I failed as a father😥

Is Anuj doing right by giving Anupama the snub? is this his way of showing anger towards Anupama for letting CA go without a fight or is it cause he’s struggling with his inner demons? the helpnessness of not being able to convince choti of his love was evident in his tears…He called himself a failure at being a father…and that he sees himself in choti, both are adopted and alone😥😥😥…

Does Anuj really hold Anupama responsible for choti’s departure from their lives or is it an unconscious coping mechanism to deal with the loss? Anupama did mention the D word…

If Anupama cared so much for Anuj’s mental well being then why doesnt she put him out of the misery and tell him what choti’s reason was behind picking Maaya, that will help him heal but no, all the woman does is cry and say he is beshhht papa, note not acche pita…

Nonetheless it was a fast paced, high on emotions episode with lots of pallu moments…dont even get me started on Bapuji’s flying visit to console his beti and the Shah kids with Dimpy the secret Shah who was sad enough to film Anuj crying, what a lowlife!

Watch this video N tell me yeh same anupama hai

https://youtu.be/XfwhhuQnUS4

How cheap of dimpy to record Anuj crying for his kid and shah kids watching at home. And then shameless shah kids are crying for Anupamaa.

I am not gonna call anupamaa MAA anymore.

Worst mother - heartless and selfish. All she cares about Anuj baat kyun nahi karte? Does she even know how it feels to lose a family member? How does grief feel?

A person won't even remember if days passed or weeks! Won't even remember where he/she is. You lose a part of your memory.

And self proclaimed good person didnt even have conscience to let Anuj know that he didn't fail as a father. His daughter wanted to live with him over her own bio mother.

Anupamaa snatched family from two orphans and still crying about Maa haar gayi. Mujhse baat kijiye.

Self obsessed.

He told that he wished he could blame his sorrows on someone. I felt him at that time. We, humans, feel a different type of peace when we can pin our miseries on someone. Humans feel safer when they can hold someone else responsible for their sorrows. It's weird but true that fighting with someone keeps one's inner demons calm. Fighting, venting, and breaking things are coping mechanisms. Anuj does not hold MAA responsible for losing CA, but he has pent-up frustrations. He knows MAA never prioritized CA, and never genuinely cared for her. He was always hurt by her behavior toward the little girl which he hid inside him. But, CA opened the door of his emotions while she left. So, all those locked emotions are coming out.

Originally posted by: name2saakshi

Watch this video N tell me yeh same anupama hai

https://youtu.be/XfwhhuQnUS4

This one also

https://youtu.be/_te7pSOy9_o

She didn't do the bare minimum... Didn't tell CA that she wasn't the reason for their fights... Didn't tell Anuj the truth when he was breaking down... Now you see dkp will show her love brought him out of his pain🤬... Anyone remember how she woke him up from coma? Yup that's exactly how it would happen again

... get ready for another dance session

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Anuj is thinking he failed as a father and she is letting him believe that and also adding fuel to fire by giving nonsense lectures on Choti ki Khushi ke liye but not telling the truth to him

Such a shameless woman calling her Bapuji to watch Anuj in this state, herself behaving like a bechari all the time but not telling the truth, how hard it is to just spit out the facts

Anuj is surrounded by freeloaders who just take decisions on behalf of him and he is the one always bearing the consequences, excet Barkha and Ankush who are true wellwishwers, but Anuj himself is to be blamed for all this, first marrying such a woman after seeing the tamashas for one entire year and being at the receiving end always and then bringing a daughter to be raised by this woman who is unfit to be anyone’s mother let alone a 6-7 yr old, let her take all important decisions and ignoring insulting own family members because of her, she is so toxic that everyone around her has to suffer because of her life, her ex family and her decisions, Anuj never thought about the future just got the child and left her to suffer at Anupama’s hands, now both the child and himself are facing the repercussions and the Matkadhari woman as usual is acting all bechari and dukhiyari after messing up everyone’s life because of her nonsense decisions

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

He told that he wished he could blame his sorrows on someone. I felt him at that time. We, humans, feel a different type of peace when we can pin our miseries on someone. Humans feel safer when they can hold someone else responsible for their sorrows. It's weird but true that fighting with someone keeps one's inner demons calm. Fighting, venting, and breaking things are coping mechanisms. Anuj does not hold MAA responsible for losing CA, but he has pent-up frustrations. He knows MAA never prioritized CA, and never genuinely cared for her. He was always hurt by her behavior toward the little girl which he hid inside him. But, CA opened the door of his emotions while she left. So, all those locked emotions are coming out.

This....

I hope they will address it as opposed to showing her as the victim again. Sure, Anuj isn't a perfect guy but who is? What we can't deny is that he tried his best with his limited experience and was a first-time father. Anupama has been a parent for years but still things turned out this way because of her decisions. Even in the video call with CA it felt like everything she said was an add-on to Anuj's genuine expressions at seeing his daughter again.

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Anuj is thinking he failed as a father and she is letting him believe that and also adding fuel to fire by giving nonsense lectures on Choti ki Khushi ke liye but not telling the truth to him

Such a shameless woman calling her Bapuji to watch Anuj in this state, herself behaving like a bechari all the time but not telling the truth, how hard it is to just spit out the facts

Anuj is surrounded by freeloaders who just take decisions on behalf of him and he is the one always bearing the consequences, excet Barkha and Ankush who are true wellwishwers, but Anuj himself is to be blamed for all this, first marrying such a woman after seeing the tamashas for one entire year and being at the receiving end always and then bringing a daughter to be raised by this woman who is unfit to be anyone’s mother let alone a 6-7 yr old, let her take all important decisions and ignoring insulting own family members because of her, she is so toxic that everyone around her has to suffer because of her life, her ex family and her decisions, Anuj never thought about the future just got the child and left her to suffer at Anupama’s hands, now both the child and himself are facing the repercussions and the Matkadhari woman as usual is acting all bechari and dukhiyari after messing up everyone’s life because of her nonsense decisions