TERE BIN THREAD- EPISODES DISCUSSION ONLY - Page 36

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I didn’t realize that there was an exclusive discussion thread. Copying and posting this from the other thread.

I think Murtasim is most hurt by Meerab not saying anything and standing up for him against Rohail. Murtasim might make mistakes but he stands up for Meerab time and time again against his entire family including Haya. He even did it after they got back to Meerab’s parents’ house when he said that she was at Saba’s. He also constantly tells her how much she means to him and Meerab doesn’t reciprocate. I understand why and it’s obvious that Murtasim understands as well that whatever was done to Meerab is unfair and that’s why he’s been so patient. Nonetheless, I’m sure this makes him insecure in this relationship. When Murtasim screws up, he follows up by telling Meerab that she’s the most important person to him and that he loves etc. He’s probably not going to get that from Meerab so again he’s bound to feel insecure. I think if she spoke up said something when Rohail was speaking whatever nonsense that he was then it would be a different situation. I think he found that disloyal and considering how insecure he already feels in this relationship, it’s going to take time for him trust her.

And I don’t think she was as forced into Rohail’s car as much as she’s claiming, lol. When she got in, I wasn’t even thinking about her being a married woman, I just kept thinking of how unsafe it was. He’s declared his love for her previously and is being obsessive and demanding…why would she get in his car? She’s always resisted Murtasim more. The only reason I can come up with is that she is drawn to him (not romantically) because he is connected with her pre-marriage life. I also noticed that she didn’t resist Rohail touching her as much as she does with Murtasim at times which kind of bothered me. But I think Murtasim’s touch might fluster her because she feels something and that’s why she resists sometimes. I don’t think she feels anything for Rohail so maybe that’s why she didn’t shrug him off at first. Overall though she put herself in a very dangerous situation.

Well articulated post explaining why meerub appear wrong in otherwise normal situation👏

Why this thread is not moving??

Murtasim does feel hurt that Meerab did not stand up for him but he IS also doubting her or at least did for a few moments.

He told her “uske ghar mein uski mohabbat aur mere ghar mein meri biwi.” He essentially told her you are his lover while you are also my wife.

The “kirdar banao” dialogue is being white-washed. It was phrased that way by the writer or director just to reduce the blow and white-wash Murtasim but he did question her character. Meerab gets it and therefore, directly defended her kirdar. What does ‘kirdar banao’ even mean. Never heard it used that way.

Meerab only screwed up by not defending Murtasim. Going to a friend’s house is not problematic. If a good or close male friend of mine suddenly expressed interest, it would be unnatural to just cut him off just because I’m married. Remember that Rohail was such a good friend that he even felt the right to arrange a birthday party for her. Her going with him was not inexcusable even if he blocked her car on the road. She hasn’t seen psycho Rohail yet. Murtasim is, in fact, more psycho than Rohail what with his anger issues. I found it weird that he went looking for Meerab to Saba’s house just because she didn’t answer calls or was gone for a few hours. This is stifling.

Furthermore, Murtasim’s randomly placed threats are such a turn off. He suddenly gets serious and threatens her with andar ka janwar, qayamat kar dunga, and yesterday his “don’t do anything that should make you fear me” threat.

I really don’t get the above. Does he do this to scare her for the fun of it? Does he really mean it? Was the writer just adding a bit of oomph to his dialogues so it tickles our angry, young, hot man fantasy??

Ultimately, the writer gave us a great vision and allowed for the creation of such powerful chemistry (so huge credit to her because the mass hysteria and obsession this show had created) but she really fell short in creating better, consistent characters and meaningful situations.

I’m happy watching Murtasim on screen. I couldn’t live with a Murtasim.

if I were Meerab, I too would delay initiating a relationship. What’s in store for MMs daughters? No professional degrees, early marriages and not being allowed to go out?

Murtasim has to trust Meerab, let her have her space and discard his archaic values, encourage her studies before city-girl Meerab can trust him enough to move further with him. In reality Meerab’s decision to move on with him will affect her life and that of any humans that she brings into the world. When we choose life partners we are also frequently choosing the parents of our progeny. I really feel her more than I feel Murtasim.

