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Team Abhimanyu (Gen 3)

Posted: 2 years ago
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I am not sure when i will completely quit watching this show. Before i leave i wanted to complete this long pending task of creating a thread with all the lists of issues that i see in current episodes. This is not a abhi vs akshu thread and i totally understand both are ruined on white day. This thread is only for makers. Please feel free to add your points too.

Lets not quote and tag each other and do not chat here too. Feel free to like the pov if you like and appreciate the persons pov and if you want to add on to it. 😊

This will only contain list of complaints on yrkkh from abhira/abhi/akshu fans .


1. If abhi was so bad and wanted only abhir why did he asked akshu to abort her kid as her life would be in risk.


2. Does akshu really belongs to this era. Why akshu needed a man's name for her kid? Are you not insulting single mothers.


3. If abhinav was so good why didn't he not took care of so many orphans or some one who really needed help in past, who are literally begging on road. What was so special about akshara. Is it because she looked classy and beautiful.


4. If goenkas are so bad why akshu still kept contacts with same bp who accused her of killing neil.


5. If arohi can torture akshara for 20 years in the name sirath death. Same arohi does not even remember neil. But on contrary akshu is constantly accusing abhi for not picking up the call where as abhi has called her back and asked nav to give the phone call to akshu.. is akshu not doing the same thing that arohi did to her..Are you planning to replace your fl too along with ml?

Abhi who seen his dad torturing his mom throwed akshu in her miscarried state. I believe hb would have behaved same way if manju would have done something like that.

Is the theme of yrkkh 3 is abuse others like how you got abused?


6. Why there is no pov shown for akshu and abhi. Does fl and ml ever repent on their actions ?


7. According to you not picking up a phone call is worse than not preventing neil from jumping into the battle ground where he lost his life? That's why abhi is getting more punishment and akshu was forgiven?


8. Why akshu is not using her music to earn some money and she once was therapist. I have never seen her remembering abhi even when she sang in hospital for abhir or summer camp. So it clearly shows she don't have any trauma which is related to her music so why the hell she is wasting her time in jam buisness instead of using her music to build her career.


9. Why akshu want to keep her son in delusions. If she is really moved on with abhinav why can't they show her forgiving abhi and moving on from her past. As she remebers her past more than her moments with nav. Why in the era of co parenting she is acting like a women who is living in 18th centuary. There are many women who happily moved on in their life even after facing physical abuse even forgiven her ex and co parenting the kid. So are you trying to say akshu wants to hold on to abhi's memory and accuse him for rest of her life and want to move on with abhinav too. Why she is torturing abhi on daily basis as now she no where hold any rights to be angry on her as she has already "MOVED ON". Abhi is no one to her to curse or to throw her tantrums at him.


10. Why akshu wants to abhi give up on his rights on abhir just because she found a father for her kid and kept him in delusion and lied to him and assumed that abhi never wanted him where as abhi did not even know that his one kid was alive. Akshu needs help she might be dealing with parental alienation syndrome. It may increase more once abhir knows the truth.

https://www.healthline.com/health/childrens-health/parental-alienation-syndrome#definition


11. Are you trying to say marry some one who don't have family. You will stay happy if the guy don't have family? Why is abhinav shown as orphan he could have shown as some one who lives with his mother. But no you wanted specifically orphan and show to the world that without family a girl will have happy life in her sasural.


12. What if tomorrow if abhinav dies does she need a new father for child or will you ever show women having strength to raise her child on her own ?


13. Why is abhira are shown as villain in the show. Why they are not expressing their state of mind or white day why they are not telling each other their state.

Why abhi is not telling alshu that his mom was about to get stroke seeing her call and when he called her back nav was talking about mr india as that was more important for him when abhi was literally taking care of his family.

Why akshu did not even dropped a message if her intention was so pure. Was it because she wanted to accuse him rest of her life? Or you wanted to show her all of sudden selfish women who wanted abhir only for herself.


14. Why abhi is giving false hopes to arohi. You very well know none of abhira fans will accept your cross shipping especially abrohi. Why are you want to potray abhi as villain again by making him do all these nonsense. Why he clearly can not deny for this marriage once for all?


15. Why akshu is not getting any credit for parenting. Akshu has taught abhir to be brave and face the world. Just because you needed abhir as mouse in s4 you made akshu marry abhinav. As if abhir was raised by abhi he would have known to fight for his rights.


