• GHKPM Frustration Thread • DT NOTE P.49, P.83- P.92 - Page 73

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Ma'am I was mainly talking about how she behaved with Satya in his cabin and when she smiled of Satya's flirt instead of getting hesitated or annoyed, when he came so close to her in canteen that's it according to me these two were much more than flirt with hidden feelings ,when you are not restricting to the behaviour that you generally act like and if you saying of regular accusing I agree with this that Virat is having as big jealousy factor but I can also understand his end everytime....when you say he doubted her with friends what I felt wrong about is that why you should not know your boundaries specially when you don't even consider him as your husband I mean boundaries here as respecting sentiments of your partner, family and society....which she never did in being adult child and it resulted in big problems....

And if you like constant tendency of accusing of having affair is not right because Sai also accused him in Mahabaleshwar and in Shruti track without any evidence or any resource to rely on from his side.....on the other side when Virat did all this, situation was so different and accomodated by a series of conflicted events whether you consider Ajinkya, Jagtap and Satya now, in all of this a strong background made him do that.....Virat really trust Sai, you can see it in a way that when he ever gets heard of Sai's character assassination by others like kaku, Vitthal, Gulab rao, some of his family members, Pakhi he always gets offended and defends her but after a time his jealousy crosses lines and he starts bursting out unbelonging words to her....

And I don't think he was right to directly say that but Sai was wrong first as I have said that she didn't even hesitate in all that she could have dealt it in another way possible nothing was emergent there but she acted the way she wasn't and didn't even think of drawing the lines there it was definitely care as friend but at the some time crossing lines......I am also the guy who believes in opposite gender having good friendship ,but with specific limitations, as everyone is aware about that and it shows the difference between relationship and friendship between opposites you should prioritise stepping back instead of spontaneity in this when it is anything about herself/himself and specially the ones related to him/her and this is what Sai forgot and didn't even think once I am also in college I have some girls in our group we don't even shake hands with girls if they aren't comfortable so let aside this of blowing dust off a girl's eye if it's not that serious....you viewed it so fair in positivity that you ignored it's negative end just because your intentions weren't wrong doesn't mean you were right and others will see it in your way, that's why I felt Sai wrong there as compared to Virat....I was saying the flirt not here but in above two situations and openly in hospital friendship is totally a different element a pure term but Sai was much more than that as she also got stucked in the eyes of Satya during their catch and fall scene so after all this she is not allowed to insult Virat on his proclamations...

And definitely as you said Love is not enough you should have trust and respect both should know this not only Virat..... because as far as I can see he is with the thought that if Sai wanted to marry someone else why didn't she in all these years he just said all that in anger after getting insulted that's it he believes in Sai from his depth of heart there is no doubt in this....

I didn't say you narrow minded infact I commented on your message of Virat as narrow minded I think I have clarified it I don't want to discuss further but other side also exists this is what I wanted to say Thank you....

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They share that rapport where they are comfortable to intrude in each other’s personal space and that happened because they both gave that authority to each other.

Why Sai didn’t marry someone else is completely her choice.She is an independent individual, who doesn’t have any accountability and isn’t answerable to Virat for her life’s decisions.

Respect is a two way street.

Being called a orphan time and again by Virat’s family members, Virat saying that she is just his responsibility and thus he doesn’t bother about what she does or doesn’t, I don’t think she received enough respect to give it back.

Now coming to Virat, jealousy is such a big factor for him that he says unbelonging words to her.

Is it because he feels Sai deserves better or is it because he thinks he owns Sai?

Is he suffering from inferiority complex?

@Nja91 respect to your thoughts but what I feel wrong about is that you said Sai didn't assume anything....then it's a big no she broke the phone of her IPS husband just because Virat from the last two time in front of her eye going after Shruti's call saying something urgent and can't inform you about the same and she abused Shruti and Virat on his character and even said that why are you behind my husband and accused Virat of what actually was going on between them that he goes for the whole night to her she didn't ask she blamed without any guilt further infact whatever you said further like she continued asking for the reason, but Virat hide all that for a big reason first for Shruti's Identity should not get revealed as she was terrorist's wife as Saahas' delivery was important and other her association with any of his family members specially Sai because whatever would have happened to Virat he would have taken it on himself but if Sai's career education would have got ruined because of his promise to his died friend then definitely it would have been wrong....Sai didn't support Virat when he needed her the most from very initial stages I am not saying fully but definitely just because his name is registered as husband in hospital then continually in birth certificate doesn't mean you lose trust on him when he is saying you pls trust me this is not what actually the right phase is, no one says she was totally wrong there but has a major slice of mistakes from her end as she served as origin.....

And for all other things I can message but there is no meaning in that because I know that Sai's decision of not informing Virat about being alive and being pregnant is the root cause of all the mess so I will go with this.....

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Ashane ji no one reads such long essays on this forum. All the members, including myself, are afflicted with short attention span who come here to get some respite from the drudgeries of life and regale themselves in the company of others.

So, I would just like to suggest don’t take either the show or the nonsense spouted by fd seriously. There is no point in incurring stress over nonsensical itv shows which are devoid of any logic.

