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Posted: 2 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Maybe you have not met people who have split up and have kids ., and are still talking to each other


Whether Sai Virat have split up .. it does not mean the kids should just disappear and forget about their rights



Savi vinu are natural siblings and they need to interact with both their parents .. it’s a pity their parents could not get along .. but they are bonded for life in natural biological way


Sai Virat will forever be united so long Vinayak n Savi are living and if they chose to have kids.. through their grand kids too ..


After 30 years the same settings Savi or Vinayak ke kids and the grandparents indulging them won’t look out of sort



patralekha is not vinayaks mother .. though things are extremely fishy here .. with her being surrogate n adoptive both .. but still biologically he is not her kid ..


No child should be denied the parents presence .. and be substituted with some one else ..

My close friend is divorced .. and he regularly takes his kids along with his extra wife for school celebration and once a month family outing ..


He says kids are too small .. they need to be seen with both parents .



Sai is not the other woman .. if she backs out now .. she will lose her son Vinayak to patralekha..





No self respect n glory is worth losing your child .. apna baccha apna bachha hota hai .. nothing is more important than your own child .. not even spouse , ex spouse , parents , boyfriends



I want the folks who have had babies to take a call on this .,only those who have given birth can contest me on this claim .. I am not keen to hear the views of those who don’t have kids .. what they don’t have they don’t know ..


even a biological father has equal rights as mother to his kids


so Sai n Virat need their time with Savi n vinu



I will agree to disagree- I think you think of kids in now I think in long run- and on contrary to what you believe - I have seen this in close family. What I have never seen is - ex wife stays in same house with ex husband and his current wife.


I have made a post recently on this you may not have read it- but kids are not going to be kids forever. So parents should think of long term- tell them truth and if there is really no bad blood or ill intentions they can easily split tome or co parents. Kids are more perceptive than adults think. Many times adults use them to cover for their inability to move on. Which only harm them in long run. What Sai and Virat re doing is creating a very false image of happy family that they can not carry forward forever. Savi os only expecting or rather thinking her parents are normal couple. She wont stay this innocent forever, in few years she will understand the dynamics.

Plus Nowhere I said that biological father has no rights. He has, but since they are separated AND Virat is married to someone else, they should not be living under same roof.


It is not only about Sai’s self respect but also what is good for kids in long run. No child like their mother being called characterless by father’s current wife or society, right now they don’t understand but in future they will when they go to school or collage.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#82

An episode I would watch again and again!


finally Satya is coming out as a character! Phew!!

Loved Vinu, Dr Cool and Dr auntie!! It was awesome! that entire scene was too cute! Fast paced fun filled with a lovely background music … ek chatoor naar was so cool 😎


Finally I also got to see Ayesha with Harshad as an actor - yes Ayesha is slowly warming up and they both seem to find each others timing. I loved the catch and release and Dr Cool ka smirk and a decent eyelock with both having perfect expressions! Loved it!


Dr Satya actually said mere alawa koi choice nahin hai aapke paas 😆😆😆

They 50 kg ka ego and 25 kg ka attitude was well performed!

Sai kah aaj kisine toh khayal rakha that was her son… proud mother and the way he held her hand in pain… awww!!


Dr Cool is definitely perceptive no doubt again kudos to both actors! I am impressed! 🥳🥳

Virat and kids peh alag post karti hoon

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Posted: 2 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: Sinmegh



Even I feel that precap was shot before .. and it will be reshot again ..
uske size ke dress costume wake ke pass nahi honge .. and old ones guy burnt ..

You r right, kids need time off with the biological parents. Savi and Vinu r too young now.

I wish Sai and V unite n the end or atleast have an arrangement where they spend time with kids together regularly.

Virat needs to be strict with P.

Now he's unable to tell as Vinu still considers P as his mother.

I feel bad for Savi as parents r unable to tell bedtime stories together and put them to sleep, wake them up.

Everyone who get divorced try their best to patch up for the sake of kids. Only if its not possible they split.

Feel for the kids that parents are not together.

Virat s majorly responsible for that as he's not strict with P. Its just to keep her relevant.

Yes true. Costumes stitching might have taken time.

Don't like Sairat scenes repeated for VP and Sai and Satya. They should write new scenes.

Edited by Rosyme - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: Sinmegh



Even I feel that precap was shot before .. and it will be reshot again ..
uske size ke dress costume wake ke pass nahi honge .. and old ones guy burnt ..

Oh..That's why I was wondering why she is repeating all the clothes..The one she wore today was also worn before na

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Posted: 2 years ago
#85

This story has no logic .. I said this yesterday only


Why Virat behaves like this .. so it is pointless to justify any character ..