16. What exactly you want to show the world marriage is very important to survive in this world tbh your soch is ghatiya look at those single women who achieved alot without even marrying once in her life time.


17. What exactly you want to tell every girl. If your family is biased towards you go find your anuj kapadia on street. Girls will find gabbar more than finding anuj kapadia. And after a while they may become untraceable too.

18. What exactly you want to show to the world. The women hostels or aashrams which helps ladies are of no use for akshara that she had marry some random person without even doing any back ground check. Sorry akshu was never so weak.


Enough of the rants please feel free to add more

If they read IF they should know everyone are frustrated too.

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One more from me -

Why would Akshara start living with a stranger she met on a bus and free load on him for her medical expenses? Make it make sense?

Did she not have any savings in her account? She was shown having a music career. I presume she would have a decent bank balance?

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Hit it out of the park diya !!! Very well put…I really don’t know what else to add…maybe these few 😅


1. why fix things which weren’t broken?

2. Why change character arc by 180 degrees one fine day?

3. Why leap after leap?

4. Why so less creativity that scenes need to be copy pasted?
5. Why so much misogyny?

6. Why inability to take feedback?
7. why only fathers being highlighted

8. Why can’t there be a balance?

9. Why so much insanity and letting mother take control of whose phone you can pick and whose life you get to be involved with?

10. Why so less research on medicine when entire gen us as bout doctors and hospitals snd every other day someone is sick and lands in Birla hospital?

11 why not give one sukoon wali marriage before stirring the pot?

12. Why not show aarohi to have a spine s d act like an educated doctor?
13. why the difference of anger of akshara between sbhi vs aarohi/manjari etc when all did her wrong?
14. Why. mothers l about snd delivery effort sidelined to glorify faux kangaroo care?
15. Why this kolavari di?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Why can't Abhi word a proper apology? He's clearly guilty and wants to repent too but why has he never worded his apology to akshara....when he has worded it to everyone including shefali ruhi nd aarohi nd nav but not the person he feels he has wronged

Why didn't Akshara word an apology to MJ nd Birlas? Believe it or not the family did lose their son that day they deserve atleast a sorry I couldn't do more for Neil


Why is Akshara not mad at anyone except abhimanyu? She is not disappointed in anyone, Aarohi is her own sister nd she gave Manjari the place of her mother and she has nothing to say to all those people


While I agree with diya even to me her motivation to stay back in pathankot with Nav don't make sense I won't elaborate on that coz it can't be undone


Why is there no clarity in the direction the story is to take ? As they say you can't please everyone one set of fans will be sad in future why not rip the bandage, Why build up on AkshNav on odd days nd Abhira on even day and this nullify the progress.made in both ships the current track is very repetitive I can see parallel with episode aired two days ago


Why is there no integrity in the story. Where's the urgency that AkshNav had when they brought abhir to udaipur, Wasn't a doctor called from US only to go to camps the next day...what camps have zero physical activity and rest required for a heart patient.Why is Abhir conveniently sick , it's not like u gave him a flu


Why are Akshara's thoughts constantly resonating with Aarohi , isn't Aarohi the grey sister


Why is Aarohi a well established doctor shown planning to marry AbhiM for sake of her daughter.Aarohi was clever.Hows she expecting the truth will never come out . Why is she expecting Abhimanyu to give up on his son and instead of explaining Ruhi that she needs to share some attention with Abhir why is she fanning her jealousy, for that matter why is abhiM not addressing this with Ruhi


Why turn Parth into a abuser, Shefali and Parth already had issues if a parallel was needed those issues could be build upon, why bring up a sensitive topic like Domestic Violence nd deal with this is such a shoddy manner I hope the makers can close this topic with the sensitivity required for such case

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Posted: 2 years ago
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All I want to say is never saw such show where the leads are butchered to glorify others..Only here sideys getting glorified on daily basis and leads are becoming villains…

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I have been having contemplating if I should or should not comment here.. But I was like.. Chuck😆 it's forum and feel free to even ignore this comment...


I am not riding in any boat or ship or anywhere.. But opinion toh dena hai...


I agree on one thing -

I also want the answer as to why the heck did Akshara not reveal Abhir ka paternity truth to her own family or Abhimanyu... If she was confident that she isn't wrong and Abhinav is the only one to have fatherly right on Abhir, so why to hide it or just wait for it to be revealed... Matlab I know thoda drama chahiye tha... Chupana and all... But tumne mujhe drama bhi nai diya 😭 nothing has changed much ever since revelation.. Isse accha yeh nautanki would have been more powerful in Kasauli when she would have confronted Abhimanyu or even after returning... But I don't see any logic in Akshu hiding it from adults...


