I failed as a father😥 - Page 3

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I really dont understand as to what stopped him from taking logical steps, as in - first validate Maaya's claims. If she is really CA's mother, he has 2 options - one to adopt legally or to let CA go. And then if he let her go and is still attached to the child, he needs to make arrangements with Maaya such that he is able to spend time with CA.

If we love someone with all our heart(AK's undying love for Maa), we usually tell them clearly of the pros & cons of a decision. Then support them no matter what the end result of their choice is. But, if we want the end result to be what we want, we cannot let the other person decide. We need to be in control.

Which brings the question - Why did he allow Anupama to play the 15 day challenge? Even if did, it looks like he was overly confident that Anu would win and CA would be with them.

I am not able to tell if his sadness stems from losing CA or Anu not pulling her weight and hance losing against Maaya. But his line " you have 3 kids and nothing to lose, but lost my only child..... " is dumb. He knows that she has no vested interest. If he is the only one with vested interest, then he needs to do everything in his power to go after it.

The writing is so shoddy, that it is difficult to reason Anuj's ( or Anu's) behavior, and I find myself contradicting each day with my own reasoning🤔

More than anything, I am curious to know.... after so much of dukh dard and peeda, how will bhavya tarike ka holi emerge like phoenix?🤪🤣

Jaise hamesha hota hai..

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I really dont understand as to what stopped him from taking logical steps, as in - first validate Maaya's claims. If she is really CA's mother, he has 2 options - one to adopt legally or to let CA go. And then if he let her go and is still attached to the child, he needs to make arrangements with Maaya such that he is able to spend time with CA.

If we love someone with all our heart(AK's undying love for Maa), we usually tell them clearly of the pros & cons of a decision. Then support them no matter what the end result of their choice is. But, if we want the end result to be what we want, we cannot let the other person decide. We need to be in control.

Which brings the question - Why did he allow Anupama to play the 15 day challenge? Even if did, it looks like he was overly confident that Anu would win and CA would be with them.

I am not able to tell if his sadness stems from losing CA or Anu not pulling her weight and hance losing against Maaya. But his line " you have 3 kids and nothing to lose, but lost my only child..... " is dumb. He knows that she has no vested interest. If he is the only one with vested interest, then he needs to do everything in his power to go after it.

The writing is so shoddy, that it is difficult to reason Anuj's ( or Anu's) behavior, and I find myself contradicting each day with my own reasoning🤔

More than anything, I am curious to know.... after so much of dukh dard and peeda, how will bhavya tarike ka holi emerge like phoenix?🤪🤣

The show does not seem suited to watch with accompaniments of things like clear logical analysis or intelligent questions like:

What are the motivations of these characters? What are the intentions of these characters? Are their actions justified in this context?

It seems much more suited to questions like the one you mentioned at the end:

How on earth are the writers going to pull themselves out of this cosy hole they've dug? How much second-hand embarrassment will the audience feel in this process? How much time before Anuj goes back to "Meri Anu kabhi galat nahi ho sakti - Anu, tumhe ek pal ke liye na sahi, galat samajhna meri galti thi, meri hi galti thi...ab meri galti ko bura na maano, holiiii hai. Ab nacho!"

"give little people a little power and it goes straight to their little heads."

Woah! I never came across this. Now I know where I was wrong in terms of dealing with some people.🤣