Stop blaming Abhimanyu/ stop the hate - Page 3

Originally posted by: Krinya

You're free to watch it , I won't come to your room and snatch your remote control ..nor can you come to mine and force me to watch .

But when it comes to a Public forum, it's gonna have varied views so be ready for it..a discussion forum can't be one sided....yrkkh is not real but here on this forum, the people are real so the discussions can't be unrealistic and immoral. Na hi yrkkh is a fantasy show like nagin ke we stop expecting anything sane from the writers , they show kuch bhi and we do wowww! Pl be tolerant of others opinion if you want to have yours.

We can do nothing abt the story , they will show what they want to show anyways , but we cN always hope for better content which we may get by giving honest reviews.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

See the butchering of Abhimanyu's character is done for trp. Ppl know this fact and they want to see abhira together. If trp was not important for star plus it would have produced shows like sony which hardly cares for trp. Butchering abhi's character itself is wrong as that was not what was shown on promo when yrkkh3 was introduced.

On the contrary when I saw Neil's death and post leap epis , my dislike for abhimanyu hit the roof.

I know they butcher characters for trps..but this time the way they did it , they crossed the line ..like they did in kzk2(sorry I dunno if you've seen it ) , when onurag tossed prerna over the bridge to save her. Kaira were also butchered in many ways but I never saw their fans wishing a third angle for them ..they were never irredeemable...it's just that we got bored Watching the same thing over and over , the actors also got bored and quit..they did everything with kaira even duplicate naira..

With abhimanyu thy were already treading on a fine line..his aggression was never attractive , nor his mummy jaap ...nor him taking chances with aroo everytime akshu says no to him.....yet he was the hero of the story ...now he is on the same place as manjari and aroo. Hero ko apne villain jaisa bana diya ..Basically experiment gone bad ..really bad..they're getting the trps but who is enjoying it ? It's a matter of time

everyone knows there r thousands of ways to separate the couple and they also find way to each other but at least the later part should be convincing ...wahan bhi raita faila diya..ab bolte hai ke ye shiv Parvati ki jodi hai

Originally posted by: Krinya

On the contrary when I saw Neil's death and post leap epis , my dislike for abhimanyu hit the roof.

I know they butcher characters for trps..but this time the way they did it , they crossed the line ..like they did in kzk2(sorry I dunno if you've seen it ) , when onurag tossed prerna over the bridge to save her. Kaira were also butchered in many ways but I never saw their fans wishing a third angle for them ..they were never irredeemable...it's just that we got bored Watching the same thing over and over , the actors also got bored and quit..they did everything with kaira even duplicate naira..

With abhimanyu thy were already treading on a fine line..his aggression was never attractive , nor his mummy jaap ...nor him taking chances with aroo everytime akshu says no to him.....yet he was the hero of the story ...now he is on the same place as manjari and aroo. Hero ko apne villain jaisa bana diya ..Basically experiment gone bad ..really bad..they're getting the trps but who is enjoying it ? It's a matter of time

everyone knows there r thousands of ways to separate the couple and they also find way to each other but at least the later part should be convincing ...wahan bhi raita faila diya..ab bolte hai ke ye shiv Parvati ki jodi hai

This is how saubhagyavati bhava promo was. So ppl knew something was wrong with virat. So it was not hard for them to accept. But abhi was shown normal toh ppl find it difficult to accept as they itv ka trend hai butcher karna

https://youtu.be/TiHEBAQr0UY

Originally posted by: Krinya

On the contrary when I saw Neil's death and post leap epis , my dislike for abhimanyu hit the roof.

I know they butcher characters for trps..but this time the way they did it , they crossed the line ..like they did in kzk2(sorry I dunno if you've seen it ) , when onurag tossed prerna over the bridge to save her. Kaira were also butchered in many ways but I never saw their fans wishing a third angle for them ..they were never irredeemable...it's just that we got bored Watching the same thing over and over , the actors also got bored and quit..they did everything with kaira even duplicate naira..

With abhimanyu thy were already treading on a fine line..his aggression was never attractive , nor his mummy jaap ...nor him taking chances with aroo everytime akshu says no to him.....yet he was the hero of the story ...now he is on the same place as manjari and aroo. Hero ko apne villain jaisa bana diya ..Basically experiment gone bad ..really bad..they're getting the trps but who is enjoying it ? It's a matter of time

everyone knows there r thousands of ways to separate the couple and they also find way to each other but at least the later part should be convincing ...wahan bhi raita faila diya..ab bolte hai ke ye shiv Parvati ki jodi hai

Originally posted by: _Heer_

I have been a silence watcher over the forum for a period of time now...but been watching ITV serials all my life.

