Stop blaming Abhimanyu/ stop the hate

I have been a silence watcher over the forum for a period of time now...but been watching ITV serials all my life.

I recently started watching YRKKH when the separation started. It got me intrigued and Abhi/Akshara gave me Anurag/Prerna feels. (Even though Prerna stopped thinking or caring about Anurag and I really really hope that Akshara doesn't, she has to realize and stand up for who she really loves and the father of her child) he was traumatised, shocked and destroyed when all that Neil episode happened... and they need to talk about that and Abhi is over that.... he was wrong for not standing up for her and he apologised... she refused which was soooo good and satisfying to watch because that keeps their relationship/love/anger/narazghi alive. But what else can he do....people want him to die and they say that he doesn't deserve Akshara for the way he treated her... it is all on the writers... and I love Akshara and she deserve all the respect and love... but in this universe all that matters is Abhi/Akshu love... so if they are together nothing else matters apparently.

Okay, Abhi treated her badly...but that is a normal (but unacceptable) behaviour from people specifically men ... In that situation specifically if you are an ITV male lead... more so in Balaji shows but ... YRKKH is giving Balaji a competition in this out of the world love/passion/obsession/blame game story.

Abhi is portrayed like old school male characters... he has been caring/loving/respectful and supportive throughout... but this was all done because the story demanded it.

Anyway... I am surprised..or better shocked to see people wanting/having realistic expectations from an ITV serial.

Whenever I want to escape reality and get into an unrealistic and lovey/dovey kind of feeling I start watching Indian serials and only if I like the main leads/their chemistry... and I Love love love how obsessive Abhi is getting over Akshu.

I wouldn't be watching if Abhi didn't care about Akshu anymore or if she completely forgot about him... I will stop watching because that would be just too realistic and boring.

And India has owned so much of western culture that I am surprised how people are surprised and not accepting how male lead wants to get back together with the female lead... marriage or no marriage...they are soul mates and that is how it is supposed to be...that is what we see in USA tv shows... and you cannot say it doesn't happen in India or anywhere else in Asia...because it does...people do love each other despite marrying others...and long for each other and there are Extra maritial affairs as well...so it is all very realistic...even though that is not where YRKKH is headed...we all know Akshara will never...

Maybe not for the classic YRKKH audience but Duniya main sab kuch ho raha hai...Morally wrong things happen everywhere.

Nothing is surprising or unrealistic other than great grandparents looking so young or immortal.

I love and support Abhimanyu because in the end he only does what the writers want him to do... I am just happy his character is not revolving around Ruhi anymore even though she is lovely... and I want Ruhi to realize that Akshara is the most important person in her Poppy's life...so blaming the characters doesn't really make sense.

If Abhi can go mad and turn 360 degrees because his brother died and he lost his twins....(that didn't actually made sense because Akshara wanted them more than he did... but again nothing does on ITV) so can Abhinav Jee turn 360 degrees when he gets to experience Abhi/Akshu 's love ... why is that so hard to believe. People change in life and it is always over stupid and non reasonable reasons that people turn good or bad...there is a very fine line for someone to turn bad or grey. Abhinav getting all villainous for the fear of losing Akshara and Abhir is totally understandable... that will be his reason of turning bad just as Abhimanyu did, when his bro died and he stopped caring and forgot everything he had for Akshara... and again it all goes back to the writers.

All the characters are mere pawns in the writers hands.

I hear you! The problem with this show is their story writers/creatives/screenplay writers. The story writers have zero understanding of audience’s pulse…they actually have not done their homework (for new team) or have been high n forgotten their own characters (for older team)…there is absolutely zero flow in the story…zero connect…basically randomness galore…right now I would say it should be named as yeh zero kya kehlata hai …so the producer should pull their socks n question wtf us going on instead of going n saying thu thu thu for his creatives…bhaisahab youe show us sucking big time…wake up n smell the coffee

You're free to watch it , I won't come to your room and snatch your remote control ..nor can you come to mine and force me to watch .