Part 2 (Mr and Mrs Khan at Sasta Salman Place)

Meerab did not consent to be touched by sticky notes, she asked him multiple times to let go, brushed off his touches and forcefully freed herself as she left with her husband. 2 milestones achieved: Meerab called Murtasim 'shohar' twice in this episode and she give him haq over her hurrrraaayyyyyy huzzzzzaaaaaaahhhh. NaMard topic was addressed, it was shot down by Meerab it is over guys.

Meerab says she can't leave Murtasim without a legitimate reason, ahhhhhhh this is her pride talking. For Meerab who is a social justice warrior to accept she is happy in this marriage is shameful, what does that mean is she a victim of Stockholm syndrome or worst injustice wins. To her friends who admire the old Meerab she is a beacon of virtue who fights against wrongdoings, how can she admit to them she conceded defeat. Will they not judge her for being a hypocrite and think she is just like every other foolish girl who just wants to marry a rich guy and forget their values in exchange for a comfortable life. So she hides her sincerity behind another bigger truth that she has nowhere else to go if she left him. If she remains a victim then she is fighting the system, if she gives in she is part of the system. But here is the kicker has she given into the system or given into Murtasim, ofcourse it is Murtasim only she has accepted but unfortunately for her the system and the man are one and the same.

Sasta Salman rattled Meerab's cage twice, when he talks about her lost freedom and when he talks about Murtasim's love for her not being earnest. Her freedom she is subconsciously surrendering as she falls in love with her husband, but his love of her being fake is her biggest fear. Through his perception of her and with his love she is rebuilding her identity, but what if this foundation isn't genuine she will just fall apart all over again. So why do you think Meerab still has trouble believing that Murtasim loves her fervently? I will address this in detail in part 3 of the Review.

Murtasim at the door ding dong. Where does his eyes go first, is the biwi safe yes she is, then he barges inside. His expressions are full on disbelief, then hurt, then indignation as he hears sticky notes bakwaas and when Murtasim heard the word Mohabath he snaps. Her silence is why he is truly enraged and it will be addressed in detail in part 3 of the Review. Meerab doesn't have to physically restrain him, progress from the Bday incident, now her words alone are powerful enough to halt him. Meerab lets Murtasim get in a few punches before asking him to stop savvy girl. Murtasim is the punisher to Meerab's justice and Sasta Salman deserved a mash up for touching her without her consent, holding her against her will and for insulting her husband.

If 'Meerab sirf meri hai' is a question then the answer is 'Qayamat tak meri biwi hi rahegi'. Before he made the former statement Meerub had the upper hand in this relationship she called the shots, engagement, wedding, contract, bed arrangements, even what he ate, she had authority over him. Before that statement he even allowed her to leave him, but after that statement for Murtasim it became 'Kabhin Nahin'. To marry Murtasim or not was in Meerab's control, but she does not have the power to leave him. This point will prove very interesting when the separation track comes, who leaves whom.

Meerab said twice in this episode she is not scared of Murtasim and she meant it. She wouldn't be his true equal if she dreaded him. His own words yes he is capable of murder so Meerab is afraid for him, just like he is her shield she is his. When MK says fear me dear wife he is just blowing hot air, he knows she knows we knows he can never hurt her (MIND BLOCK SLAP). Sasta Salman grabs Meerab arm, MK looks down he is having Bday flashbacks, third time is a death sentence and this time he will settle this score. Murtasim pulls out his loaded gun, this time words alone are not enough and biwi calms him down with her touch. If you still believe she is intimidated by him, then wait till they are outside the house, her nakhras are back and he can't do shit lolzzzz. Meerab walks ahead of him, wife sits coolly in the passenger seat, and KMK is demoted to Meerab's Murtasim. What was that car ride like????

When they are in husband wife mode, he never drags her by force because he doesn't have to. He likes it when she is ahead of him so he can have his eyes on her and be her protector in chief, when she is behind him it makes him nervous. If she lagging, he takes a look back like at the fake pregnancy family dinner. When they were leaving for Karachi he walked ahead of her and she didn't follow directly. He waits for her to get ahead and knows right away her father said something that disturbed her mood, then he comforts her gently to sit in the car. Just like after the gol gappe date he is always tracking her making sure she is OK. He never lets her stew in a sour mood, he is always there to pick her up.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Part 2 (Mr and Mrs Khan at Sasta Salman Place)

Meerab did not consent to be touched by sticky notes, she asked him multiple times to let go, brushed off his touches and forcefully freed herself as she left with her husband. 2 milestones achieved: Meerab called Murtasim 'shohar' twice in this episode and she give him haq over her hurrrraaayyyyyy huzzzzzaaaaaaahhhh. NaMard topic was addressed, it was shot down by Meerab it is over guys.

