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Okay I loved Nimrit & Sumbulās parts the most yesterday!
1. Nimrit - She explained everything perfectly. She said that yes, she understood later that it would look wrong to the world but thatās her relationship with her dad, she has tantrums with him and acts like a 10 year old brat with him. Salman made the valid point that Papa was explaining the same thing that I have previously, about individuality, and itās all because we see the potential in you.
I gotta admit, with the impressive way she answered Salmanās questions, I can see potential too but I think she shouldāve waited a while before coming on BB, she shouldāve given it more time after getting off her anxiety meds.
What I donāt agree with is Salmanās blanket statement that parents donāt have to praise their children. Sorry but no, itās each to their own but many of us donāt believe that. I remember at around 10/11 having this convo with my dad and I told him that I wonāt become arrogant if you praise me, I know you grew up differently but in our relationship, praise will be seen as encouragement and it wonāt go to my head, it will give me confidence. And I used to nok-jhok and force him to praise me š So yeah, that statement by Salman is definitely contentious.
Nimrit also answered back well to Priyankaās view on her being lost - I canāt shout and argue about food all the time.š
If only Nimrit was obsessed with Prenka and her game, she couldāve retorted - Youāre lost yourself and youāve become ShaTinaās to-and-fro š but alas. š
2. Sumbul - Salmanās conclusion about her was really good. He was basically saying that she is a person who would rather suffer herself than go against those sheās formed a bond with - whether itās family outside or bonds inside. And I also agree with that Shahid clip about people who canāt say no and itās easy to take advantage of them - she strikes me as someone like that too.
Iāve also seen from a few instances in the house that she is also someone who, (and I have come across this before with a friend) when something happens, her first thought isnāt how dare this person do that, her first thought is, what did I do?
I remember being astounded once when a friend was like this, I was talking to them and this other āfriendā was wronging her and she was like, I just want to know what problem do they have with me, what am I doing wrong? I totally blasted her, tried to make her see sense. I really hope that after BB, and as she gets older, Sumbul has people in her life who advise her how she should be viewing situations, how to stick up for herself etc.
In BB, Sumbul has displayed this with Shalin and Sajid. There was one time Nimrit had a really good 121 with her and I really liked that scene. I canāt fully remember but it was quite some weeks back. Sumbul was sitting by the pool I think and Shalin said something to her. In her later convo with Nimmo, Sumbul said something like āI donāt want him to look badā and then Nimmo told her - Dude, who gives an F about him.. you should be thinking about yourself, your dad has told you to keep away for a good reason, think about yourself and donāt worry about how he looks.ā
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