Can they stoop lower than this? Slapping a depressed person?

Today's episode shook me. It brought back some memories which I buried deep down.

Dheeraj needs to stay behind bars for the rest of his life for slapping a depressed man. It was a new low. Imagine, Anuj, slapping Toshu for not being able to walk on his feet. Would it go down well with any section of the viewers? Mental trauma and physical trauma are equally challenging. Just as slapping does not fix a physical injury, it does not heal an emotional wound.

And, the worst dialogue, "Itni Si Baat Ke Liye Tu Bhabi Ko Chod Kar Chala Jayega?" I loved how violent Anuj became after this. "It's a damn big thing for me."

When I went numb after my miscarriage, my near-ones told me, "Who grieves like this for a 10-week-old unborn baby? It does not even have hands and legs", I was shocked, disgusted, and broken. Losing a child (biological/foster) at any age is one of the biggest losses. It's a wound that even time can't heal. Bereaved parents require empathy, not criticism. I cried for Anuj today. Marrying a divorcee with kids, respecting her, and supporting her are not heinous crimes that he deserves such a harsh punishment. Just because he accepted MAA with her baggage, he is not bound to throw away his child to make space for MAA's never ending baggage.

It's truly pathetic how the spicebox and her filthy phemli/friends have always used a range of violence and abuse against Anuj. And now they are doing it when he's at his lowest

Trash has held his collar on more than one occasion to threaten him and even tried to kill him. Today, Dhiraj assaulted him.

Mawaali Jhuli's verbal abuse in the past and now Devika Shahs shouting and screaming

Dhongi Dukhmukh's manipulation and masala danis emotional blackmail at every given instance

Doshu and Makkhi constantly taking advantage of his wealth for their nefarious purposes and claiming relation with him at their convenience

It seems that Anuj is the stereotypical tortured bahu of this show. What kind of friends behave like this with someone who's clearly affected and not thinking rationally for the moment. Sick 🤢

Shock is used as a means to bring a person out of daze or actually who has gone into a trance or getting violent in a subconscious not one in full consciousness.

Just because he is not listening to anyone or because someone said "Woh hosh me nahin hain" or "Aap pagal hain kya" doesn't mean it, right?

But seriously what kind of friendship is this?

Real poison would be better than staying with that human poison

The worse thing is people who don’t have any idea what someone is going through says - “ye choti si baat, sab thk ho jayega”. Nothing can console a person who is at war with themselves rather it creates resentment towards them even more
I seriously don’t know how do people even wish for them to get back together. How would they get back together from this?

Added later: today also that woman is more concerned about whether he loves her or not 🤦🏽‍♀️😒😒😒orat mahaan hai aap

Aisha🤗So sorry you had to go through all that... Those questions... 'Uh you didn't see it, after all it's nothing... you didn't hold to feel it... You can always have another... why not try one more soon, you'll forget it soon...' The truth is you will never be able to forget... Yes you will move on, try to be happier, with time it hurts less too but to completely forget the pain is impossible... People invalidating the pain and saying it's nothing instead of supporting or understanding hurts more than the actual pain itself... It's bad enough to go through the pain that these people just want to worsen it by not giving us the right to grieve... I totally understand Anuj's pain here... Poor man... His urge to run away is totally relatable..

Originally posted by: strancho

Real poison would be better than staying with that human poison

The worse thing is people who don’t have any idea what someone is going through says - “ye choti si baat, sab thk ho jayega”. Nothing can console a person who is at war with themselves rather it creates resentment towards them even more
I seriously don’t know how do people even wish for them to get back together. How would they get back together from this?

Added later: today also that woman is more concerned about whether he loves her or not 🤦🏽‍♀️😒😒😒orat mahaan hai aap

It's all about her nowadays... To love her, he has to live... Why isn't she bothered about it? Why hasn't she talked to a doctor/counselor yet?

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

It's all about her nowadays... To love her, he has to live... Why isn't she bothered about it? Why hasn't she talked to a doctor/counselor yet?

First she wants to confirm that the man loves her or not 🤬🤬

The whole scene was disturbing, everyone blocking his way pulling him pushing him shouting at him, complete chaos, fish market situation and top of that slapping him so that he listens to their lecture and stops, and this has been happening ever since CA left, earlier Anupama and now an entire army, they don’t even give him breathing space

Why has no one ever slapped Anupama in this show, she deserves two tight slaps for her obsession with Shahs and calling them her family, and to top it all her Maika accusing Anuj of doing wrong with Anupama, these people who have never done a single right thing in their entire life are the first ones to point finger at Anuj, they forgot all favours he has done on them

Atleast Dheeraj could have supported him, he lost his wife and was living under guilt, he could have understood Anuj’s depressed state of mind but everyone has been turned into a blind Anupama worshiper

That was cringe. Invalidating anyone's pain is wrong. Imagine if Anuj had said to Dheeraj your wife left what is the big deal. You will get another one ?

Anupamaa is one woman army of always needing assurances for herself. What was the do you love me 🤪? Nothing about her love and how they can try more to get Choti Anu and build 😔

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

The whole scene was disturbing, everyone blocking his way pulling him pushing him shouting at him, complete chaos, fish market situation and top of that slapping him so that he listens to their lecture and stops, and this has been happening ever since CA left, earlier Anupama and now an entire army, they don’t even give him breathing space

K house got converted into Tamashah shanty courtesy the rotten spicebox. The consequences of marrying the wrong person are staring Mr. Kapadia right in his face