Meerab says she can't leave Murtasim without a legitimate reason, ahhhhhhh this is her pride talking. For Meerab who is a social justice warrior to accept she is happy in this marriage is shameful, what does that mean is she a victim of Stockholm syndrome or worst injustice wins. To her friends who admire the old Meerab she is a beacon of virtue who fights against wrongdoings, how can she admit to them she conceded defeat. Will they not judge her for being a hypocrite and think she is just like every other foolish girl who just wants to marry a rich guy and forget their values in exchange for a comfortable life. So she hides her sincerity behind another bigger truth that she has nowhere else to go if she left him. If she remains a victim then she is fighting the system, if she gives in she is part of the system. But here is the kicker has she given into the system or given into Murtasim, ofcourse it is Murtasim only she has accepted but unfortunately for her the system and the man are one and the same.

Sasta Salman rattled Meerab's cage twice, when he talks about her lost freedom and when he talks about Murtasim's love for her not being earnest. Her freedom she is subconsciously surrendering as she falls in love with her husband, but his love of her being fake is her biggest fear. Through his perception of her and with his love she is rebuilding her identity, but what if this foundation isn't genuine she will just fall apart all over again. So why do you think Meerab still has trouble believing that Murtasim loves her fervently? I will address this in detail in part 3 of the Review.

Murtasim at the door ding dong. Where does his eyes go first, is the biwi safe yes she is, then he barges inside. His expressions are full on disbelief, then hurt, then indignation as he hears sticky notes bakwaas and when Murtasim heard the word Mohabath he snaps. Her silence is why he is truly enraged and it will be addressed in detail in part 3 of the Review. Meerab doesn't have to physically restrain him, progress from the Bday incident, now her words alone are powerful enough to halt him. Meerab lets Murtasim get in a few punches before asking him to stop savvy girl. Murtasim is the punisher to Meerab's justice and Sasta Salman deserved a mash up for touching her without her consent, holding her against her will and for insulting her husband.

If 'Meerab sirf meri hai' is a question then the answer is 'Qayamat tak meri biwi hi rahegi'. Before he made the former statement Meerub had the upper hand in this relationship she called the shots, engagement, wedding, contract, bed arrangements, even what he ate, she had authority over him. Before that statement he even allowed her to leave him, but after that statement for Murtasim it became 'Kabhin Nahin'. To marry Murtasim or not was in Meerab's control, but she does not have the power to leave him. This point will prove very interesting when the separation track comes, who leaves whom.

Meerab said twice in this episode she is not scared of Murtasim and she meant it. She wouldn't be his true equal if she dreaded him. His own words yes he is capable of murder so Meerab is afraid for him, just like he is her shield she is his. When MK says fear me dear wife he is just blowing hot air, he knows she knows we knows he can never hurt her (MIND BLOCK SLAP). Sasta Salman grabs Meerab arm, MK looks down he is having Bday flashbacks, third time is a death sentence and this time he will settle this score. Murtasim pulls out his loaded gun, this time words alone are not enough and biwi calms him down with her touch. If you still believe she is intimidated by him, then wait till they are outside the house, her nakhras are back and he can't do shit lolzzzz. Meerab walks ahead of him, wife sits coolly in the passenger seat, and KMK is demoted to Meerab's Murtasim. What was that car ride like????

When they are in husband wife mode, he never drags her by force because he doesn't have to. He likes it when she is ahead of him so he can have his eyes on her and be her protector in chief, when she is behind him it makes him nervous. If she lagging, he takes a look back like at the fake pregnancy family dinner. When they were leaving for Karachi he walked ahead of her and she didn't follow directly. He waits for her to get ahead and knows right away her father said something that disturbed her mood, then he comforts her gently to sit in the car. Just like after the gol gappe date he is always tracking her making sure she is OK. He never lets her stew in a sour mood, he is always there to pick her up.

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Originally posted by: Heeba

You know how much i LOVE reading your analysis. I can read them all day long ❤️

Agree with everything you mentioned ❤️

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

Part 3 is coming it is more complicated to write as I have to justify them both

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It is like gymnastics keep the balance

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Part 3 is coming it is more complicated to write as I have to justify them both

Thanks for your support

It is like gymnastics keep the balance

Miss nooran is peacefully sleeping while all of us lost our sleep trying to justify for her characters 😂

Originally posted by: Heeba

I really liked yesterday’s episode. I watched it again and i knw some are bashing meerab for going with rohail and others are bashing murtasim for that qirdar comment.

