Was akshara taking revenge - Page 2

I didn't find Manish wrong here...I mean honestly it's weird that AK is constantly throwing u r not his father to AbhiM whenever KM tried to hug Abhir pulling him away ....she gave ki maine taiyaari ki h...KV goes with a restraining order nd then she's like baithke baat krte h...woh pehle Krna tha na...jb baithke baat hi Krna h toh yeh befazool ki tashanbaazi kyun krni....I don't know I may have misinterpreted the scene but that 6 years ago scene between Priya and Manish....AK heard only half of it ....to me it sounded like he was sad at the circumstances that his daughter is being blamed for another death... wishing that AK Had waited...not that he blamed AK

Originally posted by: Mind-map0

What do you guys think about this scenario? —-> if Ak didn’t suffer miscarriage when Neil died, do you think AbhiM still would have divorced Ak? Currently, it looks like the blame of miscarriage is on Ak which is unfair.

Also, Ak has this habit of not saying things as they are. Why does she want undivided attention to convey anything? If baby is alive, just say that first instead of saying “Meri baat suno.. blah blah”. If kairav sent the legal notice just say it but no she has to say “Meri baat suno.. falana falana”. I agree with Manish that both are at fault. Both of them are toying with Ar, AbhiN, Roohi and Abhir.

Originally posted by: DevilHere

I didn't find Manish wrong here...I mean honestly it's weird that AK is constantly throwing u r not his father to AbhiM whenever KM tried to hug Abhir pulling him away ....she gave ki maine taiyaari ki h...KV goes with a restraining order nd then she's like baithke baat krte h...woh pehle Krna tha na...jb baithke baat hi Krna h toh yeh befazool ki tashanbaazi kyun krni....I don't know I may have misinterpreted the scene but that 6 years ago scene between Priya and Manish....AK heard only half of it ....to me it sounded like he was sad at the circumstances that his daughter is being blamed for another death... wishing that AK Had waited...not that he blamed AK

I won't say usne barbaad ki h more like instead of choosing a straightforward path she chose the most twisted path possible... the makers simply did her character dirty here....I mean usually in such itv tracks either the FL never informs ML or atleast she tries her hardest nd there's that point after the child is born that she gives up...they made her give up in a day...it would've been better that she never tried....most of her ventures r half assed tbh...u can pickup anything nd it was just halfway done

Originally posted by: DevilHere

I won't say usne barbaad ki h more like instead of choosing a straightforward path she chose the most twisted path possible... the makers simply did her character dirty here....I mean usually in such itv tracks either the FL never informs ML or atleast she tries her hardest nd there's that point after the child is born that she gives up...they made her give up in a day...it would've been better that she never tried....most of her ventures r half assed tbh...u can pickup anything nd it was just halfway done

Originally posted by: mickeym

I genuinely feels the same , what Abhimanyu said in last episode .. yes Abhimanyu did mistake .. but akshara also did mistake equally .. if she really wanted him to know about the truth she could have send a message or said to someone else also instead of trusting a stranger .. she also was in anger now also .. she is taking revenge ,,, moving on with Abhinav is also a part of her revenge .. she is absolutely not in love with Abhinav but want to hurt Abhimanyu ..

I've already said this in a previous thread, abhimanyu was the one who divorced and threw his wife out of his life just few hours fresh from her miscarriage, despite that she did call him to tell him but he continued his angry tirades without any remorse of his previous behaviour. She got fed up of his harsh words and behaviour and decided to stop trying and chose to gather whatever self respect she had left and cut off the man who threw her away like unwanted furniture. That's not revenge.

Also why is abhimanyu and some people on the forum putting the responsibility of needing to constantly try and contact and tell abhimanyu no matter how much he insults and hurts her on the woman who has just been divorced and told by her husband he wants nothing to do with her? Somehow the freshly miscarried, freshly divorced, freshly abandoned and humiliated wife is responsible for chasing up her ex-husband? Why isn't this logic applied to abhimanyu that in all these months why did he not once feel that he crossed limits that day and did injustice to akshara with the way he treated her and should have tried to call her, text her, email her, send letter owls or pigeons to her or go in search of her to see if she's still alive or suicidal after what he did to her? But nope, somehow when akshara realised she's still a mother she should have gone running back and desperately continued to contact her emotionally abusive ex-husband without any right to think about her self-respect.

It was abhi's decision to divorce and throw her out of her life, she did as he ordered her to, so it is him who should be trying to contact her and find her to find out what condition he left her in.

Only wrong she truly had done is to abhinav. She should have never made him abhir's father/ her husband if she was just simply going to not give him any real rights and not move on with him. 6 years of his life wasted.

Even if she told goenka's, manjiri and abhimanyu's bhakt's, swarna-manish would have told manjiri-abhimanyu, and given how heartless and cruel they were towards akshara 6 years ago and still have a shitty attitude towards her, instead of trying to snatch custody of akshara's 6 year old son from her, they would be trying to snatch her new-born baby from her.

