TERE BIN - Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali DT # 73 - Page 35

Originally posted by: aimmyangle

Yups she helped her ... Bt use force karnay wale to marium the na .. r mz to us k room mn buht pahle s ata tha remember meerub saw shadows thats means k mz may be shadi k foran bad marium s relation banany laga etc.. then where was meerub in that ... Meerub ka sirf fault yeh hai k wo apnay bubble mn trap hai islye wo big picture nahi dekhti.. izat n all that its totally marium fault here...

Nobody absolutely nobody is taking away mariyam fault from here.

But meerub made it into her maksaat because of her ego against khan family and murtasim. If mariyam say jump off from the cliff would she. Just leave everything in one side for minute everything no mariyam no malik jr no haya no meerub...shouldn't she at least speak up on that moment yes murtasim I helped her so on but she kept quite in the promo.

Originally posted by: TheMsSupernova

I think it is easy to blame people, but I would blame mostly on the culture.

The whole izzat ke badle izzat crap that might have started this.

Using women for revenge or punishment because they are treated as ghar ki izzat.

Not asking or caring for your childs opinion when marrying them.

Being so strict that you own daughter feel like it is easier to run away from home with a person that she has know couple of months rather than talking to her family. I get that Anas manipulated her into believing that her family would never accept them, but she didn't trust her own family in this matter. And the way most of them reacted after finding out about Anas, explains why she was scared of talking to them.

The series problem is that it will not take up any of this issues and just highlight Murtasims pain and how he was betrayed, how Meerub is wrong and what Maryam has to deal with because she didn't listen to her family.

I think MZ was planning this from before...even before the izzat ke badle izzat drama. His mentality has been shown like this since the very beginning.

Agreed, a lot of it is to do with the culture. I mean using women or for that matter any person for revenge is the lowest of the low. And MB is no saint, nor is KMK. They f* ucked up as well.

MBs habit of forcing her decisions on others without thinking about the consequences. What if Nourez wasn't the good guy? Why would a mother force her daughter in a relationship she doesn't want? Anas or no Anas. Marriage needs to happen for the right reason and hopefully with the right person. Just because it worked out in MMs (mostly because of KMK) case doesn't mean it always will.

KMK, in a way did give Mariyam's love a chance but the whole forced marriage thing doesn't sit well. He knows what happens when the other person is not ready...why would he do the same to someone else? What if Nourez doesn't have the same patience as he did with Meerub? He was forced into this relationship and in a way he saw the struggle, he saw how difficult it is. Why wouldn't he and MB give Mariyam some time to get over it. The other thing I found weird is how he handled Mariyam and warned her to stay away and get ready for her forced marriage. This is not how you handle things irl. He could have done better, he could have shown Mariyam the proof that the guy is not right. He is in love, he understands the emotions and feelings attached but he didn't. So no, he didn't handle it well.

I really feel when a decision makers takes a decision he needs to be transparent with his people (especially in such circumstances). He found Anas shady but he didn't realize Mariyam/Meerub didn't. He could have done something to prove that something isn't right....he could have ensured that Mariyam & Meerub saw the same with their own eyes instead of him just blindly asking them to do as he says.

Originally posted by: NavyaKavya30

I rewatched the scene of signing contract papers . When Murtsaum says one day u will yourself tear these papers so Meerab says woh din meri azadi ka din hoga ….it think it would mean her azadi from not liking Murtsaum and accepting her feelings for him,

And Murtsaum’s words ki US raat ko tum bahut roaogi, corresponding to the same thing , I think

Originally posted by: NavyaKavya30

I rewatched the scene of signing contract papers . When Murtsaum says one day u will yourself tear these papers so Meerab says woh din meri azadi ka din hoga ….it think it would mean her azadi from not liking Murtsaum and accepting her feelings for him,

And Murtsaum’s words ki US raat ko tum bahut roaogi, corresponding to the same thing , I think

And it's logical. Rather than the confession and consummation happening followed by separation this should happen. Murtasim and Meerub dono ke lines would fit in.

Otherwise, confession/Consummation will looked forced and rushed.

Maryam to jubi dubi k sath chala gaya phir uski shaadi ki bts?? Shaadi kab or kiske sath hoga?

Mujhe lagta hain abhi kisi ko pata nehi chalega ke maryum ke bhagne ke piche meerab hain. Maryum ko wapas lane ki baad shaadi hogi. Phir meerasim consummation or uske baad haya video dikhaye gi sabko.

Originally posted by: luvmayurarti

Maryam to jubi dubi k sath chala gaya phir uski shaadi ki bts?? Shaadi kab or kiske sath hoga?

Mujhe lagta hain abhi kisi ko pata nehi chalega ke maryum ke bhagne ke piche meerab hain. Maryum ko wapas lane ki baad shaadi hogi. Phir meerasim consummation or uske baad haya video dikhaye gi sabko.

Ideally, I would want her marriage with Nourez to be postponed....she needs to be given some time to get over the betrayal. Rest we'll get to know in 1-2 weeks.

Originally posted by: Neha_J

And it's logical. Rather than the confession and consummation happening followed by separation this should happen. Murtasim and Meerub dono ke lines would fit in.

Otherwise, confession/Consummation will looked forced and rushed.

Yes I think so too

Originally posted by: NavyaKavya30

I rewatched the scene of signing contract papers . When Murtsaum says one day u will yourself tear these papers so Meerab says woh din meri azadi ka din hoga ….it think it would mean her azadi from not liking Murtsaum and accepting her feelings for him,

And Murtsaum’s words ki US raat ko tum bahut roaogi, corresponding to the same thing , I think

I think she meant her azadi from their marriage. 💔

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

I think she meant her azadi from their marriage. 💔

Originally posted by: TR_19

Nobody absolutely nobody is taking away mariyam fault from here.

But meerub made it into her maksaat because of her ego against khan family and murtasim. If mariyam say jump off from the cliff would she. Just leave everything in one side for minute everything no mariyam no malik jr no haya no meerub...shouldn't she at least speak up on that moment yes murtasim I helped her so on but she kept quite in the promo.

Yes lets see k wo murtasim ko batati hai ya nahi abhi to sirf promo aya hai na...

Ok let me explain the situation jo mujhe somehow apnay life s related lagti yehn...

I lived in joint family meri khala meri chachi bhi thein n i m older then her kids ... To everyone and everything hamesha mujhe pahle milti the i was extra pampered child... I some how related to that dialogue of meerub jahan merub hoti hai wahi chamkiti hai that was the case in every manner with me also... So my khala n her kids got jaloused n they start doing things to the lowest level .. then they separated from us moved to other khala house on rent.. i was bit concerned for other khala daughter bcz i didn't want k jo mere sath unhn n kia us ka 0 percent bhi kisi k sath ho so kb bhi wo kuch bhi kartay to mn samnay a jati the to defend her bt in that i didn't see that she is also selfish and using me for her own benefits... just bcz i was trap in the phrase that jo mere sath hua hai kisi k sath na ho ... I didn't see her evil side ... So here the same case with meerub ... Its not like ego its like concerned in which she failed to see the other side .. and about maqsad wo to i think murtasim ko wo tussle mn bol rahi the..