No, in Adi's case, the rules will change😆....he will get the benefit of doubt of having a blood bond with the child even if he's spent 8 years apart. But Viaan will not be given any regard for trying to make a genuine effort to bond with a child he isn't related to by blood.
Bottom line is that parenthood comes in all kinds of shades....every shade is special in its own way. The problem starts when people try to glorify one shade at the cost of pulling down the other....rather than giving regard to each shade on its own.
@bold, our chacha chachi mama mami too care for us. Our neighbors also care for little kids playing in the society. Caring is different and parenthood is different. Parents have more deeper feeling. The feeling of loss of child can only be understood by that parent. While others may not be worried about small wounds or incident, but it can affect way more to parents especially mothers.