MY THOUGHTS

I liked how the episode started with meerab entering her house.. you felt for her, just a couple of weeks ago she was begging them to oped the door.

I liked how she slowly walked into her room, and how sad and hurt she was not to find her belongings..

The mother daughter convo was good.. i understand putting them in the store room to help the father over come the sadness.. but your daughter was coming home for the first time.. i think they could brought back from the store room?

Meerab did not willing go to rohail’s place. Maybe this wasnt properly executed but she did not intend nor did she plan to meet him. She was happily calling saba. We clearly see how happy she was when she called saba.

Here comes Rohail, she knws him and so she doesnt want to create another drama/embarrassment as you mentioned. Because calling the cops will only look bad on her at the end and everyone will get to know.. she tried to handle the situation..

She wasnt exactly being kidnapped but she showed the hesitancy. Rohail was being demanding.. up until now, for meerab he is only a friend.. she doesnt know the whole obsession part.

When rohail takes her phone, you see that she is not confortable.. we also see that when he brings her to his place.. she doesnt want to go in.. he manipulates her by saying you dont have to be scared of me.. she still doesnt knw all his obsession..

Once in, she sees the WB and she is shocked.. she doesnt understand.. she tried to leave, even says her husband must be looking for her and all.. the only line i didnt like here was “how will i come out of this situation” she says something like that.. which felt out of contexte for me at least.. because a minute ago she said her relation with murtasim was getting stronger and stronger..

she defends the namard part as well.. she doesnt think of accusing him of something like this..

she tries to leave multiple times..

I hate this phone issue, when murtasim calles is switched off but when saba calls it rings.. the writing is bad here.. NO LOGIC

Anyways, coming to murtasim, he is scared of losing his wife.. the moment be doesnt knw where she is.. he doesnt doubt her.. but he knws she is capable of leaving him.

I liked the whole saba telephone and murtasim part.. no words, all you see is fury in his eyes!! (Damn wahaj looks good angry)

Murtasim comes in, sees his wife in another man’s flat. Meerab knws that she messed up somehow and this doesnt look good and deep down she is also scared.. Does he doubt her, i dont think so.. if Murtasim ever doubted that, at least for me, i feel he would have left her then and there…

he doesnt say anything and looks at her hurt and disappointed.. not angry.. but all hell gets loose when rohail starts with his mohabbat and all..

I wanted more blood but when did they give us what we want..

I liked how even in anger, it was only meerab who could stop him.. and he stops at her demand both times, during the punches and gun.

Little things i noticed here was even when murtasim dragged meerab out, his signature move, he made sure to grab her upper hand and not wrist.. (hayee the care ❤️😂)

They come out, meerab lets go and willing goes in. This can be interpreted in many ways but i like to see the positive side.. he doesnt have to force her to get in like rohail did, she goes in with her will..

coming to the parents house, murtasim being murtasim saves her the embrassement.. the father is a lawyer so he catches the lie..

The room convo was very well done.. but i had to play it so many times to understand murtasim’s lines..

She tries to explain, he doesnt want to listen and he says it out loud i cant get that image out of my head.. he says apna kirdar banoe.. this does not mean you are characterless….its was more like take a stand, grow a bone.. you basically let another man express his feelings in front of your husband..

From what i understood is what hurt him most was her not saying anything when rohail was expressing his love.. she kept silent and let rohail continue..

Finding your wife in someone else house, is an insult for him. Its his pride, ego, everything.. and i like what the father said.. for a man like murtasim to stay quiet after all this, THIS MEANS THAT MEERAB MEANS MORE THAN ANYTHING TO HIM. And i hope she understands that!

The end scene when murtasim is crying.. i have no words. IT WAS BEAUTIFULLY PAINFUL. I LOVED IT.

Omg i think this is the longest post ever..

I agree 😯🤔

I had to recheck the un to make sure it was you 🧐😁😁😁

But beautifully articulated 👏👏👏👏👏👏

Guys, aise hi post dete raho

loved reading all of them🤗

Ps I am still waiting for Murtu in love part2😒