But when it comes to a Public forum, it's gonna have varied views so be ready for it..a discussion forum can't be one sided....yrkkh is not real but here on this forum, the people are real so the discussions can't be unrealistic and immoral. Na hi yrkkh is a fantasy show like nagin ke we stop expecting anything sane from the writers , they show kuch bhi and we do wowww! Pl be tolerant of others opinion if you want to have yours.

We can do nothing abt the story , they will show what they want to show anyways , but we cN always hope for better content which we may get by giving honest reviews.

Originally posted by: _Heer_

I have been a silence watcher over the forum for a period of time now...but been watching ITV serials all my life.

I recently started watching YRKKH when the separation started. It got me intrigued and Abhi/Akshara gave me Anurag/Prerna feels. (Even though Prerna stopped thinking or caring about Anurag and I really really hope that Akshara doesn't, she has to realize and stand up for who she really loves and the father of her child) he was traumatised, shocked and destroyed when all that Neil episode happened... and they need to talk about that and Abhi is over that.... he was wrong for not standing up for her and he apologised... she refused which was soooo good and satisfying to watch because that keeps their relationship/love/anger/narazghi alive. But what else can he do....people want him to die and they say that he doesn't deserve Akshara for the way he treated her... it is all on the writers... and I love Akshara and she deserve all the respect and love... but in this universe all that matters is Abhi/Akshu love... so if they are together nothing else matters apparently.

Okay, Abhi treated her badly...but that is a normal (but unacceptable) behaviour from people specifically men ... In that situation specifically if you are an ITV male lead... more so in Balaji shows but ... YRKKH is giving Balaji a competition in this out of the world love/passion/obsession/blame game story.

Abhi is portrayed like old school male characters... he has been caring/loving/respectful and supportive throughout... but this was all done because the story demanded it.

Anyway... I am surprised..or better shocked to see people wanting/having realistic expectations from an ITV serial.

Whenever I want to escape reality and get into an unrealistic and lovey/dovey kind of feeling I start watching Indian serials and only if I like the main leads/their chemistry... and I Love love love how obsessive Abhi is getting over Akshu.

I wouldn't be watching if Abhi didn't care about Akshu anymore or if she completely forgot about him... I will stop watching because that would be just too realistic and boring.

And India has owned so much of western culture that I am surprised how people are surprised and not accepting how male lead wants to get back together with the female lead... marriage or no marriage...they are soul mates and that is how it is supposed to be...that is what we see in USA tv shows... and you cannot say it doesn't happen in India or anywhere else in Asia...because it does...people do love each other despite marrying others...and long for each other and there are Extra maritial affairs as well...so it is all very realistic...even though that is not where YRKKH is headed...we all know Akshara will never...

Maybe not for the classic YRKKH audience but Duniya main sab kuch ho raha hai...Morally wrong things happen everywhere.

Nothing is surprising or unrealistic other than great grandparents looking so young or immortal.

I love and support Abhimanyu because in the end he only does what the writers want him to do... I am just happy his character is not revolving around Ruhi anymore even though she is lovely... and I want Ruhi to realize that Akshara is the most important person in her Poppy's life...so blaming the characters doesn't really make sense.

If Abhi can go mad and turn 360 degrees because his brother died and he lost his twins....(that didn't actually made sense because Akshara wanted them more than he did... but again nothing does on ITV) so can Abhinav Jee turn 360 degrees when he gets to experience Abhi/Akshu 's love ... why is that so hard to believe. People change in life and it is always over stupid and non reasonable reasons that people turn good or bad...there is a very fine line for someone to turn bad or grey. Abhinav getting all villainous for the fear of losing Akshara and Abhir is totally understandable... that will be his reason of turning bad just as Abhimanyu did, when his bro died and he stopped caring and forgot everything he had for Akshara... and again it all goes back to the writers.

All the characters are mere pawns in the writers hands.

I don't know about others, but the men in my life do not normally (not even in situations of crisis unless they have a mental condition) behave this way and the women in my wife do not believe this to be their normal behavior.

