looks or attitude what is more imp.?

i'd say looks are more important. with the right looks, one can acquire the right attitude. 😉 skills and talent too can be developed, but it's much harder to have those transformations with looks. ok, unless she's cinderella and the clock hasnt struck midnight 😊

btw, kaun kisi aur ke liye ladki dekhne jaata hai? one goes to see her for oneself, and keep the best ones for oneself. 😉 and the keyword here is "dekhna". we're not exactly interested in giving her an IQ test, or have her sing like a canary, sting like a bee or dance like mike tyson in a boxing ring 😉

It's more like what came first - the chicken or the egg kind of debate 😆

I feel both the looks and attitude are equally important. Together they help create a personality with that "x-factor" which leaves all spellbound 😊

Have seen some quite goodlooking people with a bad attitude and some average looking people with great attitude. It was the latter that created a good first impression. Attitude, like looks, is for all to see during the very first visit. Therefore, I feel it is as important as the looks. Of course, there are various combos out there with best being great looks along with a great attitude and the worst being.....butt ugly with bad attitude AND delusional people thinking they look awsome 😆

As far as ladki "dekhna" - if I'm not mistaken, don't folks narrow down to the ones with great looks along with education and family background based on the resume and the photo that are circulated among prospective grooms 😆 Of course by the time one gets to the stage of "dekhney" jana, all else has been taken care of via chhaan-been from padosi and rishteydaar 😆 and only "dekhna" is left...phir looks hee toh dekhey jayengey na 😆 Even there, I feel, people do note the attitude as well as it makes for the complete package one is out there "dekhing" 😆

Waisey looks do fade with time unless one is super careful but great attitude stays😃 So, I would say that initial attraction is based on both looks and attitude but down the road, it's the attitude that decides the longevity of that initial attraction😊

As far as learning to carry a great attitude - true. One could either learn or fake a great attitude just like one can buy looks now a days if they are not averse to going under the knife😉 Toh phir nateeja kya nikla......money beats it all😛😆 One can afford not only shopping for looks with money but attitude comes along with it as well😉

lol. looks like we can be having another great "debate" saying we're on both sides. 😉

arre yaar, dekhne mein achee hogi, toh usse nach gana sikha denge. matakna aur nakhre karna toh aa hee jayega. aur itna kaafi naheen, toh usse dusvi kaksha ke exams bhee pass karva denge. aur kuch? 😛 😆

@ chatbuster:

woh toh hai kyoonki dekhney mein achhee hone key saath saath baki sab pehley sey hee achha hua toh kya tum hee bachey ho jis key palley woh bandhna chaheygi 😛 ...j/k...okie 😆

jokes apart - if we have to pick just one over the other then I'll go with a great attitude😃 most things, money can buy....for everything else the attitude gotta be just right😉

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

@ chatbuster:

woh toh hai kyoonki dekhney mein achhee hone key saath saath baki sab pehley sey hee achha hua toh kya tum hee bachey ho jis key palley woh bandhna chaheygi 😛 ...j/k...okie 😆

lagta toh kuch aisa hee hai.😉

jokes apart - if we have to pick just one over the other then I'll go with a great attitude😃 most things, money can buy....for everything else the attitude gotta be just right😉

nothing that cant be picked up attending a good personality development course. but yes, one does have to know about such things first.😉

attitude and no looks is like all hat, no cattle.😉

Good joke..Govinda is a talented actor and SRK has great looks.. 😕 😕 🤣 more like Govinda is a talented dancer and SRK is passionate performer. In the looks dept both are equally below average..😛 there are far more handsome and beautiful actors who never make it past producers front door so in entertainment industry it is not just about looks, but all things being equal a good looking person will be liked more.

Ok... In life, looks are preferred because beauty translates into happiness, confidence and has a feel good quality to it. nothing wrong with that just like some people have brains , others have beauty. An idiot may have all good intentions but wouldn't be hired as an executive. 😊 Airlines spend a lot of money to establish their brand image and to attract passengers, it seems to be working.my husband doesn't mind paying extra to fly Kingfisher when he is in India. 😛

But overall I feel after looks , it is passion that makes the difference. Merit, confidence and class can somewhat be developed or bought but passion is from within. Being passionate in whatever one does , even if it is in making and serving tea makes one attractive. 😉

Originally posted by: chatbuster

attitude and no looks is like all hat, no cattle.😉

but that's an extreme you are talking about. Very few people fall in to either side of the spectrum of beauty/looks. Most are somewhere in the middle with average looks. Attitude counts no matter where on the spectrum one is. Why to compare only the extreme ends in that case😊

life mein aur bhi bahut kuchh chahiye survive karney key liye. I would like to keep this topic gender neutral as attitude and looks are important for both the genders. For me, ladka agar sirf good looking ho toh kisi kaam ka naheen😆

May be it's just that Mars vs Venus thingy that's resulting in the different perceptions for you and me😊

attitude.
There can be a really cute guy...but what if he's a serial killer U neverrr knowww.

i would always look for a hot chic with an attitude... 😆

looks before everything else....