences are making her view everything with the same specs.

I was once a SaiRat stan, wanted them to show this touch hypersensitivity when she started coming in contact with V due to past Jaggy issues but they didn't show it, now they are and i am happy.

Episode nahi dekha, actually bohot saare nahi dekhe and don't wanna watch till something positive comes up but i strongly feel this.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

ImageThis is the Synopsis under Hulu Hotstar, what y'all thinks about this? It's written "Romance begins to bloom" I'm not sure if that going to apply to Sai also or only to Satya. As we all know Satya already Falling for Sai at a speed of a Bullet train.

How is this a family friendly show lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

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Posted: 2 years ago

Dysfunctional relationships lol

This is the only thing that makes sense about the show lol


Edited by NayaNehaD31 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: CrazieChiraiya

Not trying to raise any hopes, but this whole intimacy thing seems intentional. Because they are constantly showing that Sai is talking to Satya about it & he somehow always fails to listen. This might boil up into some big drama.

Satya touching Sai has always been in a friendly way, not in any romantic sense. I agree that consent is important, even Satya knows that, but sometimes when we consider someone family, we tend to get touchy with them without realizing sometimes that they might be feeling uncomfortable or they simply need space. Satya would have been absolutely wrong if he had been taking liberties even after Sai made things clear. Maybe she isn't used to being around a man, plus she has been living alone with nobody really caring about her well being so she is most probably taken aback by all the concern about her. & Sai has seen people she has known for years flipping in the blink of an eye, (especially Ashwini, Sai had really accepted her as an Aai) her trust issues are deeply rooted, she is empathetic towards Adhkaris, but this family is really new for her, & a person who has been soo brutally hurt by people she considered her own, she will take time to warm up to them & form a bond with them. At this point, Sai is running away from any more attachments because there is always this fear that the more people she will let in, the more they would walk right out, this has been happening to her for years. Today when Amba hugged her, Sai was taken aback, and shocked, because she was expecting her to snap at her & create a scene, something that constantly kept happening at Chavan Niwas, with Bhavani being ever ready to create a scene & humiliate, Sai was waiting for Amba to say something bitter to her, but that didn't happen. & I feel maybe Sai equates Amba to Bhavani since they are sisters, so she maybe kinda expects Amba to be a replica of Bhavani, which isn't the case, which she will eventually realize, once she lets her guard down & is willing to give herself a second chance. Also, maybe Sai not wanting Satya to touch her is maybe because she is hyperaware of his actions & is scared that maybe one day she will let her guard down. All thanks to Virat & Chavans, she most probably thinks that she isn't worth loving & that she doesn't have the romantic kinda love left in her to give it to Satya. Sai might be scared to fall in love again. I feel might be a situation arises where Sai is stuck & Chavans as per usual belittle her & Adhikaris stand by her, or maybe she is on the verge of losing Adhikaris & she realizes how important they have become to her because if she didn't care her first instinct wouldn't have been to defend Adhikaris every time Chavan or Virat attacks them, she cares about them, but most probably is too scared to accept it to herself & we do know that Sai takes time to accept her feelings about anything or anybody in general, although, by that time a lot has already transpired & it's too late.

Now coming to Satya, his character's real test is how he handles when Sai rejects him, although I think he expects that from her because he wants to confess to Sai in spite of knowing that she isn't over Virat. I understand where he is coming from, he has lost his love once, and he has seen that loss right before his eyes, he wants to be honest with Sai & tell her everything so that he has no regrets later & the basis of their relationship has been honesty, & maybe with the little hope that she gives it a shot. & Sai needs to know about it so that she is more careful about his feelings, especially around Virat. I really want that Satya confesses his feelings to Sai maturely & make her aware that she isn't obligated to reciprocate them, his feelings are his problem to deal with, and she doesn't have to take the pressure of it. Because, seemingly, this is the only way Sai might only be able to realize the difference between Virat & Satya's love for her. Plus if she is aware of Satya's feelings, she might not misunderstand Satya's gestures, care etc just as "humanitarian" or "zimmedaari".


If they show Sai rudely snapping badly back at Satya for being touchy, I do want Satya to understand it, calmly apologize to Sai, but also give her a cold shoulder for rudely snapping at him, & maintain distance with her at all times, build boundaries, without guilt-tripping Sai about it. Because they do need some differences between them.

Was waiting for your POV. It will b really nice if this problem is addressed. And I really hope Satya suggests a counseling session for Sai for the trauma. This is a sensitive issue and should be handled carefully.
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

Behold clown couple 🤡

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Can you give a warning next time? Thank you. Wtf is that lipstick? Why would they do that? What were they thinking? I.....aaaaaahhhhhh

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: nikita05

Sai is falling in love with satya and falling out of love with V. Have to catch up with many episodes but this touch scene now indicates something is changing in her... She was very comfortable, friendly with Sattu in hospital flirting, Chennai express and Vinu birthday scenes to ab kya hua, ab ye hua that she is hyper sensitive to his touch because now it means something, first it was all friendly. Similarly, she doesn't care about V's abusive touch because only care, friendship, co-parentship is left between them. She is also apprehensive of Amba because in her mind, her in laws, her husband, her love family are abusive. She cares for them but how come they do to fir her. Her past experiences are making her view everything with the same specs.

I was once a SaiRat stan, wanted them to show this touch hypersensitivity when she started coming in contact with V due to past Jaggy issues but they didn't show it, now they are and i am happy.

Episode nahi dekha, actually bohot saare nahi dekhe and don't wanna watch till something positive comes up but i strongly feel this.

I was also thinking in similar lines, not falling in love but becoming conscious of Satya's touch as he is her husband now and earlier was just a friend. Still I am going to be pessimistic that writers are coming up with plots that can make Satya go either way and testing the waters to see what approach to take. We guys can oscillate between getting a heart break or sigh of relief. All depends on TRP and makers.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Shesh0506

Was waiting for your POV. It will b really nice if this problem is addressed. And I really hope Satya suggests a counseling session for Sai for the trauma. This is a sensitive issue and should be handled carefully.

Itni maturity ki ummeed.....wah bhai wah. I will always aim for low hanging fruit. Don't turn Satya negative. baaki duniya jaaye bhaad mein

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