At the same time, I disagree that she is keeping child in any delusion... She has hidden the truth, she is lied fine... But he is 5 years old... He has grown up with father why would any sane woman bring this up without any context... Matlab yeh fear toh ab tak I don't understand...

Illogical is how does Abhir cares ki woh Nav ka khoon hai ya nai... It was quite stupid scene to me when he said to Abhinav that mein aapka toh khoon hoon kinda stuff... Kids don't understand blood relations till you reach that stage in life and adults can only convey such explanation when they are ready to handle it or understand it. 5 saal ke bacche ko kaun yeh sab bata ta hai? And kaunsa 5 saal ka baccha samjta hai?


I also agree that I detest Akshu for such biasness in her disliking... Matlab I totally disagree with the idea "Tum Gussa unse hi karte ho jisse Tum pyaar karte ho..." bhai... Gussa sab par aa sakta hai but you only tend to convey and confront those whom you consider close and don't wanna loose... I don't like that Akshu is OK with Abhir being friendly to Manjiri whereas she has not played any less role... Her gussa is quite misdirected. But I have tiny teeny hope seeing Anupama (given same PH) that she may give back to Manjiri and Arohi, if needed... Akshara should not just hold Abhimanyu responsible for everything.. He may have been key actor in her being kicked out but there were other forces too.


Now, coming to message of single moms... Once in some post we did discuss that in previous Gen Kairav was shown to be angry at Kartik toh why would they repeat with Abhir being angry on Abhimanyu? Similarly, they have already shown single mom ka struggle with Naira and Kairav, koi dusra perspective kyun nai? Moving on? Second chance in love? Realization of real freedom, sukoon and peace... Naira was a Sherni from the start... She grew up alone and was strong...Akshara wasn't... Looking at stories from past, she rather seems someone who was submissive, or caring and sweet in nicer tone... There are all kind of women out there and everyone could need different way to grow... Akshu was the kind who felt more comfortable with a companion, that's OK, whereas Naira was the kind who preferred strong independent life - which is also OK.. No point in discussing their journeys... So the message didn't come out as insult to single moms... Atleast in my opinion..

But if you say as per the last point Akshara may have never been weak but her situation forced her to be weak... She had lost a child, divorced and fighting everything alone... I think the kind of person she was, she may felt weak then... She tried to find job, she tried whatever she could. Music was linked to her traumatic past but after six years she realized if that's the way for healing a child then so be it... Her pain may have reduced drastically (all of the sudden).. But it's completely upto a person on what profession she wants to pursue.. If selling jams kinda made her happy... And seeing the way she had been taking out frustration on those poor jams, it seemed like therapy to me😆 more like.. Frustrate life se hokar yeh karo and then realize.. Oh wait... I can sell it too... And that's entreneurship... Cmon, eveb Abhinav was nothing 6 years back (btw, still any answer on how did he get last name as Sharma?) but seems like Akshu motivated him to invest in cars and be tourist guide himself... I personally feel her encouragement was cause of his success too... And I am sad that she isn't credited for that either... Also Most people know bio mom can be credited for all hence I think they are overfocusing on the dad who adopted.. But in past or now, it has quite many time been told clearly that both of them played role in his life.. They were happy family and hence you don't see any insecurity when one is praised over other...


Whether marriage is important or not is again personal choice.. Usmein kya message denge.. No one is denying that even without marriage people can achieve alot... Wait till Shefali succeeds as single woman after abusive marriage.. I was sad that they didn't show that for Keerti.. But yeh subjective hai... Akshara 1 went well without companion, Naira went on single toh dusre side bhi toh hota hai na...


My only issue in the mess is the way they inserted Abhinav.. But bass leap lena tha toh aise... They could have shown accidental meeting more than him being so concerned but thik hai... Kuch illogical cheeze ignore ki toh yeh bhi sahi.


Also this show isn't meant for messagss.. Anupama is meant for that.. This show is about naach gaana.. Festivals... Dil mein hole hai par Gangaur zarur celebrate hoga dhoom shaam se.. Birthday bhi hoga 🤪


I think trying to find answers or logic in this show would be waste because it has lost the plot since Gen 2 ka first leap..


That's all from my end...

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