Originally posted by: aimmyangle
Exactly... Actually yesterday i was discussing that point with mama lols she was giving me lecture about marriage that a girl need ro sacrifice and tolerate everyone behaviour etc . So i point out ise bara r kia sacrifice hoga k wo apna sb kuch ek admi k liye chor deti ... After that yeh husband r in laws ki duty hoti k wo use comfortable karain... Yeh to society ka alag hi mamla hai k bs sb kuch orta kare maa bap bhi choray r in laws k ja volance bhi bardash kare .. lols mere mama kehti tmhare alag hi duniya hai asl duniya asi nahi hai mn n kaha bare skoon ki duniya hoge agr ase ho jaye to.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh God.
Got same advice...
I was so heartbroken and salty that I outrightly rejected the guy.
I was like shouldn't it be other way round,I mean I'll be going to new place among new people toh yeh unko nhi sochna chahiye to make me comfortable but got same reply ki fir teri tu dekh hi lena mujhe toh dar lag raha hai kaise nibhegi and I was like wth
And now I've commitment phobia all thanks to my dear parents who gave this mahaan advice.
Whenever they talk about any rishta this advice of theirs start to echo in my mind...
Thats the reason I was saying that why basic human decency is comsidered as dream in regards to boys and in laws...
Imean I am fed up listening things ki tujhe pata hai unki bahu late uthati hai toh kuch nhi bolte vo...
Yah are uski saas kaam karavati hai uske sath ghar ka..
Yah are bada hi acha pati mil gya use toh uske maayke mein koi bhi dikkat hoti hai barabar ake help karta hai..
Are unki ladki toh kismat vali hai saas hath rkhti hai pairon ke neeche...
I mean I am dome with all these things,I don't know why basic human rights are blown out of proportion and taken as some form of favor husband and in laws doing for girl and her family and why girl need to be consider herself lucky becoz the family she got married into respect her as human....🤷♀️🤦♀️
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