Kudos to Gaurav and Chavvi for their acting which spoiled whitewashing - Page 3

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

When a person overreacts to something and becomes completely blind to one's wrong doings, it can have two reasons:

1. They know internally the character is wrong but admitting it is a blow to their ego so they make the whole world wrong to feel this character is right.
2. There's some sort of trait in this character or the way others treat this character triggers something that happened in their own lives. By winning approval and understanding for this character they try to win approval for themselves.

This comes across as the point of view of someone who makes a lot of good observations of human behaviour as well as does a lot of introspection.

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

This comes across as the point of view of someone who makes a lot of good observations of human behaviour as well as does a lot of introspection.

Originally posted by: shriz

Guys are we the only sane people left in this world😭😭

Since i am a pshycology student i request you all to kindly enlighten me about how a typical anupama fan thinks..like what could have gone wrong in their life to think like this and how can I help them if they come to me🥲

(You probably know all this...)

First of all, the internet has given voices to billions of people and that is quite unprecedented - but while that sounds damn amazing, it also means that it's easier for all kinds of thoughts - good, bad, ugly - to surface to a place of visibility. It's also difficult to see things in context because what we see of their personality is sometimes limited to just words.

Also, most people can easily ignore them.

But yes, I can understand that since you're training to be a professional in mental health, it's a whole different story for you. I don't know how much you expect a serious answer, but there is still a lot of things we don't know - how much have they watched this show? How seriously are they taking this show?

But I still cannot deny that the level of insensitivity in some of the comments shows through and through.

One comfort I can provide is - there is a high possibility that a lot of the people making comments like this are quite delusional - and without that self-awareness, they might never come for therapy so maybe you'll be safe from them...!

But Gauravs grief comes across as so genuine. His body language is unparalleled. In front of him, Anupama's drama comes across as fake and forced. This has caused even Anuapama fans to be sympathetic to Anuj and question Anupama

I too felt this way. Maybe that's the reason I didn't feel at all bad for Anupa 🤔

Had her reactions been a bit restricted to how ott she behaved, I might have felt something for her as well. But her over the top reactions didn't let me feel anything for her.

Originally posted by: shriz

Wait for the divine beauty to get two more awards this weekend for the most versatile actress alive in this universe and prove all of us wrong 😎

Cheeku, before i write anything else i must say you have great clarity of thoughts and a deep understanding of human emotions in general to be able to give an unbiased opinion like this.

Your first point about ego issues makes sense for that category of fan girls who hail the character whenever they do something good but conveniently go into hibernation when the same mahaan character does something inhumane or hate/cringe worthy.

In simple terms, they participate in the debates only when they know they will win coz if they lose it will be a blow to their ego 🤔

Your second point throws light on the another category of fangirls who have seen their house burning and think that the whole world is on fire. For example, those saying "saare mard ek jaise hote hai".

These fans in their love for their favourite character conveniently ignore their flaws as that gives them a sense of self validation.They justify the character's thought process coz it resembles their own thinking and they don't want anyone to call it toxic or problematic.

P.s- my post was a sarcastic one before but then i loved reading your perspective and had to reply without sounding dumb 😆

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Was the award category "Cringe" or "Crap" by any chance?😳

Originally posted by: ga1986

We have been getting enlightened by them from quite some time ....Trust me you cannot help them 😆

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

(You probably know all this...)

First of all, the internet has given voices to billions of people and that is quite unprecedented - but while that sounds damn amazing, it also means that it's easier for all kinds of thoughts - good, bad, ugly - to surface to a place of visibility. It's also difficult to see things in context because what we see of their personality is sometimes limited to just words.

Also, most people can easily ignore them.

But yes, I can understand that since you're training to be a professional in mental health, it's a whole different story for you. I don't know how much you expect a serious answer, but there is still a lot of things we don't know - how much have they watched this show? How seriously are they taking this show?

But I still cannot deny that the level of insensitivity in some of the comments shows through and through.

One comfort I can provide is - there is a high possibility that a lot of the people making comments like this are quite delusional - and without that self-awareness, they might never come for therapy so maybe you'll be safe from them...!

And if they write generalised comments like "all men are same" then they must have taken the show seriously to form such a strong opinion on the basis of it.

Anyway your last paragraph was reassuring 🤣anupama fans will never come for therapy anyway...they will probably dance and solve everything 😉

I am unable to understand if india forums viewers can make out whats wrong with anupama from many months

why are twitter instagram followers always saying shes right

When i wrote than no man will allow his wife to go to ex hubby house like anupama than also ppl find fault

I will repeat no wife will allow husband to go to ex wife home too like anuj allowing anupama without many reasons

If we marry can we go everyday to parents house or sibling house and just leave family to do whatever on their own

Whether man or woman no one will agree to whats anupama doing going to ex hubby house so many times without valid reasons

Imagine anupama was our parent even as kids we would create a strom not be as nice as CA because children are possessive of mom dad

Anupama is no 18 year old newly married bride to not understand that her first priority is current hubby and kid. She just does not understand and this devika and dheeraj ankush are supporting her against anuj

If anuj parents were there they would not allow anupama back home after one of her visit and tell her to go stya at ex house only

Even in usa no hubby will be ok with wife going to ex hubby house although ppl marry 3 to 4 times there

Its basic human nature to be possessive of specially family that to spouse why?

Your parents will die before you, your siblings will marry and go different home, your kids will leave after school to other towns or country to study/job. Only spouse goes with you everywhere.

How long would CA be with maan may be 10-12 more years than she will leave only come 1 month a year on holidays

Still anupama does not care for her is surprising