But parents should not let go of their kids .. for any self ego ..


I have seen my aunt regretting at her 70s because she refuse to let her son be with her for 20 years because she could not accept his wife ..and she has told me this .. I wish I had set aside my anger .. made up with his wife .. atleast I could see my grand kids grow up .. the pull of blood is very strong .
Sai has to make vinu understand she is his mother before he grows up ..she cannot just be dr aunty for that if she has to grin n bear it . Well every dog has their day . It is patralekha ka day because fate helped her by gifting vinu in adoption totally illlgicak n out of the box tha if she has not manipulated this

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Posted: 2 years ago
#86

Ek chota sa dil

Iski bas itni si mushkil …

Pal main hai toot jaata ..

Phir ek acchaai se jud jaata bhi yeh dil ….

Ek chota sa .. mere dil …

Iski bas itni si mushkil


Loved the vibe of today’s episode, gave me a total DMG meets Greys Anatomy waala vibe, parallel stories and all engaging and if this is the narrative they wanna pick I’m more than happy as a viewer …


Dr Adhikari is slowly making his place in the hearts of people and mine too .. such a refreshing change from constipated Virat Chavan- and his flippant zabaan ! Totally loved the vibe in their scene Vinu, Sai and Adhikari- and his one liners .. Dr. Joshi Main nahi aapka doshi … Kaam nek, Naam Head ache … I already love this guy … love the name Dr. cool as well, though mere Mr. supercool Dr Armaan ki yaad aa gayi .. my early tv crush 🤪.. anyway ab main badi ho gayee hoon … I need a more mature Male Dr Crush .. toh aa gaya adhikari mere dil pe waar karne … 😬😬😬he talks just like me in real life 😂😂😂 May be that’s why I instantly took to him … but being a huge Sanjeevani and DMG fan today's episode with that landing in arms and pair theek karna, masti I was smiling throughout … and forget about Virat uncle my eyes turned sore watching VC decorating bedroom with those rose petals to seduce his Patnilekha .. but honestly it wasn’t as anger triggering as I had imagined- Adhikari ne Jo mere dil pe waar kar diya tha … I was easily more forgiving and happy for Sai… 😍😍😍

The pizza party on the terrace again - was a great co-parenting scene with the family bonding at the end of the day- it was surprisingly heart warming and lightening to see Sai totally chill and slowly return to her original element - as she had a great day with Vinu and Adhikari .. I hope she doesn’t call him Satya but Aadi, I know it’s his surname but Aadi sounds cuter .. ❤️❤️❤️ okay I should stop blushing warna pati jaag ke virat roop lelega 😂😂😂😂 but that concern Virat showed and Sai’s reaction immediately put him back in his place especially because of the kaand of “making up” that he is planning after this. PL’s dress isn’t the same as the one in the precap so are they going to show the hug ya phir se precap main kuch telecast main kuch ? We will have to wait and watch - loved the planting of the jealousy ka seed in Virat’s mind while Sai unmindfully has taken her first step towards moving on- and seems like she has landed in the right place (I mean arms) ..

Sai asks the nurse to keep all instruments sterilised for the inspection- matlab this is a farzi inspection or real we don’t know but Sai is about to get into trouble and Apna Dr. Cooladhikari … will save her .. and I feel think will also get linked to Pakhi’s longer game plan- where she will perhaps accuse Sai of using unsterilised equipment’s that resulted in her uterus removal .. issue is going to get bigger- and one has to see whether Virat the bheegi billi nibhaao’s pati dharm or lands in dharam sankat over supporting Sai…

PL finds herself alone despite being pumped up looking at the whole set up - Ek second ke liye she feels happy and as I said it didn’t hurt so much today, felt like chalo theek hai .. karo jo karna hai tum pati patni .. meri sai toh khush hai … mehfooz hai .. in Dr Cooladhikari’s arms .. PL realises twice in today’s episode that Vinu is drifting away from her along with her pati, ofcourse her concern is more for the pati going away, but Vinu toh uska main astra hai .. she won’t let him go that easy .. she will play games while Sai makes her place in Vinu’s heart .. though he says she is not my mumma, she is my doctor aunty, that’s a bridge they will eventually cross with great ease .. I’m confident now …

Precap : introduction of Satya’s mother while shopping for gudi padwa.. hope the lady doesn’t turn out to be negative - because bahut ho Gaya resistance .. Sai needs a family - this lady looks like someone who can turn negative but hope it’s just the appearance .. and doesn’t turn out like Ashloony .. okay I’m building hopes again .. but she protected Sai against Virat’s majnugiri coming out of his ever flippant concern .. she put him in his place - again felt happy ! Sai team force is building up .. though not immediately .. now we know Adhikari and Family will slowly come in .. and from the looks of it .. it won’t be easy for Sai.. but they are surely looking at a more serious pairing of Cooladhikari and Chidku love story ❤️❤️❤️

All in all …it’s not such a boring day ! It was a happening day … loved it ..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mikis

I haven't watched and I don't think I will after reading updates....