I recently started watching YRKKH when the separation started. It got me intrigued and Abhi/Akshara gave me Anurag/Prerna feels. (Even though Prerna stopped thinking or caring about Anurag and I really really hope that Akshara doesn't, she has to realize and stand up for who she really loves and the father of her child) he was traumatised, shocked and destroyed when all that Neil episode happened... and they need to talk about that and Abhi is over that.... he was wrong for not standing up for her and he apologised... she refused which was soooo good and satisfying to watch because that keeps their relationship/love/anger/narazghi alive. But what else can he do....people want him to die and they say that he doesn't deserve Akshara for the way he treated her... it is all on the writers... and I love Akshara and she deserve all the respect and love... but in this universe all that matters is Abhi/Akshu love... so if they are together nothing else matters apparently.

Okay, Abhi treated her badly...but that is a normal (but unacceptable) behaviour from people specifically men ... In that situation specifically if you are an ITV male lead... more so in Balaji shows but ... YRKKH is giving Balaji a competition in this out of the world love/passion/obsession/blame game story.

Abhi is portrayed like old school male characters... he has been caring/loving/respectful and supportive throughout... but this was all done because the story demanded it.

Anyway... I am surprised..or better shocked to see people wanting/having realistic expectations from an ITV serial.

Whenever I want to escape reality and get into an unrealistic and lovey/dovey kind of feeling I start watching Indian serials and only if I like the main leads/their chemistry... and I Love love love how obsessive Abhi is getting over Akshu.

I wouldn't be watching if Abhi didn't care about Akshu anymore or if she completely forgot about him... I will stop watching because that would be just too realistic and boring.

And India has owned so much of western culture that I am surprised how people are surprised and not accepting how male lead wants to get back together with the female lead... marriage or no marriage...they are soul mates and that is how it is supposed to be...that is what we see in USA tv shows... and you cannot say it doesn't happen in India or anywhere else in Asia...because it does...people do love each other despite marrying others...and long for each other and there are Extra maritial affairs as well...so it is all very realistic...even though that is not where YRKKH is headed...we all know Akshara will never...

Maybe not for the classic YRKKH audience but Duniya main sab kuch ho raha hai...Morally wrong things happen everywhere.

Nothing is surprising or unrealistic other than great grandparents looking so young or immortal.

I love and support Abhimanyu because in the end he only does what the writers want him to do... I am just happy his character is not revolving around Ruhi anymore even though she is lovely... and I want Ruhi to realize that Akshara is the most important person in her Poppy's life...so blaming the characters doesn't really make sense.

If Abhi can go mad and turn 360 degrees because his brother died and he lost his twins....(that didn't actually made sense because Akshara wanted them more than he did... but again nothing does on ITV) so can Abhinav Jee turn 360 degrees when he gets to experience Abhi/Akshu 's love ... why is that so hard to believe. People change in life and it is always over stupid and non reasonable reasons that people turn good or bad...there is a very fine line for someone to turn bad or grey. Abhinav getting all villainous for the fear of losing Akshara and Abhir is totally understandable... that will be his reason of turning bad just as Abhimanyu did, when his bro died and he stopped caring and forgot everything he had for Akshara... and again it all goes back to the writers.

All the characters are mere pawns in the writers hands.

Same same!

Watching for abhira! If they aren't end game then it's boring 😴

Fiction meant to be entertaining! And my entertainment is wanting to watch abhira fix their problems and get back together ❤️

Also cherry on cake will be akshu bashing the gohenkas!

Originally posted by: Suvika.

ITV shows tend to last decades contrary to an 8-10 episode of web series or a 2 hour movie. These shows become part of audience routine so makers should be conscious of what they show. Whether it is ITV or OTT or cinema, there are somethings that should NOT be shown or considered as - "normal".

Irrespective of the TRP or whatever BS they follow, they should NOT convey the message that it is OK or worse, heroic to be that way.

1. Refusing to listen to the word - NO. Esp the ML. It is not heroic to obssess. Irrespective of the gender, no is a no. Full stop.