And I believe people are well within their rights to share their opinions and criticisms regarding a fictional character that has been created by the writers to cater to their needs. We spend our precious time and our hard earned money to watch these characters. So we are totally entitled to point out the things that we disagree with. Abhimanyu is not a real person. He is a fictional character creatod by the writers. So it is a given that the criticism too is directed towards them.

If it is an extra marital affair, then it should be treated like just that. There shouldn't be any attempts made to hide it under the garbs of divine relationship and other such drivel.

I am of the same opinion that we should never compare itv characters with real life characters. Itv does not work like that. On top of that writers keep on getting changed.

Every writer wil not have time to go back and watch 14 years worth epi in one day and write the script for next day.

I believe there was recent interview of radhika madan where she said how itv works where scripts are handed over just before the shoot. There is no chance of changing it as they have tight timelines.

All other asian shows or us shows the scripts are written in advance and they have just n number of epis and it will get over within that.

But itv keeps on going it's hard for writers to remember what they did in past unless they are so dedicated and organized and they have not switched.

In order to keep it going they will randomly pick tracks from other itv shows and try to mix everything but i personally feel we should not judge characters based on bad writings.

They will tend to change based on trp demands and writers as writers know what works for itv and they always tend to take less risk on the cost of killing a character but can't blame them too as they are also humans.

And every thursday trp pressure is again pressing point for them as after seeing the trp they either have to change track or reshoot everything. If ITV did not had trp pressure may be abhimanyu would have been what he was before.

There are lot many good shows where ml and fl are stable but we all know what's its trp. Itv audience likes these contents. If we can not adjust to it we should look for some other shows as itv is always been like this and it's not new.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I am of the same opinion that we should never compare itv characters with real life characters. Itv does not work like that. On top of that writers keep on getting changed.

Every writer wil not have time to go back and watch 14 years worth epi in one day and write the script for next day.

I believe there was recent interview of radhika madan where she said how itv works where scripts are handed over just before the shoot. There is no chance of changing it as they have tight timelines.

All other asian shows or us shows the scripts are written in advance and they have just n number of epis and it will get over within that.

But itv keeps on going it's hard for writers to remember what they did in past unless they are so dedicated and organized and they have not switched.

In order to keep it going they will randomly pick tracks from other itv shows and try to mix everything but i personally feel we should not judge characters based on bad writings.

They will tend to change based on trp demands and writers as writers know what works for itv and they always tend to take less risk on the cost of killing a character but can't blame them too as they are also humans.

And every thursday trp pressure is again pressing point for them as after seeing the trp they either have to change track or reshoot everything. If ITV did not had trp pressure may be abhimanyu would have been what he was before.

There are lot many good shows where ml and fl are stable but we all know what's its trp. Itv audience likes these contents. If we can not adjust to it we should look for some other shows as itv is always been like this and it's not new.

@bold: doesn't mean it can't and shouldn't change.

Exactly. And only constructive criticism can make that possible. A decade ago, ML cheating on the fl, having one night stands with the vamp was a very common story line. But they don't show it anymore because they know that the audience will not accept it.

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Exactly. And only constructive criticism can make that possible. A decade ago, ML cheating on the fl, having one night stands with the vamp was a very common story line. But they don't show it anymore because they know that the audience will not accept it.

Yes..there was a show called silsila badalte rishton ka where audience totally rejected the ema of the ml .

Here , they do everything but try to pass it on as divine love and soul mates when there is nothing as such .

Originally posted by: neenzz

@bold: doesn't mean it can't and shouldn't change.

Since when have the yrkkh writers actually cared what the audience want?! Seriously. When they killed Naira off and brought Sirat in COUNTLESS people kept asking the CVs/producers to bring her back instead of having Sirat. People legit flooded the instagrams and the twitters with hashtags. They didn't care. That's why I keep telling people on here too, having expectations from this stupid show is futile and even asking them to change is pointless. They don't gaf lol. Even if they bring Abhira back together, they're gonna separate them again lol like they did with Kaira several times. Relationships have been made into a mockery. We're just fools for getting attached to these fictional itv shows over and over again when we know how they end up (myself included) lmao. I guess we like being tortured haha.

Yeh rishta kya kehlata hai? Bakwas kehlata hai.