Exactly ! How can some ppl even compare AbM’s selfish n senseless mistakes with Ak’s. She was immature in handling few things but she is not the person who will thrive for revenges. Any women with self respect would never even call to inform that so called soul lover who kicked her out immediately after the miscarriage.He is a Dr he should have basic sense that what a women is going through mentally and physically at that time. Even then she tried calling him to inform but these ppl expect her to text or call Rohan after saying that he doesn’t bother abt her or the baby and will only tc of his family? May be some ppl who him hot and they just wanted that ghata phita romance so women need to leave her self respect and get back to him after all that she went.Originally posted by: Miss-Behave
I've already said this in a previous thread, abhimanyu was the one who divorced and threw his wife out of his life just few hours fresh from her miscarriage, despite that she did call him to tell him but he continued his angry tirades without any remorse of his previous behaviour. She got fed up of his harsh words and behaviour and decided to stop trying and chose to gather whatever self respect she had left and cut off the man who threw her away like unwanted furniture. That's not revenge.
Also why is abhimanyu and some people on the forum putting the responsibility of needing to constantly try and contact and tell abhimanyu no matter how much he insults and hurts her on the woman who has just been divorced and told by her husband he wants nothing to do with her? Somehow the freshly miscarried, freshly divorced, freshly abandoned and humiliated wife is responsible for chasing up her ex-husband? Why isn't this logic applied to abhimanyu that in all these months why did he not once feel that he crossed limits that day and did injustice to akshara with the way he treated her and should have tried to call her, text her, email her, send letter owls or pigeons to her or go in search of her to see if she's still alive or suicidal after what he did to her? But nope, somehow when akshara realised she's still a mother she should have gone running back and desperately continued to contact her emotionally abusive ex-husband without any right to think about her self-respect.
It was abhi's decision to divorce and throw her out of her life, she did as he ordered her to, so it is him who should be trying to contact her and find her to find out what condition he left her in.
Only wrong she truly had done is to abhinav. She should have never made him abhir's father/ her husband if she was just simply going to not give him any real rights and not move on with him. 6 years of his life wasted.
Even if she told goenka's, manjiri and abhimanyu's bhakt's, swarna-manish would have told manjiri-abhimanyu, and given how heartless and cruel they were towards akshara 6 years ago and still have a shitty attitude towards her, instead of trying to snatch custody of akshara's 6 year old son from her, they would be trying to snatch her new-born baby from her.
Yes , she was selfish with AbN but again she clearly said what she can give him and he agreed for that and got into the relationship. But I still think Ak was wrong with AbN ,6yrs is a long time to think she should have left him in an yr and told him to live his life if she is not ready to move on, she could have started her singing career or some other for her financial needs and Nav can visit them as a friend be father figure.
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