First of all, I don't even wanna put their names together. Blah 😤
Now, this is I trying to analyse yesterday's and today's episode, majorly yesterday's. I don't know, let's just see where it goes.
@solembaum, read your post. I was planning to make one, and this might also have a response to yours or at least my take.
I have to talk about Kairav guys, before we jump into Bakrira 😅
Why is Kairav Goenka trying to be another Abhimanyu Birla? It didn't occur to me first. Now it makes sense. His beloved sister disappeared for 6 years and he didn't go look for and was angry with her because she didn't come to HIM? He made her misery about HIMSELF. And now he has gone ahead and has done his marmaani with his sister's child without even consulting her and her husband in the name of protecting them. Also, the tashan at Muskaan's alliance meeting. He could have calmly talked. No, he had to make a scene. Take the phone and freaking break it? If i can remember he has manhandled Muskaan too a couple of times. Doesn't it remind you of ours truly? But do people love Kairav for it? Nah, he is a sidey and not as hot as Betamanyu, right?
Now, let's talk about Akshara and the accusation she faced that she was taking revenge on Abhimanyu by hiding her child? Lol. This dude is obsessed with himself. Any decision anyone takes has to be centered around him, right?
I will probably start sounding like a broken record now but so is freaking Akshara and Abhimanyu. Anyway, Akshara was thrown out mercilessly like a tissue paper by Abhimanyu and his mom. To do that to a woman who just miscarried is nothing less than mental abuse and domestic violence. Does anyone who truly loved you, would do it you? I have read Abhimanyu loves Akshara, it just that he loses his control when gets angry and once he calms down he keeps coming back to her. It's not love. It is a toxic co-dependent relationship which is literally what Abhira's relationship is. Because he loves his mom and he has never let his anger inflict direct pain on his mom. Never ever blamed her for things she outrightly, explicitly did.
Now, Akshara is a broken shell of herself, discarded by probably the most important person in her life. And she finds a glimmer of hope when she realises her baby is alive. So, she reaches out to Abhimanyu. I honestly do not think she was thinking far ahead in the future at that point that Abhimanyu will come running and they will be a happy family again. She was completely in the moment. She realised her baby is alive and wants to let the most important person in her life know, so she calls him, begs him for a chance to talk. The harsh way Abhimanyu behaved made her realise how much hatred he has for her. She is witnessing someone at their cruellest and it is like a hard realisation that is hitting her on her face that her existence means nothing to this guy that he isn't even willing to give her 5 minutes of his life. So she gives up. She closes the door towards a past life where no one wanted anything to do with her. That's all about it. I don't think from her perspective she was looking forward to have a happy family with Abhimanyu after all the tragedy. It is just that need to share the glimmering hope in their life.
But again, I wish she disliked her maternal family as well. And of course she doesn't owe them any information considering they didn't give a damn about her either. She does have self respect because she decided not to let people use her like a baby churning machine. Like her importance is not just associated with her ability to make babies. She was at least sure of that. But I dislike that she doesn't stand up against Goenkas.
And Abhimanyu, what do I even say about him, guys? The same old, the same old. Even when he turns 90, this is guy is not gonna have any character growth. Self obsessed narcissistic piece of shit. Like you could have texted, emailed and told Rohan? Really? Is this guy for real? He can discard people according to his whims but everyone else around him should bent down backwards so that he can fulfill his duty? What does this guy think, yo? That the universe literally revolves around him? I think yes, because Akshu not revolving around only him was his main trauma in life. 🙄 The audacity to expect people to do everything for him and the privilege that reeks. Oh, God!
And Manish, what a piece of shit again. I liked him much better when he detested Abhimanyu. I don't understand where his love for Abhimanyu is even coming from that he is even against Kairav and Akshara? Manjari is so obssessd she can't see anything else other than her son and her pota now. But Manish also need to be obssessd with Abhimanyu? Dude, freaking take care of your grand children. Enough of obsessing with a deranged psycho who threw your grand daughter to the dogs few years back. What the hell is wrong with the families in the show? And why isn't Akshara questioning him. I can't.
The only sane family in this show was Sharma family and I am not even getting that. 😔
Jhanak
Anupamaa
Cricket
2