2. Normalizing abuse - be it physical or emotional. A lot of people say things like - OK, at least he / she is not hitting her or shoving her around. Emotional abuse is worse IMO because the wounds and scars are invisible. Be it Manjari or Akshara, it is NOT OK to take abuse with a smile and hope in the heart that the person would change and all they need is love.

Wrong is wrong. YRKKH and other shows showing such behaviour in the name of love or caring is wrong. And if makers are showing it, they should take the criticism from the saner audience.

@Harshadfan21 - Yes, I agree with you. At least in the forums and other platforms, such things should be called out so that the younger generation knows that it is wrong.

Please explain how has Abhimanyu abused Akshara? He just refused to listen to her and signed the divorce blaming her for everything that ever went wrong.

But I agree... i hope the creators start listening to the audience. Even though it seems impossible...I had no idea that children/teenager watch ITV as an educational activity and are influenced by it.

I know Manjiri has suffered abuse and that is why Abhi was/is shown to have extra care for his mum.

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

I don't know about others, but the men in my life do not normally (not even in situations of crisis unless they have a mental condition) behave this way and the women in my wife do not believe this to be their normal behavior.

And I believe people are well within their rights to share their opinions and criticisms regarding a fictional character that has been created by the writers to cater to their needs. We spend our precious time and our hard earned money to watch these characters. So we are totally entitled to point out the things that we disagree with. Abhimanyu is not a real person. He is a fictional character creatod by the writers. So it is a given that the criticism too is directed towards them.

If it is an extra marital affair, then it should be treated like just that. There shouldn't be any attempts made to hide it under the garbs of divine relationship and other such drivel.

Akshara is not married to Abhinav, audience needs to be smart enough to remember that.

Other than Abhinav thinking about that paper thing...we had nothing that proves that Akshara is married. She doesn't even wear sindoor... that is colossal in ITV.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

It's just not rural people watching the show. Teenagers today get heavily influenced by what is being shown in this number 1 online serials and are taking wrong decisions. Behaving rudely with parents and think it is ok. I have seen in our family only with my sister's and nieces. Thanks to Pakhi from Anupama or take it any character. They watch them all time on Hotstar and get influenced by characters and wish husband like Abhimanyu. I know writers will never change and they only care about money and TRPs but maybe educating in these forums might help atleast few kids take right decisions in life and make them understand "Wrong is Wrong"

Now teenagers are taking everything on their ego. They don't accept defeat. Like they want to argue on everything. They do not want to be the one who is loosing an argument.

I partially feel its because of current schools too as when we were kids we never had singing dancing in schools we used to take it as extra hobby and used to attend classes post school hours.

Now a days a school teaches everything and online games are so popular that kids hardly wants to go out and play.

And on top of that all shows are rubbish. When we were kids weekends and Friday's are meant to be for kids shows only. We did not had n number of channel we had one channel with all variety of shows which used to balance kids minds. Now its all rubbish even during weekends and families watch them in big tv

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Originally posted by: _Heer_

Please explain how has Abhimanyu abused Akshara? He just refused to listen to her and signed the divorce blaming her for everything that ever went wrong.

But I agree... i hope the creators start listening to the audience. Even though it seems impossible...I had no idea that children/teenager watch ITV as an educational activity and are influenced by it.

I know Manjiri has suffered abuse and that is why Abhi was/is shown to have extra care for his mum.

It happens man! They should definitely show reality! Like c'mone sirat looked exactly like naira...wow so real 😱

Yes I'm being sarcastic 🤣

It's yeah rishta! I don't know why people are expecting to learn life lessons!

The only inspiration I want take from rishta is how they do wedding decorations! Like akshus mehendi design was so cool out of the box!

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i know this would impact teenagers but we as kid even seen more regessive show the reason why we are not influenced with this because we did not had social media back then.

Now teenagers are taking everything on their ego. They don't accept defeat. Like they want to argue on everything. They do not want to be the one who is loosing an argument.

I partially feel its because of current schools too as when we were kids we never had singing dancing in schools we used to take it as extra hobby and used to attend classes post school hours.

Now a days a school teaches everything and online games are so popular that kids hardly wants to go out and play.

And on top of that all shows are rubbish. When we were kids weekends and Friday's are meant to be for kids shows only. We did not had n number of channel we had one channel with all variety of shows which used to balance kids minds. Now its all rubbish even during weekends and families watch them in big tv

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True. We had such beautiful varieties of shows too. Most of them had fabulous humour.