looks or attitude what is more imp.? - Page 19

Debate topic - Bumped for Lighthouse😊

Originally posted by: huda_aalekh

Today I want to discuss the most important topic

the topic is

looks or talent/attitude what is more important?
for example u all know that govinda is very talented actor but he doesn't gain popularity like SRK i m not sayin that SRK is not a good actor but if he didn't have a looks he will not known by King Khan govinda is not goodlooking that's why he is not a superstar.

2nd thing,whenever we go to see a girl for bro or any relatives we see her looks before her talent why we do this?why look is more important
there r many parents whose daughter are not so beautiful but they r very talented,but we want an angel.

3rd,a girl wants to be an air hostess but she is not beautiful and tall what will she do?because air hostess must be looks like angel right?

If i said something wrong according to u then feel free to tell me
share ur views.

Bumped for Lighthouse:

My very first post on this thread - if you really want to see my true stand rather than the one I was forced to take😊

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

It's more like what came first - the chicken or the egg kind of debate 😆

I feel both the looks and attitude are equally important. Together they help create a personality with that "x-factor" which leaves all spellbound 😊

Have seen some quite goodlooking people with a bad attitude and some average looking people with great attitude. It was the latter that created a good first impression. Attitude, like looks, is for all to see during the very first visit. Therefore, I feel it is as important as the looks. Of course, there are various combos out there with best being great looks along with a great attitude and the worst being.....butt ugly with bad attitude AND delusional people thinking they look awsome 😆

As far as ladki "dekhna" - if I'm not mistaken, don't folks narrow down to the ones with great looks along with education and family background based on the resume and the photo that are circulated among prospective grooms 😆 Of course by the time one gets to the stage of "dekhney" jana, all else has been taken care of via chhaan-been from padosi and rishteydaar 😆 and only "dekhna" is left...phir looks hee toh dekhey jayengey na 😆 Even there, I feel, people do note the attitude as well as it makes for the complete package one is out there "dekhing" 😆

Waisey looks do fade with time unless one is super careful but great attitude stays😃 So, I would say that initial attraction is based on both looks and attitude but down the road, it's the attitude that decides the longevity of that initial attraction😊

As far as learning to carry a great attitude - true. One could either learn or fake a great attitude just like one can buy looks now a days if they are not averse to going under the knife😉 Toh phir nateeja kya nikla......money beats it all😛😆 One can afford not only shopping for looks with money but attitude comes along with it as well😉

Bumped for Lighthouse:

Reaction of another debator after I made the post I bumped before this one for your reference.

Originally posted by: chatbuster

lol. looks like we can be having another great "debate" saying we're on both sides. 😉

arre yaar, dekhne mein achee hogi, toh usse nach gana sikha denge. matakna aur nakhre karna toh aa hee jayega. aur itna kaafi naheen, toh usse dusvi kaksha ke exams bhee pass karva denge. aur kuch? 😛 😆

Bumped for Lighthouse again.

This is how I ended up picking only "attitude"

Hope things are clear now and in perspective.

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

@ chatbuster:

woh toh hai kyoonki dekhney mein achhee hone key saath saath baki sab pehley sey hee achha hua toh kya tum hee bachey ho jis key palley woh bandhna chaheygi 😛 ...j/k...okie 😆

jokes apart - if we have to pick just one over the other then I'll go with a great attitude😃 most things, money can buy....for everything else the attitude gotta be just right😉

@ Lighthouse:

I am now finding myself reiterating the same points over and over again - that is - the debate premise and what the thread opener meant by attitude. She used attitude and talent interchangeably. If it is still not clear, then really, I can't say or post anything else to make it any more clear 😊

Huda was not talking about first attractions or crushes. She was asking about personal and professional decisions having a long term impact on a person's life. How can one sail through life depending on "only" looks is beyond my comprehension.

@Huda: You asked a great question. Thanks for starting a good debatable topic.

Cheers- Gauri

Originally posted by: chatbuster

arent we going too far with characterizing what was there as condemnation? poor choice of word - dismissive,maybe?😕as for generalizations, arent the folks who take what celebs have to say and try to exterpolate it to other guys, doing the generalization first?😉 and did I say they were right??? 😕werent u generalizing when u were joining in the laughter surrounding pretty gals making dumb statements?😉 it would take you a while to go through all the posts I made, but find me the one where i joined in the laughter. are all pretty gals dumb? or all handome guys stupid? one didnt see the same consistent concern for generalizations back then😉😉😉 read all my posts, CB and show me a single one where I have done the kind of generalisation you talk of. Are you sure, you are not confusing me with someone else??? 😉

and since u bring all this up, sorry if one mistook all the questioning and other remarks as spamming.😊

You are obviously reading too much in my posts. I would prefer attitude to looks for a long-term relationship, but I have no aversion to admiring good looks when I come across them. I have said it earlier and I repeat it again. 😊

Whatever had to be discussed about Looks or Attitude, every point has been stated by all, and now it is simply repeating the same stuff again and again.

Let's accept that while some prefer looks some like attitude more and each one is justified to their choice.Lets respect others opinion and earn respect that way.

Since there is nothing new to add, its time now to call an end to this discussion more because members seem to getting personal now leaving the actual debate way behind.

Topic closed.