The whole decorating the room to please p and manipulate her is Gross...understood he's not trying to seduce her or whatever but just calming her down But still its gross...and he's coming across creeeeeepy!!

Who does that? Of course P would do something in anger about this....he basically proved her right when he wants something from her he's all nice 🙄 wtf


I dunno how to feel about the track now

It's worst when you remember all the crap didi spewed on Sai in the past few days..including what she did to Savi 🤔

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Posted: 2 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: Sinmegh


No self respect n glory is worth losing your child .. apna baccha apna bachha hota hai .. nothing is more important than your own child .. not even spouse , ex spouse , parents , boyfriends


Very important point which raises two questions:


Let's assume tomorrow this scenario: Savi doesn't like Satya at all and refuses to move out of Chavan Niwas. So:

Will Sai opt for her self-respect and leave Savi at Chavan Niwas and move out with Satya?

Will Sai forcefully take her with Satya and separate her from the family she considers her own?

Will Sai put her self-respect on the backseat and wait for Savi to come around?

Will the fandom hate Savi till then? 😭

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Maybe you have not met people who have split up and have kids ., and are still talking to each other


Whether Sai Virat have split up .. it does not mean the kids should just disappear and forget about their rights



Savi vinu are natural siblings and they need to interact with both their parents .. it’s a pity their parents could not get along .. but they are bonded for life in natural biological way


Sai Virat will forever be united so long Vinayak n Savi are living and if they chose to have kids.. through their grand kids too ..


After 30 years the same settings Savi or Vinayak ke kids and the grandparents indulging them won’t look out of sort



patralekha is not vinayaks mother .. though things are extremely fishy here .. with her being surrogate n adoptive both .. but still biologically he is not her kid ..


No child should be denied the parents presence .. and be substituted with some one else ..

My close friend is divorced .. and he regularly takes his kids along with his extra wife for school celebration and once a month family outing ..


He says kids are too small .. they need to be seen with both parents .



Sai is not the other woman .. if she backs out now .. she will lose her son Vinayak to patralekha..





No self respect n glory is worth losing your child .. apna baccha apna bachha hota hai .. nothing is more important than your own child .. not even spouse , ex spouse , parents , boyfriends



I want the folks who have had babies to take a call on this .,only those who have given birth can contest me on this claim .. I am not keen to hear the views of those who don’t have kids .. what they don’t have they don’t know ..


even a biological father has equal rights as mother to his kids


so Sai n Virat need their time with Savi n vinu




Sai and Virat are forever tied as parents and as parents they will always present a united front to the children and they will together as couple as well here.


My husband's cousin and his ex wife had really a messy divorce and had so much bitterness between them..But they always come together for the kid...They attend parents meeting together..They go out for dinner once a month and birthdays are always celebrated together..Both of them have different partners now.


She attends all important events in our family..They are no more a couple but she is a family member for sure and her spouse doesn't have any problem.


There are such mature relationships in real life too

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sinmegh

This story has no logic .. I said this yesterday only


Why Virat behaves like this .. so it is pointless to justify any character ..


But parents should not let go of their kids .. for any self ego ..


I have seen my aunt regretting at her 70s because she refuse to let her son be with her for 20 years because she could not accept his wife ..and she has told me this .. I wish I had set aside my anger .. made up with his wife .. atleast I could see my grand kids grow up .. the pull of blood is very strong .
Sai has to make vinu understand she is his mother before he grows up ..she cannot just be dr aunty

I understand


I would anyday recommend patching up for kids provided parents are sensible enough. Or lets say Virat was married to someone who understood his responsibility as father and gave him space. But here PL is taking it out on Kids.

Or lets say Virat had spine to tell PL off that you mess with my kids and you mess with me- but he is spineless!


But Virat and PL are disaster brewing and matter of time the kids will face the burnt of it. That is why its best that they live separate and share parenting time.


Only reason He as father triggers me is because my very close cousin (who I gre up with) has husband to ho we can say is replica of Virat, she held on to marriage - well she still is for kids. Now both kids are conflicted and depressed. It breaks my heart seeing them like that as they grew up infront of me.

Sometimes fiction hits so close to home that its hard to not relate.

Edited by Sab07 - 2 years ago

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