Can they stoop lower than this? Slapping a depressed person? - Page 3

Aisha, I'm sorry for what you've been through 🤗

The way Anuj's emotions have been trivialised is horrible to see. At no point has anyone tried to understand what he's feeling. Everyone is judging him based on what they feel is right or wrong in their own narrow view. But, how do you even begin to quantify another's grief. That so much in enough, no more. Who is anyone to belittle another's depth of feeling. Just because you don't have it in you to feel deeply, what right do you have to dismiss someone else's feelings.

But I guess if sympathy doesn't get a look in, there's no way empathy stands a chance.

Originally posted by: Arshi67

Aisha, I'm sorry for what you've been through 🤗

The way Anuj's emotions have been trivialised is horrible to see. At no point has anyone tried to understand what he's feeling. Everyone is judging him based on what they feel is right or wrong in their own narrow view. But, how do you even begin to quantify another's grief. That so much in enough, no more. Who is anyone to belittle another's depth of feeling. Just because you don't have it in you to feel deeply, what right do you have to dismiss someone else's feelings.

But I guess if sympathy doesn't get a look in, there's no way empathy stands a chance.

Anuj, Maa nahin hain ne?

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Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

that u have hope they wil focus on business/losses is a red flag🤪

the only reason bhabhi had the dialogue to show herself as gold digger. they dont remember anuj's property, it will be led by other men and wont be surprised if vanraj even steps in due to some stupid rules. the entire focus is on emotional atyachar.

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Imagine if someone would have slapped Anupamaa like this what would be the reactions then ?

Devika is a Devil. Anuj should leave the house and file divorce immediately. Devi ji is such a insensitive hypocrite self obsessed woman. She is basically unpor, gawar and her upbringing in shha house with some vindictive people. No brain and it's all about her ....her happiness...her bacche...... bla bla. Dhiraj son of a biotch .... how come he is Anuj friend ...he looks like Anuj father. LOL.

Originally posted by: Deb07

Devika is a Devil. Anuj should leave the house and file divorce immediately. Devi ji is such a insensitive hypocrite self obsessed woman. She is basically unpor, gawar and her upbringing in shha house with some vindictive people. No brain and it's all about her ....her happiness...her bacche...... bla bla. Dhiraj son of a biotch .... how come he is Anuj friend ...he looks like Anuj father. LOL.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Today's episode shook me. It brought back some memories which I buried deep down.

Dheeraj needs to stay behind bars for the rest of his life for slapping a depressed man. It was a new low. Imagine, Anuj, slapping Toshu for not being able to walk on his feet. Would it go down well with any section of the viewers? Mental trauma and physical trauma are equally challenging. Just as slapping does not fix a physical injury, it does not heal an emotional wound.

And, the worst dialogue, "Itni Si Baat Ke Liye Tu Bhabi Ko Chod Kar Chala Jayega?" I loved how violent Anuj became after this. "It's a damn big thing for me."

When I went numb after my miscarriage, my near-ones told me, "Who grieves like this for a 10-week-old unborn baby? It does not even have hands and legs", I was shocked, disgusted, and broken. Losing a child (biological/foster) at any age is one of the biggest losses. It's a wound that even time can't heal. Bereaved parents require empathy, not criticism. I cried for Anuj today. Marrying a divorcee with kids, respecting her, and supporting her are not heinous crimes that he deserves such a harsh punishment. Just because he accepted MAA with her baggage, he is not bound to throw away his child to make space for MAA's never ending baggage.

Originally posted by: strancho

Real poison would be better than staying with that human poison

The worse thing is people who don’t have any idea what someone is going through says - “ye choti si baat, sab thk ho jayega”. Nothing can console a person who is at war with themselves rather it creates resentment towards them even more
I seriously don’t know how do people even wish for them to get back together. How would they get back together from this?

Added later: today also that woman is more concerned about whether he loves her or not 🤦🏽‍♀️😒😒😒orat mahaan hai aap

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Today's episode shook me. It brought back some memories which I buried deep down.

Dheeraj needs to stay behind bars for the rest of his life for slapping a depressed man. It was a new low. Imagine, Anuj, slapping Toshu for not being able to walk on his feet. Would it go down well with any section of the viewers? Mental trauma and physical trauma are equally challenging. Just as slapping does not fix a physical injury, it does not heal an emotional wound.

And, the worst dialogue, "Itni Si Baat Ke Liye Tu Bhabi Ko Chod Kar Chala Jayega?" I loved how violent Anuj became after this. "It's a damn big thing for me."

When I went numb after my miscarriage, my near-ones told me, "Who grieves like this for a 10-week-old unborn baby? It does not even have hands and legs", I was shocked, disgusted, and broken. Losing a child (biological/foster) at any age is one of the biggest losses. It's a wound that even time can't heal. Bereaved parents require empathy, not criticism. I cried for Anuj today. Marrying a divorcee with kids, respecting her, and supporting her are not heinous crimes that he deserves such a harsh punishment. Just because he accepted MAA with her baggage, he is not bound to throw away his child to make space for MAA's never ending baggage.

OMG ...did some idiots actually tell you that you can't grieve for an unborn baby??😡.....Miscarriage is both mental and physical trauma.....your body is already changing for the child birth and when it is eneded abruptly...the body still takes its time to be back to normal...you still have all your hormones for sometime....and I don't even have to explain the mental trauma.....like some heartless person would tell u not to grieve...🤔

The problem is you can see the physical handicap....but not the mental handicap.....and ruthless people just say its nothing because they can't see it...

If I was Anupama ....I would have beaten the shit out of Dheeraj..🤢