You are absolutely right I will not go further with this, just with my buddies are enjoying my thoughts ....thank you ❤️ and you are right it's too much from....

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

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They share that rapport where they are comfortable to intrude in each other’s personal space and that happened because they both gave that authority to each other.

Why Sai didn’t marry someone else is completely her choice.She is an independent individual, who doesn’t have any accountability and isn’t answerable to Virat for her life’s decisions.

Respect is a two way street.

Being called a orphan time and again by Virat’s family members, Virat saying that she is just his responsibility and thus he doesn’t bother about what she does or doesn’t, I don’t think she received enough respect to give it back.

Now coming to Virat, jealousy is such a big factor for him that he says unbelonging words to her.

Is it because he feels Sai deserves better or is it because he thinks he owns Sai?

Is he suffering from inferiority complex?

Just chill ma'am I am awaying myself from all this , this is just a show and you can't deny this that ITV glorifies FL and every dimension of portrayal start and end with her so there is no meaning in discussing further and I knew that it will come to the point that I wasn't discussing that Sai is single ,her decisions made her single nor Virat's own will divorce from her and there is answer to everything you said as you connected and answered every point in a very boxed way but we are not here to challenge the FD makers want you to like Sai like her or support her or least understand her whatever I just wanted from your side to understand what I was saying and instead of replying with the continual contrasts have the conclusion and see his end also which is badly hidden. But okay if it ends up here so there is no meaning......pls don't reply I think you would have got what I said and I end up here as this is just a show but my front was to understand practicality that's it bye take care.....

Everyone sees things differently.

So it’s better to agree to disagree.

ITV at times glorifies FL true.

when the justification is that a woman is supposed to tolerate her husband going behind her back,not answering her questions, making her feel neglected, lying and cheating- then what can one say. If she should still have trust on him despite him refusing to answer her 100% valid questions and seeing him as someone else's husband and father on official records, then I'm glad Sai is not stupid enough to do such things. And I am glad that she has finally had enough of his BS and decided to move on with another man- no matter what the circumstances. Love isnt important, respect, understanding and trust is. V is an abusive man. Period. Its deeply saddening and frustrating that makers and many people do not understand what even constitutes abuse.

Sai has always only reacted to Vs misbehaviors, or BS in the way any normal person would. But shes been more kind, generous to V and CN than any person in her position.

The whole Shruti kaand was unnecessary if V as an IPS had placed duty to nation above everything. Shruti was not innocent. she was a naxalite herself. Instead of going overboard trying to protect a naxalite, if he had been honest nothing would have happened. If he cant take his wife into confidence before doing some crap, then thats not Sai's fault. Despite Sai having no fault she made sure his name would be cleared and she was large hearted enough to run behind him to manao him and what did he do- abandon her when she had miscarriage, take away her reproductive rights and make P illegal surrogate, snatch Vinu, support criminal P over Sai, barely searched for her when Sai was in accident (as opposed to P for whom he acted like a maniac) and easily assumed her dead, married the very criminal because of whom Sai left and flaunted it in front of Sai- called Sai teesri, hid Vinus truth, called P yashoda/devki , mahaan and now he thinks he can force her to reconcile with him just because he wants it. Sai is NOT his slave. She does not want to be with him. how hard is it to get that?! she may not love another man again but that doesnt mean she needs to be with V in a toxic relationship. she wants to coparent the kids. but she doesnt want to be with V. Plain and simple.

If people think self respect is ego, and abuse is love, then god help them.

SaiYa becomes Chaiya for SaiRat fans...

SaiRat becomes ChaiRat for SaiYa fans...

Meanwhile, Sai be like mere aaba ke diye naam ko kyu toda...

And my favourite chai DDP...koi nahi samajhta use... Chuskiya lo, khush raho...kya use bhi is shipping game me phasa liya...

Satya is clearly established as a morally upright guy who is educated, sensitive and righteous. Yet apparently Savi should not stay with a "step father" Satya so why should she stay with a "step mother" P in CN?!

Satya family is shown currently doing masala business. lavani was their profession, not anymore. and even when it was- they were dancers- there is nothing shameful about that. But I'm reading the most distasteful comments on lavani dancers as a whole insinuating that they are all in the business of flesh trade, or sex for money which is the most crass thing to say. kaisi soch hai yeh?!

Originally posted by: Nja91

Satya is clearly established as a morally upright guy who is educated, sensitive and righteous. Yet apparently Savi should not stay with a "step father" Satya so why should she stay with a "step mother" P in CN?!

And I'm reading the most distasteful comments on lavani dancers as a whole insinuating that they are all in the business of flesh trade, or sex for money which is the most crass thing to say. kaisi soch hai yeh?!

None of which is morally apprehensible btw. Like these people have no problem with the caste hierarchies and patriarchal status quo or their male patrons which exploit these women but will crucify women just for surviving.

But what can you expect from people who think that a woman who attempted to honour kill her own flesh and blood, and a power-abusing, corrupt, domestic abuser are morally redeemable

Absolutely 100%right. It's not only on drama it's door of awareness and biuld astrong person to take a decision, first thing and if you are seeking entertainment this has nothing except frustration and annoyance