My take on this is that Ak never had any responsibility to tell Abhi. I don't really understand why they showed her desperately trying to contact him or anything. But she always had a responsibility toward her son and towards her family. Her revenge wasn't in the not trying a thousand ways to reach Abhi, but her revenge is in trusting a stranger, not asking for help from Goenkas, and hiding out in Kasauli.

If she called him once and he refused to listen, fine, her responsibility is over. Then she should have contacted Goenkas, told them the situation, and told them she needs money or access to her mother's fortune. Setup a nice life for herself anywhere in the world. If she wanted to have Nav be a father figure, that would also be easily done by just being friends, no need to marry the guy. I don't have an issue with their marriage if she took her time and fell in love with him, and then got married. Children can actually comprehend complex relationships, they don't immediately think their parents need to be together. That's just society. Ak could have slowly told Abhir that Nav is his adopted father, but he has a real father too. I know it would raise a lot of questions, but it's better for the kid in the long run.

The whole situation could be handled in a much better way.....if it was not for Ak's revenge on Abhi. Her each and every decision is based on what Abhi did to her. That's just not ok, especially as a mother.

Now the counter-argument, if she told Goenkas, Birlas would have found out. But, like, wasn't that why she contacted Abhi in the first place? No, she wanted Abhi to forget everything and run to her. If that doesn't happen, she will move heaven and earth to hide the truth from Abhi and everyone that they have a child. How is that not revenge? Imo, Ak has spent the last six years in revenge mode, it's shown in everything from her anger to her fear. In all of this, she did complicate things further. If she never wanted to go back to Abhi after the divorce, no one was forcing her to. After what he did, I am surprised people are still supporting him. She could have built a better life and especially one that was real, not just an illusion.

I believe her intention was not to take revenge but to instead protect herself. When she first called Abhi, I think her goal was to reconcile and raise the child together with him. When he was so hostile towards her, then she began to realize that this family is never going to accept her and possibly even fight to take her child away from her. Also, not having to deal with split custody meant that she herself didn't have to keep putting herself in hostile situations as well as her son. I honestly think she made the best choice for her mental health.... the fact that maybe it was a bit unethical is a different matter

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

I've already said this in a previous thread, abhimanyu was the one who divorced and threw his wife out of his life just few hours fresh from her miscarriage, despite that she did call him to tell him but he continued his angry tirades without any remorse of his previous behaviour. She got fed up of his harsh words and behaviour and decided to stop trying and chose to gather whatever self respect she had left and cut off the man who threw her away like unwanted furniture. That's not revenge.

Also why is abhimanyu and some people on the forum putting the responsibility of needing to constantly try and contact and tell abhimanyu no matter how much he insults and hurts her on the woman who has just been divorced and told by her husband he wants nothing to do with her? Somehow the freshly miscarried, freshly divorced, freshly abandoned and humiliated wife is responsible for chasing up her ex-husband? Why isn't this logic applied to abhimanyu that in all these months why did he not once feel that he crossed limits that day and did injustice to akshara with the way he treated her and should have tried to call her, text her, email her, send letter owls or pigeons to her or go in search of her to see if she's still alive or suicidal after what he did to her? But nope, somehow when akshara realised she's still a mother she should have gone running back and desperately continued to contact her emotionally abusive ex-husband without any right to think about her self-respect.

It was abhi's decision to divorce and throw her out of her life, she did as he ordered her to, so it is him who should be trying to contact her and find her to find out what condition he left her in.

Only wrong she truly had done is to abhinav. She should have never made him abhir's father/ her husband if she was just simply going to not give him any real rights and not move on with him. 6 years of his life wasted.

Even if she told goenka's, manjiri and abhimanyu's bhakt's, swarna-manish would have told manjiri-abhimanyu, and given how heartless and cruel they were towards akshara 6 years ago and still have a shitty attitude towards her, instead of trying to snatch custody of akshara's 6 year old son from her, they would be trying to snatch her new-born baby from her.

This. I don't why people here are hell bent on glorifying AbhiM and his toxic traits. They are literally victim blaming and trying to promote trauma bonding.

If Akshara is on revenge mode- then the question is why? So people do agree what Abhimanyu did was wrong, then why justification.

Or if this is revenge

For what did abhimanyu avenged by giving his love of life divorce hours after she miscarriages the babies he wanted to abort?

Your points always makes a lot of sense you know.

Obviously she could've handled the situation better but she did what she did and so the Birlas and Goenkas and Abhinav and Abhimanyu.

But even now there's like no character growth of Abhimanyu. Akshara sometimes does make sense she went to talk and sort but the guy is not ready to listen. Yet a lot of people support him and that's what surprise me.

For the show i feel they have no concrete story in mind since Neil(actor) decided to quit. Lot of loopholes arw their and then fast paced leap.

After leap kbhi growth kbhi kuch bhi... Even with this way how will they ever get the leads to reunite in case that's the endgame.

It's usually useless to discuss about the show now but what hurt me is to people literally supporting the deeds by Abhimanyu and blaming Akshara.

For me it's not like i am pro Akshara coz she has flaws and is stupid but i am anti abhimanyu coz of n number of things.